Is getting a girlfriend harder than getting a job?

[Anonymous]

It wasn't that difficult to get a job. But man o man getting a girlfriend is the complete opposite. It's very difficult and feels almost impossible for me. Any other guys feel this way?

[btbc92]

Getting a job is like relationships. It's hard for whoever is hard for. For others, it comes naturally, for some it doesn't. Jobs and relationships always were harder for me. Period. When I was open to dating, men didn't want to wait for marriage to have sex, they didn't want to marry young. But they wanted in my panties. They shamed me for being a virgin and everything else. They didn't want to be friends first and get to know me. Jobs are the same. They didn't want to get to know me because I didn't meet their credentials or what they wanted in an employee. SUPOSIEDLY. I have seen one person or even people who didn't fit or in a similar situation or even less as me. They hired them. It's about your spirit and your soul. If you don't come off the way they want you, it won't matter.

It also depends on your intent. To be honest it's not hard at all. People are just often selfish for selfish reasons. You won't be compatible with everybody. You can only be compatible with 1 person basically. Or at least 10 people in life. 3 your highly compatible with, 3 a big maybe, and 4 your only friends with. But in the end, your only going to be with 1 and chose 1. So it's mostly about finding where your most fit. Others get guys or women immediately. So for them, all they need to commit to 1, they're married the next day or week. For me. That is not me. Never was me. That was or is one of my friends or so. They get men immediately, but it's mainly lust from these men. The rest is looks, spirit, etc. That isn't me. I basically get lust with men when I was younger, and it greatly discouraged me from bothering besides being hurt and trashed talked for no reason because I rejected their sexual advances. They made me feel low because they were already like that.

It's not that it's impossible for you. You just need to know a few things about what you're doing. It's about intent. People are told wrong about relationships, the opposite sex, etc. Not everybody will be given to marriage. Not everybody is going to have sex, or kids, or a partner. Not everybody is born for that. People have to decide what it is that their doing. Humans are not toys on a shelf. We're people. So in truth, you need to get to know PEOPLE. Particularly women and form relationships by having friendships with the women you desire to get to know just like your male friends. It's actually that easy. Just remember like I had to learn the hard way, not everybody wants to be your friend. Or date you. Just part of life.

[Unit1]

Yeah. Getting a girlfriend is so difficult, that we'll bond much easier and faster with prostitutes like in the movie "Pretty Woman".

[DonaldBiden]

So ironic I was thinking about this today. It actually is.

[Anonymous]

Yeah because their are too many social behaviors guys have to know

[Jamie05rhs]

That all depends how long you want to keep her.