Had a crush on a guy for 5 years?

[Anonymous]

I’ve had a crush on this guy for over 5 years. He’s everything I’ve wanted. He’s pretty outgoing and is popular. However, I’m a bit of an introvert. The last time I saw him was 2 years ago and my boyfriend made me block all guys on my Instagram. My boyfriend of almost 3 years is so rude to my mother and I. I miss this guy like crazy but it’s obvious that I’m not in his league. What to do?

[Cynicaldreamer]

First off, dump your current boyfriend. If you're unhappy with him, which it doesn't sound like you are, you shouldn't be with him.

As for your crush? See if you can reconnect with him somehow... add him on social media, or if you know any of his friends, see how he's doing and if he's still single.

Talk to him and ask about him. Yeah I know, you're an introvert, but ask him about himself and get him to talking and opening up. You don't know what his "league" is until you get to know him better first. Who knows, he might have had a crush on you! But you won't know unless you talk to him.

[assumeimhere]

first of all , your guy sounds like trouble and toxic , leave that guy , start loving yourself and find the guy you miss and just tell him what you feel , consider this as your part , now what will happen next is fate

[Asker]

I’ve talked to him. When I see him, for example, at my old church, he would always wave and greet me. I, an introvert just say hi back shyly and move on :( but it’s been 2 years now since I haven’t seen him because I don’t go to that church anymore. My boyfriend won’t let me speak to guys. He goes to boarding school and I can’t see him often

[assumeimhere]

well if you don't love your current guy , first try leaving him, that wya you'll have the freedom to scout out for your dream guy and then you confess yourself , be strong girl

[Asker]

The reason why I can’t break up with him is because my family and his family have some business together... therefore I’m financially dependent on him

[assumeimhere]

woah, then if you really really want to leave your boyfriend , then go talk to one your parents , or someone you're close to

[Asker]

My mom doesn’t want me to date him anymore he’s very rude to my mom as well and he almost punched me

[Mrswright077]

Move on