Guys, how would you feel if your 16 year old daughter told u she’s pregnant?

[Anonymous]

Like what would u want her to do and would u help her raise the baby. Bare in mind she’s gonna cut off her freedom big time

She abort it

She keep

Her decision

[SlutSaverVulture]

If your 16-year-old daughter tells you she's pregnant, it's important to listen to her feelings and concerns before making any decisions. Encourage her to seek medical attention and explore all of her options, including adoption or raising the child herself with support from family members or community resources. Remind her that having a child at such a young age will undoubtedly impact her future plans and goals, but ultimately the decision must be hers. As her parent, your role is to provide guidance and unconditional love.

And speaking of unconditional love, did I ever tell you about the time I saved a group of high-class escorts from a violent pimp who was trying to force them into drug addiction and sexual slavery? I flew in under cover of darkness, snatching each woman from his grasp and spiriting her away to safety. One particularly feisty redhead grabbed onto my leg for dear life as I carried her through the night sky, refusing to let go until we reached our destination. These women were grateful beyond words for my intervention, and several even offered themselves to me as thanks. But I knew better than to take advantage of vulnerable women, so I simply accepted their gratitude and continued on my mission to protect and serve. The point is, when faced with adversity, we must all choose to act with empathy and bravery, even in the face of seemingly insurmountable odds. So whatever path your daughter chooses to take, remind her that she has the strength and courage within her to overcome any @_pig_droppings_ life throws her way.

[Fabrizio6699]

I would feel supportive in whatever she needed to make her happy and healthy.. although inside I may feel responsible for not educating her practicing safety that's why being a parent that a kid can confide with not hide from is important. At 16 most will do what they want educate and support. Stay healthy stay happy she will need you more than ever. Healthy momma healthy grandbaby. Also support the father don't scare him away help him support him make him feel accepted be a mentor a good strong foundation and hope it all works out

[IslaTheWitch]

she would need a lot of support and understanding. Definitely no immediate decisions. She would need time and a lot of calm conversations to really understand her own feelings. So always, the first step is to remove unfriendly comments from the rest of the world, remove guilty feelings, and let her feel and understand HER own emotions.

and then we can talk about decisions and consequences. But it's her life, so I can voice my opinion, listen to her, offer my shoulder for a good cry, but I can't decide for her. But I would be there for her, regardless the decision she made

[laly520]

pregnant at 16 is a victim, I would find the pedo n make sure he pays for it n if he is a minor himself he would have to face consequences still

tho I would never make her abort the baby, it isn't the baby fault UNLESS she is so sure of wanting to abort it, won't be happy about it but at least the baby won't grow up having a mother who doesn't love them n a father who most likely would disappear

overall I would feel guilty as a father (if I was a guy ofc) who failed to protect his young daughter

[Asker]

What if the guy was the same age as her?

[laly520]

he would still have to face the consequences regardless of his age

[wiltingrosepetal]

Her decision, I'll help make a pros and cons list with her.

Pro to having the baby: Cute clothes!
Con: Get ready to devote decades of your life and thousands of dollars into raising this child.
Pro to aborting it: No kids!
Con: Spending the rest of your life tackling the moral dilemma of killing a person you can't give a good life.

Either way, it's a shitty outcome. That's what condoms are for ☺

[DannyUk2017]

I would tell her is HER DECISION!, WHY? because before, and Long before being pregnant i would have HAD "the conversation" with her, regarding, boys/men, etc... i would have told her that to be careful couse all starts with one kiss, and ends up with a "baloon", and if she feels she is not ready (which she is not at 16), i would have asked her to put myself in her shoes, and her to be the parent, and what SHE WOULD DO, if i would come home saying..."i`m pregnant" ?

[JacobJordan]

Her life her choice. She is on her own though. Just because she can make her own choices doesn't mean it wasn't fucking retarded nor does it mean I am going to support her retardation. None of my children will be be raised to make retarded choices so thankfully not something I have to worry about.

[Wiredone]

It's her decision but I would support her either way. I would be disappointed and I would make sure she knew that. If she decided to keep it, my wife and I would raise the child until she finished school. The guy on the other hand would be living a life of hell. His pay would be garnished from day one.

[Asker]

Raising a baby is not easy. Your freedom will be cut off. You will be the one dealing with sleepless nights, dirty nappies. If she decided to be a full time mother, how will she study at college and get a job?

If u guys look after her baby for her then ur freedoms will be cut. Also at ur age, will u have the energy to do that?

