Love makes you weak, true or false?

[chriscdi]

id have to say its true cause i feel like I've been weakened when im in love 🙃

[mamasan]

I think it's a combination of both. I think love makes you weaker when it comes to the one you love, meaning you have a soft spot and a vulnerability with them. They have the power to destroy you emotionally because you love them so much. But, with the rest of the world, I think love makes you strong. Having someone in your corner makes you feel like you can handle anything because you have someone on your side.

[chriscdi]

i agree with the first part which is what i meant, you said it perfectly

[GlitterFairy16]

It makes you vulnerable to get hurt but it can also make you feel stronger in hard times and wanna do well by that person even if it means pushing yourself to extreme lengths. Before i met my boyfriend, i didn't care to much about my life but now im with him, im fighting to make a better life for the both of us and are future.

[chriscdi]

thats good to hear, i guess it depends the way you look at it

[GlitterFairy16]

It genuinely depends on the person you're in a relationship with. It your i love with someone toxic yes i could make you feel weak but if your in love with someone great they will make your life equally as great

[chriscdi]

that depends, sometimes it can fuck you up in a healthy relationship too, happened to me

[GlitterFairy16]

Well what went wrong?

[chriscdi]

she broke up with me, she made it seem like it was my paranoia which i admit it was my fault there cause i was paranoid about her at some point (tough background) i apologized and everything and we made up, few days later she said she can't forget about it and that we should break up, its seems a bit more silly and funny than something that should insult her i thought she was working for the mexican stalker i had years ago, and tbh i have my good reasons to believe so, anyways point is that i honestly just believe she got bored of me and dipped, after all i went out of my way for her a lot, id drop everything to attend her when she needed it, i think she just didn't find it attractive and well she found an excuse to leave me, mostly after she went so cold after the breakup like she never even had feelings for me, like she lost interest and well its the only reason she forgot me so quick, or maybe she was a mexican crazy and when i exposed her she left haha, either ways i was in love so i was always there for her, i believe she just wanted to convince herself that the reason was me when it was probably just her, either ways i feel like love betrayed me and fucked me up at the end, if i wasn't in love with her, i wouldve been different 🙃

[Unit1]

It can be if you let it.
have you ever seen a man and his woman anywhere (malls, gas station, grocery store, pharmacy, drive tru at McDonald's or anywhere...) (possibly with their kids) and his girlfriend/wife treats him like crap, disrespects him, insults him, is possibly even fat and talks him down? Yeah, don't be that weak guy. I bet he forgives her everything every single time. He's got no balls.

[jamesgoldman]

True, it opens up a new weakness that can be exploited... I like to keep my medical stuff on the quiet but my mother will tell everyone and the amount of people who know my weaknesses is quite disconcerting

[chriscdi]

yea i guess only some people can see it

[Apple1996]

Not necessarily weak but love does make us all go a little crazy which could bring out some of our weaknesses. 😆

[Carmen96]

50/50. As a couple, you are stronger cuz you have someone you can rely on and work together with but at the same time, you are weak with the other. It's like 2 poles holding up a piece of wood. Together you balance the piece of wood and it's strong and sturdy. But if one pole breaks or is weak, it can break the piece of wood and damage and hurt the other pole (if that makes sense. I feel like my analogy sucks)

[nerdybutlazy]

Not really it depends on the person, the idea of love itself is a beautiful thing, love can't makes you weak it can just make you open up. it's only people that take advantage of that

[chriscdi]

this is a nice way to think of it but love takes more than it gives, it might feel good when you have it but when it all comes crashing down, its where it starts taking and having a life lasting love is nearly impossible, which is what everyone wants but not everyone gets 🤷🏽‍♂️

[nerdybutlazy]

I dont about that I've seen some beautiful relationship around me I think it depends on people trying work at it but you right not everyone gets the love they want but I still like to think love is worth it

[chriscdi]

its only worth it when you win

[nerdybutlazy]

If that's how you feel I can't change that

[Alyssa11]

I've put up with really shitty situations in the past because I loved that person. Defo look back now and think why?

[chriscdi]

see so i was right, it does lol

[LEYvh]

Love doesn’t make you weak, abstaining from forming and maintaining strong relationships-self sabotage- for concern of being hurt or mocked (E. g. “whipped) does. Cheesy as it is, if we didn’t hurt, we wouldn’t be able to recognize happiness and opportunity when it’s near us.

[bobalife]

Interesting question! I believe it makes one fragile, vulnerable, and have a soft spot for someone. But I think real love isn’t weak or painful. Love is such a wonderful yet powerful word/feeling. Therefore, I’d say false :)

[cjgsu]

Nope. It's weak if someone is too afraid to open they heart

[chriscdi]

i tried that, ended with a heartbreak 🤷🏽‍♂️

[cjgsu]

Once?
was it 1 time and you quit.

[chriscdi]

yea she was perfect, youd feel unmotivated too if you were in this position lol

mostly after she said so much how i can open up to her ha

[cjgsu]

How long ago was it?

[chriscdi]

I don't know like 4 months ago maybe

[cjgsu]

Oh. It's new. Don't give up.

[chriscdi]

im sure ill get back to it, just not now lol

[cjgsu]

Good. Get yaself together.

[chriscdi]

lol.

