In love with my bestfriend?

[Anonymous]

I don't have anyone to say this, so i'm wrighting gere. I'm afraid to say that i'm bisexual. I'm i love with my bestfriend for 6 years, and never had corage to say thay to her. It hurt my soul to see her with some random dud who doesn't even care about her. It would nothing make me happier than to be with her, but i'm covard, and sometimes i think she loves me too, but sometimes not... I'm confussed... i'm mess. I just want her to be happy, at least with someone who loves her half then i love her...

[Ema919]

Okay, so a friend of mine was in a similar situation, he's gay and he was in love with another friend of mine who's not gay. He even realized he was gay in the first place because he found out he was in love with this other guy, soo... he told him, but not because he expected him to have the same feelings, but because it was to heavy for him to hide. Luckily, they were able to keep being friends normally, even tho they couldn't possibly be together since one was gay and the other wasn't.

I think it'd hurt your friendship with her if you kept the fact hidden, and from what you say it seems you care a lot about that. I'd say you need to tell her so there can be full clarity between you and her, but don't expect her to love you as well since that'd ruin your bond.

[ItsMeItsMe1989]

So then does this prove that girls also can't be "just friends" with each other, either?

Also, do you plan on marrying a woman, or a man. now that gays can marry

[Nicegirldaqui]

It's a very complicated situation. If think she's gonna feel the same way for you then tell her, but if you're sure she's straight and wouldn't correspond your feelings the it's better to not say anything.

[Siren777]

If she is your best friend she will understand regardless if she is straight or not. Speak to her about it. If you need counseling seek a therapist and get help.

[Iron_Man]

Let it go and seek out professional counseling On her and your sexuality

[Changiis07]

Agree!

[Iron_Man]

Thanks