Whenever I’m not in the mood and I tell him that he gets all mad at me and starts getting depressed. We had a talk about this before, well it was him telling me that me not wanting sex makes him feel like I don’t love him anymore, which isn’t the case. So I felt bad and I’m a giving person so I said I’ll try to give him more sex. But sex is feeling like a chore now. It’s not fun at all and he goes way too hard for my liking. But this is where I’m getting at for my question. I try to tell him that my chest area is sore please don’t touch them and he said he doesn’t care. He also did this with sex positions that go way too deep for me because his thing is on the bigger side and sometimes it’s too much but he doesn’t listen. I just feel like I’m a sex object to him. He only cuddles for sex and nothing else. I’m tired of giving up my body to please him when I am not happy. Plus an added note: he also said, when he tried to have a conversation with me, that he doesn’t understand why I wouldn’t want apex when there are plenty of girls who would want big white dick. See now I just feel horrible and insecure. I am starting to hate myself because I feel like I’m not a person he loved anymore. I feel like he only loves me when I’m naked in front of him.
Why does it feel like I am just a sex object to my boyfriend?
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