Judgement. Either about my body or my performance. And it doesn’t matter that I have had no complaints about either my whole life, there is always that initial concern.
Being falsely accused of rape or something along those lines.
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Anonymous
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Being over self conscious about my body, will it be ok how does it match up to other girls, will he be disappointed, kind of shy so that's the biggest thing for me anyway.
That I will give them my body and then they will do me wrong so I’ll have to drop them. I don’t wanna raise my body count for nothing. It’s already too high.
In what aspect are you refering to as an act of intimacy? After all intimacy can mean sexual, mental/emotional, or it can be openly vulnerable & safe with each other. Ya gotta be a bit more specific
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Anonymous
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Just feeling the urge, my genitals aren't as sensitive as they used to be.
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Being judged for physique and possibpy performance, though always willing with fingers and tongue, and aim to please
That I'm going to unintentionally trigger some weird PTSD reaction to something that happened to her earlier in life.
Judgement. Either about my body or my performance. And it doesn’t matter that I have had no complaints about either my whole life, there is always that initial concern.
Being naked in front of someone else makes me feel super vulnerable and that's scary
Being falsely accused of rape or something along those lines.
Being over self conscious about my body, will it be ok how does it match up to other girls, will he be disappointed, kind of shy so that's the biggest thing for me anyway.
Will she find me attractive without my clothing on.. Will she think i suck in bed..
Sudden wave of insecurity about my body and performance..
That I will give them my body and then they will do me wrong so I’ll have to drop them. I don’t wanna raise my body count for nothing. It’s already too high.
Three letters: STD
I am a fanatic about my health and get checked every 6 months, no matter what.
Connecting with them, it's only happened twice, but that true connection, where you both know, impossible to forget, easy to avoid.
In what aspect are you refering to as an act of intimacy? After all intimacy can mean sexual, mental/emotional, or it can be openly vulnerable & safe with each other. Ya gotta be a bit more specific
Just feeling the urge, my genitals aren't as sensitive as they used to be.
Contraacting some type of sexually transmitted illnes or desease
"Does she bite?"
And regarding the girl in the picture, I would be scared off by her huge eyes.
Condoms somehow not working. When ever I think about I hear Jeff Goldblum repeating “Life, uh... finds a way”
That he’ll have tattoos and body piercings!
That my judgement of the person was off the mark!
Not knowing what they like to be done to pleasure them until I've been with them during sex a few times and learning what they like.
What happens if she does like having sex with me.