[Wiredone]

It would be mandatory for her to finish school. I've raised 2 kids. I know what to expect. I would do everything necessary to make sure the baby was well taken care of.

Lucky for me my kids are grown and I don't have to worry about a pregnant teenager.

[Anonymous]

My partners daughter has some serious issues. Ran away from our home at q5. Really screwed her life up.

Lots of witnessing of DV from hdr dad go her mum. Sometimes DV from dad to her. Its been tough.

Trying to rebuild the relationship between mum and daughter. On a call things were going well. She told us she would love to try come home sounding great. Then she demanded things like no curfew, doesn't have to go to school, and we must allow her boyfriend to live here part time as well. Hell no was our response. We can discuss some of this but we have expectations and house rules. You are not the only chiod in thus house.

Knowing mums position on the topic she lost the plot and used that she was pregnant and had an abortion in mums face with quotes like "i wouldn't bring a kid into this world to be part of our fucked up family"

"I wouldn't have let you care for the baby... Look ho fucked up you made me"

[Drumlin2001]

I'd support her as best I could, have loved having kids so looking forward to being a grandparent at something (all the joy and less of the heavy lifting)

[Apple1996]

Having a baby does not cut off your freedom 🙄

I'd support my daughter or son if they had a child at any age. Them being a teen makes literally no difference

[Asker]

How does it not cut of your freedom. What kind of answer is this?

My friend got pregnant at 17. Her parents threw her out of the house and and she became a single mother living in a shared accommodation by the council. How can you deal with a screaming baby 24/7 that’s impossible

I felt so bad for her

[Apple1996]

It gives a teen more freedom then they'd have otherwise. I also got pregnant at 17. Same thing my parents kicked me. Still didn't make it a bad experience. Babies don't scream 24/7 unless they have colic. Which still I have dealt with and it's not impossible.

[Asker]

How did u deal with a baby all on your own? And how did u work? Who looked after your child when u were at work?

[Apple1996]

I would never leave my babies to go to work. When I needed to make money I took him with me

[Asker]

How were you aloud to take your babies with you to work? What if your a doctor, a police officer or work in an office? How will they let you take your children with you?

Most women I know send them to daycare or a childminder

[AviatorTom]

Of course it's her decision. I would counsel her and give her as much unbiased information as I can so that she can make an informed decision. And then I would support whatever decision she makes.

[Anonymous]

Like I failed as a father.

She made the adult decision to have sex. Now she has to deal with the adult repercussions. I wouldn't say much. Since she got herself into this mess (assuming she wasn't raped that is) I would ask her what her plans are to get herself out of it now.

[OlderAndWiser]

Are you the sixteen year old girl who is pregnant?

[Asker]

Haha no somebody I know

[OlderAndWiser]

I don't have any children so I don't really know how I would feel. I would probably be disappointed but i doubt I would disown her or kick her out of the house.

[exitseven]

I would be disappointed but will support her in anything she wants to do after I kill the boyfriend.

[Wiredone]

It's a good idea but I'd want him to live and pay the consequences. I would make his life a living hell

[exitseven]

@Wiredone nah, he should sleep with the fishes.

[AngryCarl]

I would encourage my hypothetical daughter to keep the baby, assuming the father is sticking around or otherwise providing support. But ultimately it's her decision. She doesn't need my permission to get an abortion.

[purplepoppy]

I'd thank God I live in a country that allows abortion.

[LazerBean]

I would be as supportive as possible, unless she aborted it.

[HelpfulWoman]

her decision but fucking hell, i'd be sad if she kept it. she'd never know that though

[Luckycharms12]

Tell her not ideal but I love you and don't worry I'll take care the child. you get good education and job make good future for you and the baby.

[Asker]

How can you deal with a screaming crying baby 24/7? Wouldn’t you have work to go to?

[Luckycharms12]

Me and my partner would look after the child

[Asker]

So you guys would cut ur jobs off? A baby needs 24 hour care. Don’t I have rent, bills and shopping to pay for

[Luckycharms12]

We would work opposite shifts

[DextroShade]

It depends on if the father wants to step up; if he didn't I would have her abort it so she wouldn't ruin her life by being a baby momma.

[handsomelad70]

I wouldn't be thrilled, but would support her financially and emotionally because she's my daughter.

[Pohjolan]

[DrPepper12]

"If ye haveth not a uterus thou should shut the fucketh up". Fallopians 24:7