[Kiss_Me]

You are mistaking being strong as being hard. They are NOT the same thing. Its up to you to distinguish which is which. Until that epiphany hits, you are still holding on to your little boy status.

[VIVANT]

Imho if love strengthens the courageous and weakens the cowards...

If love makes you feel weak : you’re not in love or you’re not doing it right or you’re a narcissist <~~ they can all overlap 😛🤷‍♀️😁😎👌💗 🤗

[chriscdi]

by weak it means it makes me easy to push around, i treat the person so well it spoils them and they end up trying to step over me, its what i mean, if i didn't care for the person id bash their head against the concrete if they tick me off

[havingfun101]

Love is a series of brain chemicals. Marriage, cohabitation and childbirth are at all time lows and women file 75% of divorces. The question is: why let women make you weak when sex robot toys for men are so cheap?

[rico701]

What about when you are loved? Do you feel weak then? There is no stronger reality than love

[chriscdi]

then your experience was different than mine, i feel like who im talking about never loved me so it was just me putting in work and made me look pathetic, it can be the reason why i feel weak, cause im not getting no love back 🤷🏽‍♂️

[Smoke-n-Growls]

Personally I find love makes me stronger. I can persevere through quite a lot if love is my motivation.

[pleasestopthis]

Yes but it also makes you strong in other ways. People who love are able to go to extreme lengths and endure a lot of things for the sake of their loved ones.

[RainInOsaka]

I go weak, I hate it. I wish I could be more stronger in a relationship

[BCA6010]

Weak? No, but it certainly screws with people's judgement.

[bhuvandiablo]

Bro it depends sometimes it increases one person life aomtimes it makes us loose everything

[Sevenpointfive]

why do you feel weakened? if only she can make you feel this way?

[Anonymous]

It's letting all guards down. Trusting all things with that person. Being vulnerable and thats something you can't do anymore realistically. So love is other things that I haven't discovered because I quit trying.

[Phoenix98]

See and I feel the opposite I don't feel weak at all when I love someone, if anything it helps make me stronger.

[garrysingh638]

happy and strong. Break up make you more strong and hard to trust on love again

[MemeSupreme]

yeah but it's worth the risk of it doing that

[chriscdi]

agree to disagree

[CreamySeed]

Yes it does, you open your emotional connections to the person and build up trust that when broken have driven people into a murderous rage. Broken hearts are devastating.

[mirabelscopt]

Hmmmm nothing but the truth

[PetrovaFire92]

I guess. Then you end up not thinking straight or clearly.

[uknown789]

its depends but love kindness and being nice makes a person great

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

You go overboard with it then yes and you can subject yourself to being taken advantage of too.

[msc545]

It makes you weak in some ways, stronger in others.

[vivmatt]

True. To be in love is to be extremely vulnerable

[Flower7]

Yes, I believe that's true.

[Gwenhwyfar]

False. Love makes you strong.

[mirabelscopt]

So you think you can't love again or?

[chriscdi]

i know i could, i just dont know if i want too

[mirabelscopt]

Wow it's becoming a personal decision of you

[chriscdi]

yep, when i run into someone else i believe its worth it then ill go for it, i found a few people tho so ill keep em around

[mirabelscopt]

Oh ok good but the truth is u just have to make yourself prepared for it for its obvious you won't like to have ya past relationships incidents take place again

[chriscdi]

yea thats true, i got a lot to work on tbh

[mirabelscopt]

Oh ok good

[mirabelscopt]

Everyone do have a past but we gotta keep moving

[chriscdi]

yep true that 💯

[mirabelscopt]

Oh ok so where you from

[chriscdi]

why does that matter 😂

[mirabelscopt]

Never mind sorry I asked

[chriscdi]

it doesn't matter im just curious lol

[mirabelscopt]

Don't worry was only thinking we could be friends tho

[chriscdi]

we could, i live in florida lol 💯👌😁

[mirabelscopt]

Funny anyway I live in Maryland

[chriscdi]

how is it there? 🙃

[mirabelscopt]

It's good here and how is it over there

[chriscdi]

well... lol

[mirabelscopt]

Ok good sorry where in Florida you from

[chriscdi]

miami its a beautiful place just the people eh

[mirabelscopt]

Well that's true been there twice tho

[mirabelscopt]

Good morning

[pigoat]

Not black and white

It's a grayish area

[Kelly6]

Depends how you define weak

[martinxdenver]

True... If you let it.

[igaveyouanickname]

True. It's a form of insanity.

[mrArcher]

If it does, it's not love.

[The_unknown_memer]

No but it makes you strong for the wrong reasons

[ItsTheNephilim]

Vulnerable? Yes. Weak? Not necessarily.

[rapfan107]

True love does things to you 🤪

[MannMitAntworten]

It is a momentary lapse of reason...

[belle_kai]

Only if you let it

[KrakenAttackin]

Love makes you vulnerable which is a weakness.

[bush123]

Yes I believe it iv seen it happen

[PaganWarrior]

False.

[Sabretooth]

makes you stronger, too.

[InferiorElegy]

It does.

[Anonymous]

True. Anger makes you stronger

[chriscdi]

but it blinds you

[sheikalana]

False.

[rames54]

Yes me any way

[mirabelscopt]

In what sense

[Anonymous]

Weak and stupid.