i'm having trouble getting over my ex... here two months later, i still love her... i know it's over, but i remember what we had and realizing it isn't anymore is painful... i'm also seperated from my dearest Chuckles the undead horse... my musclecar, she went to a transmission shop, been there 2 weeks... this transmission i overhauled 7ish months ago... i also suffer from lack of funds because my boss... neglects to pay for indeterminate amounts of time
This is the most amazing thing I think I've seen on anything like this I'm down now actually discussing things on this site has really helped things are looking up but there are other people on here I'm guessing that do you need to encourage mint and if anybody needs anything look up on her profile and hit me up I will listen I know how it is
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Ya know I tried to do the right thing and be there for my family and stay around here and all it got me was being stuck inside with people brainwashed by the media who are fucking crazy. I am depressed most of the time now because this is worse than any virus.
Exactly I mean I am guessing most of these cases are the flu or just people with a cough or fever. How can they say the cases are rising so rapidly but they don't have enough tests to test these people? They are just calling it Corona virus when it is the common cold or flu.
Stupidest thing ever... I am angry about something that didn't even happened to me. Problem is I am angry about it for 11 years now. Not joking! It's a situation that I know it relates to me in some form due to my family problems, but still never happened to me directly. Still hearing about people that went through it... I can't get over it. It burns my soul to the point I had to stop mid car drive to shout really loud, vomit and punch everything around me. How can I stop being so angry over something that I have no control over or direct influence since it didn't happen to me? Stupidest thing ever!
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It was very nice of you to start this to try and help. But sometimes people are just messed up with no solution whatsoever.
The biggest problem is some people don't want one and prefer to stay in the box that they have become accustomed to. It they weren't they wouldn't be staying there :)
The best solution that I know of for that is to help other people, volunteer somewhere and get your mind off of yourself and your anger for awhile and see what you can do to improve the world around you for someone that will appreciate it. That will do much to alleviate your anger.
This is a great question and I am thrilled that you are doing it. I am sure that I have episodic depression right now and feel pretty shitty about a few other things as well in my life. I would love to say that I will share my problems with GAG, but in general, I don't like to talk about myself and would rather help others with their problems and struggle through my problems in silence. Still a fantastic question and I applaud you for posting it. :)
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Lost my almost 9 year career car was stolen same night 2 broken rims. Damaged donut hole in my front bumper. It was either pay out of pocket or my rate goes up like crazy. 😥 i know ill be ok and things will be ok tho once i get this fixed in the next couple weeks. Im ok for the most part
Sometimes life just likes to give us a hard smack to make sure we are still awake. At least it isn't anything mental and you weren't hurt, except financially of course. Keep pushing through the slaps and I am glad that everything is ok for the most part.
Be careful what you wish for, you will never have peace if you ask strangers to share their troubles xD
I'm personally doing great. I have a few things holding me back here and there, but ultimately my life is my own and I don't have anything to complain too much about.
If you asked this question yesterday, my answer would've been that I was depressed and borderline suicidal due to the rapidly declining state of our society and how lonely I've felt all these years. But now that I've found something that's brought joy back into my life I'm in the best mood I've had in years! And it's all thanks to no longer giving a damn about the well-being of people who don't deserve compassion and fully embracing cynicism!
there's something to be said for "not giving a damn". To be honest, that was a huge turning point for me. But funny thing is... by not giving a damn, it freed me up to feel better and to give a damn in the right way, so I'm even more caring:)?
The problem is that my brain constantly produces too much cortisol for me to deal with thanks to my upbringing. Honestly, I'm just waiting for and looking forward to the day when I finally snap and successfully off myself. Its gonna be the best day of my life.😑
You correctly responded "my upbringing". The good news is you are a normal human being. The bad news is you are in a world that projects negative, low vibration emotions that you are admitting you don't like. Either you had it really good and can't stand what you see, or you had it really bad, and can't stand how you feel. You see the sick all around you, and you are right in that, and it brings out the worst of you. When you get a better perspective on the problem, when your own heart is in a good place, then you engage the sick and have empathy for those who abused you and who are ill (emotionally). One way out is to just die... end the life 50 years before it's cycled time limit. The other is to welcome different viewpoint, starting with yourself, in a good way. That is the choice we all have. Some people are in a much more harsh reality than I had, so I will not judge. The right perspective puts your own emotions in the right place, so you can feel good about yourself and others, without taking on the "flaws" of the world, which is beyond your ability. If you are functioning out of "honor", others sickness is that much harder to handle.
