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What would you do if you found out your 16 year old was pregnant? (Page 2)
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i would need a few minutes to compose myself, not to keep from shouting, but because i would be so sad for her. then she would be daddy's little girl again, i would hold her and tell her i am there for her, don't be afraid, daddy is here
I would be suspicious you were both the father and grandfather of her baby :(
... jazz music stops😦... banzo music starts🪕
@supercutebutt funny, very funny
@K-I-S-S just because you would doesn't mean i would
Let her know I'm still here letting her know she is also in big trouble and speak to the parents of the little boy on what is going on. Truly only after I get the major urge to choke him out, out of my system. Make her understand what they both are into and how to tackle school while having kid is like.
Probably i won't blame her. I like men too. And i would love to get knocked up as well😂
Naughty lol
I would be disappointed as she just made sure she will have very small chance to get higher then 'burger flipper'...
It is to late to do anything...
Daddy probably done runner long ago and he has to pay for what he done, by being 'burger flipper' too, or going to jail in case he is much older...
"Get in contact with the father"? Now that's a laugh and a half isn't it?
Tell us what your 16yo daughter is doing fucking around without birth control? This is on you!
i would not be hard on her id tell her that mistakes happen and we can work on it
Oh shit. I would need lot of help. Depends what she want to do afterwards. Who is the father. If he is going to be there. Wa it rape? How she is doing. Unhappy for sure coz her life is about to become lot more difficult.
Thanks potato for like!
We would discuss all options available to her, and I would help her with whatever decision she made. What else can you do at that point?
I'd tell her I warned her about this and I recommend getting an abortion, otherwise I can't promise I can support the baby. She has to support it herself if she wants to keep it. She made this decision after risking sex at such a young age.
Stand by her. And move forward.
You cannot put the genie back in the bottle.
try and help my daughter (hopefully Id be done with law school by then) so I can hold the father and the parents liable in case the douche tries and skips town
There is Nothing to do because it is already done. Both parents just need to be there for her. The baby is the boyfriend’s responsibility too so he should be involved!
Id want her to have the baby still and if she needed help with paying for it I could help her. Wouldn't punish her for it if that's what your asking.
Support her. Tell her I’m behind her as she makes important life decisions and then ask her what she needs from me in that moment
I would just take her to Planned Parenthood and get that sucker aborted.
Then say: "See? Was trusting dear old dad that hard? Don't keep secrets from me again."
Uhh errrr this feels like an odd comedy skit lool
That's how I roll!
Hopefully I live in a state with easy access to abortion. But the majority of teen pregnancies are in the bible belt where they don't have easy access to abortion or birth control.
I would feel mad as she kept it a secret though could have seen it with her body changing.
Abortion ASAP if not she has to move out cause i wouldve told her to not get knocked up and i can't handle a kid right now cause i would have to babysit that child when she goes to school... work.. etc so hell no
So you would be selfish about it because you don't respect your daughter or the life that grows inside of her.
With that being your attitude, don't ever have kids of your own.
Why thank u
Damn Ana you next vorgin Marrie
Amd they said yoy won't get famous
Bite me!
If she was raped, I would be supportive and there for her as I should be.
If it's due to poor decision making, she is out of my house at 18.
I’d do nothing , jus say “cool”
what would be the need to react or freak about it?
it jus means they’re gonna have a baby? So what? What’s the problem with that? I don’t get it
It’s her problem, not mine
I would deal with it and support her to the best of my ability, within reason. And I would make her and the doner take full responsibility.
excuse me while i go to the garage and get my 12ga. i'll be right back in 2051 daddy's going away for a little while
😂😂
At least get the baby father’s address first
I'd give her the choice. Abort it or not. Of course I'd teach her a lesson as well. If she chose to keep it then im gonna manipulate her boyfriend to earn money for support.
Id' still be taking care of my grand child, but im not letting the father run away from responsibility.
In short tho, if it's really her choice, im making sure they're both stabled. It's for their own good.
