If you passed away, would you really want your spouse or love of your life to find another person to be with? (Page 3)

[NathanDavis]

Yes, I would like that she, eventually... could connect with someone in a way that would make her that happy again, whatever it takes and in any way that be.

[virtue2332]

Absolutely. I dont know how anyone could love someone and not want to see them happy. If anyone thinks differently they need to evaluate what love actually is. It's should never be selfish.

[Lyndsielee666]

He’s got my kids to keep him happy tf he needs another girl for 🧐

No but in all seriousness I hope if I die he finds someone that’ll love my daughters.

[amadimal]

I don't think there's anything to consider; for me, the solution is extremely clear - I'd want him to move on, find someone else and be happy. I don't think this would diminish his love for me.

[Julie_TS]

Unequivocally, without a doubt, yes... absolutely.
The main reason being is because we aren't meant to be alone. It's in our nature to seek out companionship.
#survingspousesneedlovetoo

[tuvwxyz]

At that point I wouldn't care, my hormones would not be craving one way or the other, I imagine like being asleep, I would just be indifferent (neutral)

[FocusOfSuspicion]

I would absolutely. I want someone to take care of them when I can’t and be there for them when I can’t. And I would love her for doing it.

[BakedBeanieBabie]

Absolutely, don't lose your life just because I'm gone. Find someone new and just remember me fondly.

[Gwenhwyfar]

I would. I wouldn’t want him or her to be alone and depressed with nothing to do but miss me. I would trust that we’d be reunited in the Summer Country.

[Prettysammie]

I’d just like someone to remember me fondly at all. If they can, I hope they find every happiness and find someone better than me who could give them everything I never could.

[FatherJack]

Don't have , & don't really want a partner...& couldn't have one even if I wanted to as I'm a single dad , so this will never happen in reality. Hypothetically , I would want any partner to be happy after I have crossed the bridge.

[Comesaveme]

I mean why not? I am alive and my “till death do us part” partner left me for someone else anyway. Ultimately it’ll be their choice lol.

[NorthAfrican]

If I died young then yeah I'd like him to get remarried and be happy. I don't like the thought lf him being alone and dying alone.

[cth96190]

Of course I would want her to move on.
I would not want her to follow the example of my mother, who mourned the death of my father, alone, for 29 years.

[kkirk4442]

If I died, I definitely would want her to be with another man who loves and cares for her, as long as that is what she wanted.

[zoe2187]

I would want him to find someone else. I think it’s selfish to expect him to be alone for the rest of his life. I don’t believe in afterlife, it’s too far fetched. All we have is now.

[brezzybaby]

I guess so cause I can't expect them to be alone for the next 50 years and I mean I wouldn't want them to not want me to move on if possible but I hope I don't leave my spouse for a long time cause I really am in love and want it to work

[libsaretards]

I would absolutely want her to find someone else if I passed away before she did. I would be dead so what would I care?

[KrakenAttackin]

I have known several men who died from a variety of causes ranging from cancer, accidents, to suicide. The wives all moved on to other men in less than a year bar none. Two married another guy within a year.

[Yanagi_Kaze]

If I passed away I'm not in a situation to question others life (since I'd be dead).

[PeacefulRainDrop]

I really like your approach in answering this question