Narcissistic Personality Disorder ruled my household growing up, so I had it really bad. As bad as you'd imagine if you know anything about NPD. Everything is just hopeless. And I want it to be over with already.
I do but didn't experience as a child. That would be awful and probably create a lot of rage, self abuse, etc.. confusing feelings. maybe even various personalities. I know people who have been through awful and came out whole. There are spiritual gifts hidden underneath all that oppression. It's all just emotions in your sub conscious mind, they seem hard to change, but healing those enables the others to grow, then you find a whole "you" that you didn't know even existed. It's like... an acorn hiding in the soil... stuck in a shell... until it finds its way out and sprouts... becomes a might tree! A Much different view! It's your life to own...
Truth to be told, if I knew I was going to die tomorrow then I would be because there are things I need to get done before I die and if I don't... I'll come back as a ****ing ghost to make sure I do.
That is OK Ms CWG. I would still like to acknowledge your dilemma and let you know that I will be thinking of you and am sending out good wishes and vibes for a new day tomorrow filled with positive energy to fill your spirit and uplift you in every way possible!
Yeah, I... Honestly don't know why. I've sorta always been this way if that makes sense. I never knew how it was to have the mental strength to get up early or how somebody could forget the total negativity around them. It may have just been a part of my OTHER issues, but Depression's simply been a matter of life thing for me.
I am sorry to hear that. Would you like to talk about what is going on with your life that is making the depression worse? If not, that is ok also; either way, I am here to help
Yes! ... I feel your pain, I also love to be around people and just today all 4 of my health clubs I am a member of said they are closed for business until further notice :(
Luckily I have my own home gym, but it is not the same without the large numbers of people around to mingle with.
I thought it was just you. I am too tired right now to handle a whole group of people. Besides, there will be lots of "internet doctors" recommending vitamins and better diets and crap like that on here. I am glad you and me are ok.
oh, chocolate sounds good. Some chocolate for dessert, throwing on some PJ's, and watching a great movie sounds great, lol. I am glad that life is good right now for you. Keep eating that wonderfully tasty chocolate :).
ah, that is a bummer. If only chocolate was healthy for us; I like to believe that in heaven we can lose weight while shoving our face in a massive chocolate cake, lol. Are you in a coronavirus quarantine?
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i'm having trouble getting over my ex... here two months later, i still love her... i know it's over, but i remember what we had and realizing it isn't anymore is painful... i'm also seperated from my dearest Chuckles the undead horse... my musclecar, she went to a transmission shop, been there 2 weeks... this transmission i overhauled 7ish months ago... i also suffer from lack of funds because my boss... neglects to pay for indeterminate amounts of time
Tell me, what advice would you offer another in your same circumstance if you really wanted to help them?
This is the most amazing thing I think I've seen on anything like this I'm down now actually discussing things on this site has really helped things are looking up but there are other people on here I'm guessing that do you need to encourage mint and if anybody needs anything look up on her profile and hit me up I will listen I know how it is
Ya know I tried to do the right thing and be there for my family and stay around here and all it got me was being stuck inside with people brainwashed by the media who are fucking crazy. I am depressed most of the time now because this is worse than any virus.
We may be on the same page... just saying
It is crazy isn't it? Being in this situation?
Yes, and having to deal with the fake media!
Exactly I mean I am guessing most of these cases are the flu or just people with a cough or fever. How can they say the cases are rising so rapidly but they don't have enough tests to test these people? They are just calling it Corona virus when it is the common cold or flu.
Yes, maybe.
I think we just have to let the dust settle and we will find out what is really going on... you think?
I don't think we will ever really know the truth about it I just can't wait until this is over.
Stupidest thing ever...
I am angry about something that didn't even happened to me.
Problem is I am angry about it for 11 years now. Not joking!
It's a situation that I know it relates to me in some form due to my family problems, but still never happened to me directly. Still hearing about people that went through it... I can't get over it.