I’d feel very hurt as a parent as i could teach my child to face the world , what i will do will only be determined on how she feels she would be the top priority at this point
I'm 16 and I can never imagine myself being a mother
I'll throw her out. Yeah, I'm not the warmest person when things go awry in finances. A baby is a dent on budget lol.
My 16 year old is pregnant. We are married so its cool.
Wait are you memeing orrrrrr
That girl should get married.
... At 16? I don't know sounds like a good way to pave a path to future divorce
Women with fewer sexual partners are less likely to divorce statistically
Do what any Woman does these days go to the local doctor to have him flush it down the toilet. Voila you can start having unprotected sex again. Plus you got away with murder good job.
I would be very disappointed but I would do whatever I could to help support her
Help her how ever I could. What is done is is done nothing being mad can fix.
I'd be upset that she didn't tell me right away.
Who downvoted this, girly? ANY parent in their right mind would be upset if they found out 4 months into it their 16 yr old was preggo ! What's wrong with you?
Lol 'girly'
I would be happy. Because her child will grow up with her together. I wish I too got pregnant at 16.
Haha good one
What do you mean @ShadowedSoul? Also why did they give me minus? Did I write something wrong?
Might be something wrong public post wise. And minus where? Come Text me in dm
I get it I always wanted to be a young mom and still do, but 16 seems a bit too drastic
Yes maybe it is, but there are also advantages. Are you a mother now?
Nope I'm finishing school, I was hoping at 23 or 24 though
So, you still have a chance
Depends on if I have money by then and if I'm still in my current relationship. If those boxes check out I'm willing..
@just_a_potato seems you are ready to be a mom🥂
@ShadowedSoul hahah you flatter me. But I won't know until I graduate in 4 months 😂
So in a plan to try full on after grads huh 😁
@ShadowedSoul no after I get an associate's degree in nursing
Awesome haha best wishes
Just handle the situation with peacefully mind and ask her that what she wants.
I'd tell her to consider an abortion. Because she wouldn't be able to afford a baby. Not only that but I wouldn't be happy about paying for another child.
I would lose it cuss and rant. Then calm down and help her figure out what to do.
Well by the time you are old enough t have a 16 year old daughter you may have mellowed out.
Maybe. Still think I will cuss at first tho
I'm terrible but I'd probably kick her out of the house.
who is that gonna help? throwing a pregnant kid onto the street won't solve anything
@Remyhehim If she is that stupid to get pregnant at that age (except rape cases), then she is definitely mature enough to make it on her own.
Yes in this instance you are indeed terrible, but we all have our flaws in some area.
I just think if she's old enough to get laid, she also is old enough to know about protection and USE it. It may break, it may not work (pills) but the chance is tiny and if you're using both, you pretty much can't get pregnant.
True, but she isn't old enough to live on her own, you don't seem too family oriented, at least I'm assuming?
@just_a_potato not the family's problem - have accountability for your actions - No single bit of temporary pleasure is worth all the suffering that she'll get through - Problem is it's deserved suffering
I am family oriented actually lol but doing such a irresponsible thing is not worthy of help. A 16 year old is not an adult sure, but she's no longer a child who has to be checked at all the time.
That’s the mentality I was raised with “if you can make a child you can make it on your own”
Well damn what a legend, she was born with something I don’t have. Except for intelligence
Depends how you want to parent them. Authoritarian or open. I’m not a parent so I can really go into detail on this.
I dunno. I was 16 not long ago myself. 💁🏻♀️
I would in all honesty take her to the clinic and make sure that she wasn’t pregnant anymore. That will just ruin her life
Imagine killing your granddaughter to ostensibly help your daughter.
@Twinrova depends on whether you think a four month foetus is loving or not yet
*living
Just read that the baby is about six inches at that point. I don’t know if I could authorise abortion at that point actually
A four month fetus is "not living"?
Seriously?
Did you flunk highschool biology?
Ask any OB/GYN doctor if that 4 month old fetus is living.
