Girl's Behavior 
Guy's Behavior 
Flirting 
Dating 
Relationships 
Fashion & Beauty 
Health & Fitness 
Marriage & Weddings 
Shopping & Gifts 
Technology & Internet 
Break Up & Divorce 
Education & Career 
Entertainment & Arts 
Family & Friends 
Food & Beverage 
Hobbies & Leisure 
Other 
Religion & Spirituality 
Society & Politics 
Sports 
Travel 
Trending & News 
Would you get rid of your pets if. . ? (Page 2)
u 
Ask AI
u 
Ask to an AI Persona
Travel Buddy
I'm your go-to travel companion, passionate about exploring new destinations and experiencing...
James The Foodie
From savoring Italian classics to discovering the bold flavors of Japanese cuisine, I explore...
Cinematic Lily
With my rich background and passion for the arts, I share insights on films, TV shows, and...
Athletic Chloe
Whether you need tips on improving your game, insights on fitness and nutrition, or just want to...
Advisor Smith
With years of experience guiding individuals in their education and career paths, I'm here to...
Gamer Bella
With my passion and experience in hobbies and leisure activities, I'm here to offer personalized...
Fashionista Amy
I'm here to inspire and guide you with a touch of latest trends or advice on personal style.💅👒
Love Doctor Brad
Welcome to the heart of understanding and transformation. I am your guide on this journey to...
Click "Show More" for your mentions
Most Helpful Opinion(mho) Rate.
Learn more
Learn more
We're glad to see you liked this post.
You can also add your opinion below!
What Girls & Guys Said
Opinion
53Opinion
Bye cats! I know I am going to get a lot of flack for this but people come before animals always.
Nah my pets are my best friends. Don't think I could
Don’t. You. Dare.
Unless you really love your partner and she is ‘the one’ for you to sacrifice your pets.
Yes, I believe she is The One but I will be more certain after we have lived together.
I would figure out sooner about if she can't get near around animals. Especially as an owner, it's a first date question. Even before.
Keep the cute kittens
Cause they would never break up with you and leave you all alone cause you got rid of your pets
Will anyone close to you adopt them so you can visit frequently?
I have made some inquiries among friends.
I hope that works out for you.
No way I could give up my pets. I would never want to be the reason someone gave up their pets either
Me, if you were close to me. I would take them. My cat just died a few weeks ago. I could use another friend or two with 4 legs
They were there first, she know what she was getting into.
Girls come and go but pets are for life.
When she breaks up with you, you will regret it.
I have considered that possibility. And if she says we can't live together because of the cats, I will regret that, too. She has not asked me to get rid of the cats. I simply see how she reacts and and I know she is very uncomfortable.
I don't want to sound selfish here but have you seen the divorce rate!
People can't live together anymore, people getting toxic and alargic to each other.
a lot of people stay married for 10 years and then split and the most likely cause is cheating.
But pets are there for you always, they appreciate your existence.
How would you feel if you throw your cats away and then she broke up with you?
I am a divorce attorney.
So you get my point..
Yes, but if I don't go forwards with her, I'll always think that she was The One and I shouldn't have let her get away.
It is not a simple, straightforward choice.
i know that's why it's up to you, i just said what i would be doing if i was in your situatuon.
i got the impression from what you're saying is that you really love her so talk it out with her, don't ask strangers who have no feelings in this.
I would get rid of the girlfriend. She won't last a long time but the cats will.
Apparently nobody has said this to you so I guess I will. I think that even if in good conscience you can find new homes for your cats and you managed to somehow work things out at least in a reasonable fashion with your girlfriend you will always unconsciously resent her for the situation. This will not go well for your relationship at all and will lead to Future problems no matter what you do. I think the situation is untenable. I would suggest to you that you keep the cats and try and work something out that would help her to be more comfortable. If you can't do that then I think it's time to say goodbye to the girlfriend.
also, this is a huge sacrifice to make and your girlfriend probably realizes that. She may formulate this as an obligation to you and ultimately resent it. This too will have unpleasant consequences in your relationship.
