How do I stop burning bridges?

[hellohruu]

This habit is ruining my life because I always cut off people who could be my friends or even partners and I always want to stay over my life but I don’t know how or why I even feel the need to do this but I don’t achieve anything. Help anyone 😣

[caring__1]

This is common with impulsive insecure people. They find it easier to throw away whatever exists and start over from scratch rather than face reality and fine tune the results. If we fear we don't have the ability to make things better, we just want to run away, and the result is we never learn from our experiences and we never improve our self-esteem and build our confidence. This leads us to continue making the same mistakes over and over again. Can you imagine writing a novel and having to start over from page one every time you make a typographical error? Would you ever finish that novel? I know it is scary to face our fears, but we'll never overcome them if we choose to never face them. We either have the ability or have the ability to acquire the ability. Don't start off by assuming failure. Address the challenges, and you'll find your ability to address challenges will improve and get easier with more experience.

[hellohruu]

Sounds very much like me... I immediately give up stuff if I have to work for it and it’s a terrible quality of mine so here I am :(

[caring__1]

Though you may be here right now, you have the option to be most anywhere you want to be. Focus on where you'd like to be, find a path to get there and follow through till you are where you want to be. Whatever direction we focus is the direction we go. If you focus on what you don't want, you'll get more of what you don't want. If you focus on what you do want, you'll get more of what you do want. Enjoy your choices.

[Andres77]

Some people are always going to aggravate you.
Being short or rude to others says something about your own attitude. There's a level of arrogance that needs to be controlled.
Kindness! It always pays off in the end, even if you don't get anything out of it.

[llazada]

Gotta be consistent, persistent and determined. Work on those qualities in yourself and you'll acconplish the unaccomplishable

[jeremy_09]

it's hard to do nowadays, everyone's an asshole now where in the past they used to be forgiving and not get offended by every little thing

[ChiTown33]

We need more to go on than that like what compells you to cur people off.

[Anonymous]

It's about learning to let the right ones in

[anylolone]

I love burning bridges.

[chriscdi]

stop doing it?

[hellohruu]

It’s not about stopping or not doing it, I just don’t wanna feel this way I don't know

[chriscdi]

i shall be your therapist, unlicensed therapist but still

so what exactly do you feel? 🤓🤔