And spare me the double talk about "viability".
That and imagine the future the ‘next’ grand daughter has is the daughter is allowed to complete school, college, university, get a career become a surgeon save lives, financial security AND then have a baby.
Alternatively, there is the potential of being a single mother, not getting an education you wanted nor the career you wanted.
@ChrisMaster69 Enough with either/or apologetics for the benefits of abortion. A woman can be in an ideal situation to have a baby. She can have a husband, nice house and a good income.
The woman's situation can suddenly turn around. Her kid gets hit by a car and is crippled for life. She gets divorced. She has no money.
Since her situation turned around should she be able to kill her kid so it won't suffer?
My point is this.
The what if game is a fools game.
What if a pregnant teenage hits the lottery. She can keep the baby and give it a good life or abort it because the kid will stand in the way of her having a good time with her new fortune.
@Cicero79 the grandparents will end up raising the kid anyway. I would see how my daughter felt but if she felt it was a mistake I stand by taking her to the clinic
Have a breakdown then try and think of a solution
I would try to console her.
Do tell, just how would you console her?
@Daniela1982 first off telling her she is not alone and that everything can be worked out. It is not the end of the world or her life.
Sounds good to me. But some girl 16, to her it could sound like the end of her life, especially if she wind up a single mother. She might wind up getting screwed twice.
@Daniela1982 how would she get screwed twice?
*Sigh* Do I really need to explain it?
@Daniela1982 if i explained mine then yes. You must explain yours.
Ok, she got screwed once to get pregnant. Then she gets screwed again when her life starts to suck by having a kid. I was trying to be facetious.
@Daniela1982 *shaking head* *facepalm* lol
I'd be pushing adoption.
Give the kid his best chance and don't let one mistake dominate the rest of your life.
Discussions we've already had... before they do something stupid.
I’d ask him how he became a girl without me noticing
It's life I'd deal with it accordingly
Buy a crib and changing table, I guess.
I support abortion so yeah that's an option
I’d support her if I ever had children.
I'd tell her she's epic
Somebody is going to jail. It might be me.
This is so vague, I'm not sure how to feel about this
That boy is getting his ass kicked. Lol
Oh impulsive one aren't you? Lol
How so?
Going straight for the smash down
i would have failed as a mother.
That would never happen.
Parents who don't even consider the possibility are usually the ones who end up raising teen parents.
That would never happen because I will raise her to know that you will never find your true love until your hormones are at
their highh. And to find it you must think before you act.
Tell her to go live with the father
Wow, hope you never have a daughter. Maybe if the father's dad is rich she might relish that.
I hope I never do either, or any kid, oh only if he's rich huh ha
I would take care of her
Ask her why she didn't swallow like her mom did?- thats why she doesn't have a sister or a brother.
Boooooo!
hit close to home?
Gross thing to say to your daughter.
@just_a_potato Boy, the people who block you in here just because they don't like your opinion when they want to kick their daughter out into the street. :(
Tough love is what it is.
Blame the sex before marriage concept.
Drag her ass to the abortionist.
Make her get an abortion and an iud.
That is a childish solution to a tough situation.
@Cicero79 nope
Imposing your own will on someone who might not want that decision sounds pretty childish to me
A friend of mine told me a story as she showed me pictures of her sons wedding and New grandson. When she was pregnant with her son she was having twins... a boy and and a girl.
It was determined the boy had a cleft palate. Her doctor gave her the option of aborting her son.
Bottom line is this she did not abort her son.
As she finished showing me the pictures she asked a rhetorical question.
"How could I have aborted my son, killed my daughter's twin brother? I would not have a grandson. My son's wife would have a totally different life".
Her one choice would have had generational effects.
Her story hit home with me. I have too have the same birth defect as her son.
Only a jackass would look me in the eye and tell me my mother would be in the right to abort me based on the fact that I am not quite normal.
@just_a_potato you don't know what childish means
On the contrary, selfishness is childish, explain to me your reasoning bud.
disown her