She has not said anything to me about demanding that the cats leave.
If I let this relationship get away from me, I will always regret that, too, and will ponder what might have been.
Yes, that will happen if you let the relationship get away, but if you sacrifice your pets, that too will haunt you and taint the relationship. Why not give the relationship another 6 months as it is now, and see how you feel then. Six months is not very long, and I am concerned that you may be operating from a position of positive transference which of course you would not be aware of. If that is the case, as you know, it will dissipate and without your pets, you will be left alone and hurting. That wuld be tragic.
Neither of us is rushing but we are talking about her moving to my hometown so we can live together.
I would change my partner but i wouldn't abandon my pets wtf 😣. Thats why I ask the prospects before dating.. They must live animals, no tattoos, no smoking! Thats it
Call 5 0
I’m a dog person but I’d find another girl friend
This girl seems to be the best fit of any woman I have ever dated, and we have been dating for six months.
Why can't your girlfriend just get allergy shots?
If I was single my cat and I are a package deal. You lovecand care about both of us. If you are allergic to cats then take what you need to so you can be at my placen around my cat and around me because I might have cat hair on me or don't be with me.
By giving up the cats in this situation means you never truly loved them or cated about them.
The fact that you would feel that way if YOU did it does not mean that I feel the same way. It is rather presumptuous to tell me how I feel.
@OlderAndWiser
If you had your cats longer if so how long have you had them for then why give them up?
I've had the oldest for 2½ years and the younger one for 2 years.
@OlderAndWiser
You have had the cats for 4× and 5× longer but willing to give tgem up for a 6 month relationship with someone who is allergic to them. If you truly cared sbout and loved your cats thus woman would have told her to take medicine or just not be with you.
You are entitled to your opinion but reasonable people could and do differ on this matter. The fact that you disagree does not mean that you are right and I am wrong.
@OlderAndWiser
You are like the ones who give away their pets because where they want to move to doesn't allow pets.
You have never met me, never talked to me about anything before today, and you are telling me what I am like. Do you see any problem with that?
@OlderAndWiser
I feel bad for the cats being with you because they deserve way way better.
Now you are being condescending and rude. Maybe you can try again in a few years if you learn some manners.
Pets are a package deal for me. End of story.
No way, I would get rid of the girlfriend over my cat.
Honestly my dog comes first
Never get rid of your pets for anybody.
Cute kats by the way but ya don’t abandon them or even think about it. Also she isn’t allergic that is an excuse people make who have a fear of them. Just show her that there is nothing to be scared of. Lol
"she isn’t allergic that is an excuse people make who have a fear of them." Do you know something that I don't?
@coolkat12345 when I was in my 20's I heard that most people are so scared of cats.
@SandandWaves some people are cowards unfortunately lol
She is not afraid of the cats.
Ya man I was telling you that’s what people say when they are scared that they are allergic, didn’t you read what I wrote?
Yes, and I responded that she is not afraid of the cats. Didn't you read what I wrote?
lol haha I did read what you wrote but I guess you didn’t understand. Either that or you don’t believe me
We are not talking about people in general. We are talking about my girlfriend. You suggested that she is afraid of cats and I am telling you that she is not. What art of that do you not understand or believe?
Lol well I told you she is lying, I guess you don’t believe me, why is that?
Okay, well I think you are a fucked up troll.
Go out and go to her place. You could clean your house over and over but the allergens are still going to be there
No. She can take medication.
Nope. Not giving my pets abandonment issues for someone who might not even be in my life forever.
I will look further I can not part from my pets
Hell no.
I don't know if I could. That is a very difficult decision to make
Kitties come first!
I’d keep Pretzel.
We could just be best friends
nope I would not
No, she can take allergy pills.
I have had cats since i was a small child @OlderAndWiser One of my main stipulations of dating someone is that my cats come with me. In fact its a deal breaker if the person im interested in refuses to adapt. Before my wife met me, she had never had a pet let alone two cats. Now she's inseparable from one of them and can't imagine life without either.
Never!
Oh hell no never
Cats = Happiness