It burns my soul to the point I had to stop mid car drive to shout really loud, vomit and punch everything around me.
How can I stop being so angry over something that I have no control over or direct influence since it didn't happen to me?
Stupidest thing ever!
It was very nice of you to start this to try and help. But sometimes people are just messed up with no solution whatsoever.
The biggest problem is some people don't want one and prefer to stay in the box that they have become accustomed to. It they weren't they wouldn't be staying there :)
Believe me I wish I could leave the box I am at.
Do you have any advice for me?
Well, you said your problem is an anger problem.
Yes!
The best solution that I know of for that is to help other people, volunteer somewhere and get your mind off of yourself and your anger for awhile and see what you can do to improve the world around you for someone that will appreciate it. That will do much to alleviate your anger.
I can try that. Why not?
Yes, never giving up and making wise choices is the key to success.
I am routing for you! :)
This is a great question and I am thrilled that you are doing it. I am sure that I have episodic depression right now and feel pretty shitty about a few other things as well in my life. I would love to say that I will share my problems with GAG, but in general, I don't like to talk about myself and would rather help others with their problems and struggle through my problems in silence.
Still a fantastic question and I applaud you for posting it. :)
Lost my almost 9 year career car was stolen same night 2 broken rims. Damaged donut hole in my front bumper. It was either pay out of pocket or my rate goes up like crazy. 😥 i know ill be ok and things will be ok tho once i get this fixed in the next couple weeks. Im ok for the most part
Sometimes life just likes to give us a hard smack to make sure we are still awake. At least it isn't anything mental and you weren't hurt, except financially of course. Keep pushing through the slaps and I am glad that everything is ok for the most part.
Just keep swimmin
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My grandma died last night. I can't feel anything right now but i know its coming. Im gonna break and there's nothing i can do to stop it.
Awe you poor thing :(
I am so sorry that you lost your grandmother. No one will ever replace her for you, I know!
Please accept this as my hug for you! ...
Thanks.
You're welcome sweetie! ... hang in there and get lots of real hugs from your family please to help you through this!
Be careful what you wish for, you will never have peace if you ask strangers to share their troubles xD
I'm personally doing great. I have a few things holding me back here and there, but ultimately my life is my own and I don't have anything to complain too much about.
If you asked this question yesterday, my answer would've been that I was depressed and borderline suicidal due to the rapidly declining state of our society and how lonely I've felt all these years. But now that I've found something that's brought joy back into my life I'm in the best mood I've had in years! And it's all thanks to no longer giving a damn about the well-being of people who don't deserve compassion and fully embracing cynicism!
there's something to be said for "not giving a damn". To be honest, that was a huge turning point for me. But funny thing is... by not giving a damn, it freed me up to feel better and to give a damn in the right way, so I'm even more caring:)?
I think you need to look into getting your hormones in balance... lol
The problem is that my brain constantly produces too much cortisol for me to deal with thanks to my upbringing. Honestly, I'm just waiting for and looking forward to the day when I finally snap and successfully off myself. Its gonna be the best day of my life.😑
The day you begin making wise choices with be your best day not a day of selfishness.
Call this number immediately Mr Yeshua, SUICIDE HOTLINE: (800)273-8255 I'M NOT KIDDING!!!
You correctly responded "my upbringing". The good news is you are a normal human being. The bad news is you are in a world that projects negative, low vibration emotions that you are admitting you don't like. Either you had it really good and can't stand what you see, or you had it really bad, and can't stand how you feel. You see the sick all around you, and you are right in that, and it brings out the worst of you.
When you get a better perspective on the problem, when your own heart is in a good place, then you engage the sick and have empathy for those who abused you and who are ill (emotionally). One way out is to just die... end the life 50 years before it's cycled time limit. The other is to welcome different viewpoint, starting with yourself, in a good way. That is the choice we all have. Some people are in a much more harsh reality than I had, so I will not judge. The right perspective puts your own emotions in the right place, so you can feel good about yourself and others, without taking on the "flaws" of the world, which is beyond your ability. If you are functioning out of "honor", others sickness is that much harder to handle.
