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Do you respect him for telling you his secrets though? Or are you just a decent person who harbors no malice just because you're no longer together. After all he trusted you enough to tell you, and they aren't your secrets to share. I think people who do that out of spite, or whatever, are pretty shitty...
@steviewundrbred I don't respect him for telling me since it made me aware of his flaws but I respect the fact he doesn't want others to know his secrets.
Everybody has flaws. Would you rather have found them on your own? Maybe your reaction would have been even stronger. I really just meant that I respect the fact that he told you, trusted you enough. This would be easier to answer if I knew what we were talking about, lol... but I also respect you for not betraying that trust. I guess it comes down to integrity. I would like my partner to know my secrets, if I wanted to move forward with her. Than she can make an informed decision on what to do. I would hope I'm not such a terrible judge of character that I told my secrets to a blabbermouth, lol.. different strokes, I guess. If it did end badly with this guy, then I respect you even more. People are quick to trash someone after a relationship fails, and you haven't. Kudos