I don't know how I feel about my boyfriend?

[heyhey100]

We've been dating for about 7 months and I have had this weird feeling about the whole state of our relationship. I love him, and I have never had a relationship with someone the way I do with him, but sometimes I feel like something has been missing. I've compared my relationship to online relationships (which I know is not a good thing, no need to preach to the choir), I feel like he doesn't listen to me over facetime, I don't even know how compatible we actually are. I have this idea of what someone who is in love with me does, and I don't feel like he fits that script sometimes. I don't know how to feel about these feelings because I know that I self-sabotage myself with no good reason, and I don't know if that is one of those feelings or if its my intuition. I want him to do small cute things for me, I want to do romantic things with and for him but I don't feel like he would appreciate the sentiment the way I would. I don't know what to do or what not to do

[VenusXO]

Your best bet is to talk to him. Ask him how he prefers to show and be shown love and affection. And then bring up how you show love and affection and how you prefer it to ve shown to you.

About the compatibility, you would have to take some time, sit down and really think about what you want in a relationship. Figure out your non negotiable. Do all of that without him in mind, only think for yourself and what you want. After you have done that and have your list, see how he compares to what you truly want and need.

Ultimately, you have to do what's best for you. Good luck love💕

[Mayahpink]

I would honestly try talking to him and see if he feels the same interest as you. If not maybe you have to think about what will make you happy in the long run.

[Anonymous]

i assume he was the one who talked to you first or asked you out first