Narcissistic Personality Disorder ruled my household growing up, so I had it really bad. As bad as you'd imagine if you know anything about NPD. Everything is just hopeless. And I want it to be over with already.
Please see my last message to you Mr Yeshua!
I do but didn't experience as a child. That would be awful and probably create a lot of rage, self abuse, etc.. confusing feelings. maybe even various personalities. I know people who have been through awful and came out whole. There are spiritual gifts hidden underneath all that oppression. It's all just emotions in your sub conscious mind, they seem hard to change, but healing those enables the others to grow, then you find a whole "you" that you didn't know even existed. It's like... an acorn hiding in the soil... stuck in a shell... until it finds its way out and sprouts... becomes a might tree! A Much different view! It's your life to own...
No, I'm very well, thank you.
Truth to be told, if I knew I was going to die tomorrow then I would be because there are things I need to get done before I die and if I don't... I'll come back as a ****ing ghost to make sure I do.
Wish I could answer all of them.. wish i could vote all of them yeah I'm down in the dumps but i rather not say why
That is OK Ms CWG. I would still like to acknowledge your dilemma and let you know that I will be thinking of you and am sending out good wishes and vibes for a new day tomorrow filled with positive energy to fill your spirit and uplift you in every way possible!
Thank u and I love the kitty u sent me
... that's my way of giving you a hug! :)
And if you love cats please read the myTake I wrote about them...
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Yeah, I... Honestly don't know why. I've sorta always been this way if that makes sense. I never knew how it was to have the mental strength to get up early or how somebody could forget the total negativity around them. It may have just been a part of my OTHER issues, but Depression's simply been a matter of life thing for me.
It doesn't have to be. Condemnation of one's self if not a given.
Yes, i'm miserable, because of personal problems, the world, worried for family members, i suffer from depression anyway but things are getting worse.
Thank you so much for your message Ms Cindy.
Please tell me, do you know the reason for your depression and/or when it started?
I am sorry to hear that. Would you like to talk about what is going on with your life that is making the depression worse? If not, that is ok also; either way, I am here to help
it started when i was young but it gets better and worse, are you happy?
and reasons vary
@Ceasar97 thank you :)
You're welcome
Just a bit bored because I love people but crowds are basically banned.
Yes! ... I feel your pain, I also love to be around people and just today all 4 of my health clubs I am a member of said they are closed for business until further notice :(
Luckily I have my own home gym, but it is not the same without the large numbers of people around to mingle with.
Right now, I actually feel kind of... happy...
But I am terrible at cheering other people up, but not saying I would not like to though!
I'm not depressed, but i'm pretty good at helping people who are. Do you have any idea what is wrong or do you just feel terrible?
I am fine but look at some of the other opinions. There are others in need of advice so feel free to reply to their opinions on this post!
I thought it was just you. I am too tired right now to handle a whole group of people. Besides, there will be lots of "internet doctors" recommending vitamins and better diets and crap like that on here. I am glad you and me are ok.
Well, if you saw just one you could help that would be nice but no matter, thank you for your opinion and concern.
Sleep tight :)
Thanks, you too. I do too much of this at work to be honest.
I was. Till i started stripping. Now im so busy balancing uni, money, and stripping. I make a lot so that helped lol
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I'm down but not out. I'm always fighting. I will never give up.
Good for you! ... that inspires us all!
Thanks, Laurie!
You're welcome :)
no, i had dinner and i eat chocolate and life is good rn
oh, chocolate sounds good. Some chocolate for dessert, throwing on some PJ's, and watching a great movie sounds great, lol. I am glad that life is good right now for you. Keep eating that wonderfully tasty chocolate :).
@Ceasar97 day 6: happiness cost me a few pounds
ah, that is a bummer. If only chocolate was healthy for us; I like to believe that in heaven we can lose weight while shoving our face in a massive chocolate cake, lol.
Are you in a coronavirus quarantine?
@Ceasar97 whole Europe :)
And soon all of America, unfortunately. Are you remaining at least a little entertained or is it all boring?
@Ceasar97 would you accept my request so we dont bother the OP on here?
For past one week i m very much in depressive state. I don't know how to overcome it.
Try porn and masturbation... :)
Is it so?