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A secret is buried by a lie (s) . Justifying a secret is to further the lie (s) with another lie (s) .
@Djaay not necessarily. You don't need to talk about everything about your partner to other people.
A relationship is between two , u two , not others.
@Djaay I am not sure we define a relationship secret the same way.. I see it as a secret shared between the two partners in the relationship.
I don't believe in secrets period. Relationship or public.
@Djaay ok.. then I am lost as to why you defined what a relationship is xDI appreciate that I can share personal affairs as confidential and not having the potential of everyone knowing about it :D call it lying if you want. I don't care :)
A relationship is involvement not just with another but everything they've been , everything they are , everything they mean to others as well. Personal affairs are really never personal nor personable. What would happen if everyone publically knew about your every means?
@Djaay mostly just embarrassment, like sexual interests.. but there is also making one look weak when being vulnerable, which is for example not good in many work situations.Sounds like you would be into a big brother system with complete surveillance xD I would go fucking nuts if that was the case :D stressed just thinking about it. I like having my own time, not thinking about how others perceive me.
Actually I'm in a different culture where we're open people with nothing to hide and around close quarters.
@Djaay ok, nice it works for you. But I am sure I will not function well in such a culture. I need my personal space to feel comfy and free to be myself, alone and in my close relations. Happy that is possible <3
I'm just going to be honest here and you can take it however you want. But if you have a high body count and you tell the guy your with about it that could actually damage your relationship with them. They might not ever tell you that but it's actually repulsive for most men and they will see you as cheap and not marriage material. I'm not projecting here I've been around men a long time and have lots of guy friends.
I assure you, I won't date such men.
I'm bisexual so not dating them is always an option
That's true and I wasn't passing judgement just trying to look out for you. Hope you find what it is your looking for gl
Adding to your initial explaination, it depends on what definition you use of "high body count" and how generilizable it is
I honestly have no idea. It going to vary from guy to guy tbh The red pill community teaches that whatever the woman says is the number take that and multiply it by three 😂
jimmy, what are you doing here?
Like can you tell your partner you have aborted for your ex or do you think that isn't a secret and it shouldn't be kept from your relationship
I think that's complelty upto you if u feel the need to say it or not