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Will I ever find a guy who will love me as much as I love them? (Page 2)
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You definitelly will find love! I would say you look kinda cute and nice (solid 6-7 out of 10), you look good without make-up yet a bit of lipstick would not hurt (it is just a feedback, it isn't supposed to sound superficial).
In my opinion the look is only half of the attractiveness of women and the other half comes from her charm and wits.
Just as much as we appreciate the surface beauty we fall in love because of those small things you do. It may be the way you laught or eat, the way you are passionate about your hobbies or the way you wrinkle the eyebrows when you are thinking about something
What I want to say, the looks is what gets our attention, the charm and wits is what turns it into love.
Here's a conversation that I know you can have. If you stick to your script then I know that this is what is going to happen:
You: "Hey, would you fuck me?"
Any heterosexual guy: "Yes... You down?"
You: "No, U R ugly and gay, why would I ever want to fuck you!"
The same guy: "Oh *sadface*"
Honestly if it's relationships you're after then your appearance is very often the very last thing you should worry about. Why? because most guys would fuck a hole in the ground and if you're good enough to have sex with then it's just a question of personality when it comes to relationships really.
First of all to me you look very attractive. And I am not saying that just to make you feel good. There is something special about the way you look and I think it is very appealing.
Next... it's not a competition. You are not competing with other girls. You are yourself, and they are who they are. Just be yourself and live your life. Maybe focus less on needing to meet someone so desperately. Work on your own life... making it happy for you. You cannot have a relationship with someone else unless you are happy with yourself first.
If you give off bad vibes, like you are not happy with yourself, it makes it harder to meet someone.
I think you are really cute. Remember, you don't have to attract everyone, just one special person has to come along who sees the good in you. It will probably happen when you least expect it. So be patient and work on other things that make you happy. It will happen.
I'm sure someone will find you attractive. But a relationship is more than that.
It's about finding someone you're compatible with. That's the tricky thing.
I think you look cute and I have seen plenty of unattractive people in relationships, so looks are not something you need to be worried about.
Be sure to be comfortable in your own body and life and that will be attractive.
I am in accordance with what @OlderAndWiser has said, if you can really show your beauty, it would be a plus. Not only would you feel better about yourself, but more guys would look at you. You really shouldn’t bother to care what other people think though, you are beautiful just the way you are. If you want to feel better, you can try working out. It has worked wonders for me, and I’m sure it could for you. Maybe instead of pursuing attention on dating sites, go out into bars (depending on where you live, with the virus and everything) and meet people there! Trust me when I say you’ll have a stronger impact on people if you start up a conversation irl. When they see you on a screen, they will judge you based off of your looks. If you can practice talking to one stranger a day (or per week, try to set a goal) then you’ll get better and talking to people, therefore becoming more emotionally impacting, and people will remember you more and under a more positive light.
I've been on dating sites, but every guy wants a hookup from me and I'm not up for that
"Dating" apps, despite seeing success in few cases that are not the norm, are not for finding a relationship. If you want to find sombody to truly grow a relationship with. My best advice is to look in groups of people with the same hobby as yourself. Find people with common interests. Spend time with them and for the love of God. Be direct. Don't beat around the bush. Dont drop hints. 2 of my best friends have been married 7 years now and she was the one that asked him out. Guys arnt good with the games that girls play. And the ones that are good are usualy labeled as fuck boi.
Oh girl, I went through this for years. Always thought something was wrong with me because no guys liked me. Many guys often go for what is easy rather than what is quality.
You WILL find someone trust me. Just remember to focus mainly on yourself and one day you will find him. Quality men are attracted to women who love themselves first.
Sure, but you don't love much to begin with, not even yourself. Hence why no one wants to take you on as a mental patient project.
Not being mean, kiddo. Just be realistic and understand that if you can't lift yourself, then don't expect others to do so out the goodness of their heart.
Your comment "I honestly have really low self esteem" would suggest that you are the cause of not meeting boys. They can sense how needy you are and it scares them off. Cut the self pity, grow yourself a pair, and march out there and flirt with someone you want as a friend. If the photo with this post is you, it is obvious that you must learn to smile openly and then you'll have to beat boys off with a club. Go Girl !
I'm probably going to catch flack for this, but if you want a man; present yourself like a lady. Simillarly, many girls would say that guys in suits look 10x better than guys wearing street clothes. Same thing, maybe try out a sundress and ditch the "i'm a cat lady" beanie.
You look fine, and attractiveness is anyhow multidimensional.
It’s hard to say what the problem is just from what you’ve posted. What sort of guy are you looking for? How old are you willing to go? Joe far away can he live? And so on.
You have a pretty face but I think you can work on your style to be fair.
What image you would like to give of yourself?
Stylish? Classy? Artsy? Simple? Sporty?
Right now I really can't tell what you want nor does it flatter you or help you stand out.
Everyone can have low self esteem, intact a lot of people do;they're just really good at masking it. Work on improving your confidence, do things that will make you change how you feel about yourself. You are not stuck this way , you can change & will change. You're still young, don't be too hard on yourself your life is not set in stone and you're capable of so much things & getting what you want. You are not ugly and shouldn't feel that way ever. Good luck!
*infact
by the way just a tip , I'm sure as you know appearance is big when trying to attract guys so I suggest you to improve on that and maybe just some things and try something new. You'll get the idea.
*try some things
I think your attractive and beggers can't be choosers when picking a girl and I don't see anything wrong with your appearance, I like the idea that you tell the truth that also helps you to be attractive (( Hugs ))
Love works in mysterious ways & I always say I have a better chance of getting hit by lightning on a submarine however lightning can strike & love will kick you in the @$$ when you least expect it. Sexy all the way you are & remember that.
I think you’re very pretty!! I believe you’ll find someone one day. You seem like a very sweet person. Try going out to places you enjoy more. Confidence makes everyone look better!! I’m here to text if you want.
You have potential, but you are very unflattering right now, you need a major makeover with hair, you might also want to get rid of the hat and get some more “wild”clothes
I like your eyes but, you need one of them Korean drama makeovers. I highly suggest that you improve your style, and maybe play around with makeup.
If you’re looking for a serious relationship then try expanding your social circles.
love isn't conditional, just because you love someone they don't have to love you in return, however it is nice when it happens, get to liking someone first and let that go where it goes,
It’s so sad to see so many people telling you to change into society’s standards of beauty. Just because you don’t have the latest trending top or shoes. You are beautiful in your own way, there is someone for everyone. And if you have to change yourself to find someone, then darling he’s not it.
Lack of confidence is the only thing holding you back. Find who you are, who you want to be, and be you confidentially.