Yes. It was shared in confidence. The end of the relationship doesn’t change the nature of what was said, a secret. Your current partner doesn’t deserve to know that much about someone else, and not do you.
When I go on a date with a handsome guy, if that person comes in sweatpants or shorts, I have a hard time not taking it down in public and this secret should not be learned, but the goal is to embarrass him.🙈😅😅
Yes, secrets are still secrets. If my partner will spill the beans when we're not together anymore then I don't think he is trustworthy to tell him anything too delicate
No... When ever you meet someone , don't just think before you speak , but think and feel first before you speak , whether they agree or not at least your honest. Honesty , compassion and forgiveness... you can never go wrong.
Yes, Do not bring up the past. It is better to focus on your present relationship. Bringing up the past, will must certainly lead to a very unhealthy / uncertain future.
Yes, My ex-sister is someone who like gossip like thing that do not make sense. Also my ex-brother talk about how dump I am joining the military in 1970s. Having a lot female friend in the military. I am glad that they are ex now.
As a lot of relationship questions go it depends most secrets are in the past and should not concern your current partner however some secrets are bigger or more impactful than others
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If you want something to last be truthful of your past ✌️
I agree. The best thing about telling the truth is you never have to remember what you told someone and get your stories mixed up.
Exactly ✌️
Yes. It was shared in confidence. The end of the relationship doesn’t change the nature of what was said, a secret. Your current partner doesn’t deserve to know that much about someone else, and not do you.
When I go on a date with a handsome guy, if that person comes in sweatpants or shorts, I have a hard time not taking it down in public and this secret should not be learned, but the goal is to embarrass him.🙈😅😅
Why?
I would never lie to my husband but he doesn’t need to know everything I did with my ex’s
Yes, secrets are still secrets. If my partner will spill the beans when we're not together anymore then I don't think he is trustworthy to tell him anything too delicate
No... When ever you meet someone , don't just think before you speak , but think and feel first before you speak , whether they agree or not at least your honest. Honesty , compassion and forgiveness... you can never go wrong.
Some things I can share and some things I’ll just have to take it to my grave with me. That’s life.
Depand only on yourself/the person who own them.
Personal i like to keep them secret forever and forget them.
Yeah you shouldn’t spread peoples personal stuff around that you were told in confidence just because a relationship didn’t work out
Yes, Do not bring up the past. It is better to focus on your present relationship. Bringing up the past, will must certainly lead to a very unhealthy / uncertain future.
Yes, My ex-sister is someone who like gossip like thing that do not make sense. Also my ex-brother talk about how dump I am joining the military in 1970s. Having a lot female friend in the military. I am glad that they are ex now.
Do you mean something confided from one person to the other during the past relationship?
Depends on the secret. On that same token i hide absolutely nothing from my wife.
What happened in past relationships should stay in the past unless it would affect your current relationship in a negative way.
To each their own, but it's not like the past will change who you are today, it happened. Time to make some future.
IMHO, what has happened in the past stays there until, or unless, something from the past become relevant in the present.
If it is something that could hinder a healthy current relationship... yes. If not, it serves no purpose.
It depends what the secret is. If really bad probably yeah
No, i think you should share them with your partner since it'll hurt a lot more if she finds out on her own
As a lot of relationship questions go it depends most secrets are in the past and should not concern your current partner however some secrets are bigger or more impactful than others