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Should I tell my boyfriend his attitude towards money pisses me off? (Page 2)
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"I ask to borrow $20 or $50 here or there, he ALWAYS makes me pay it back"
Do you understand what the word borrow means you entitled turd goblin?
So you get free money. Where can I get some? What is he your free money bank? Do you not know how tough it can be to earn money for yourself? To top it off now for 2 people? What does he get in return? Or You just take, take, take?
Borrow - to take or obtain with the promise to return the same or an equivalent
Since you borrowed money from him it is expected to be paid back. All you do is pay back the amount you borrowed from him.
You're a mooch. He isn't a bank. Act like an adult and earn your own money.
You’re right, his attitude towards money is pretty bad. I’d never lend a women money, ever.
LOL. But you should be more trusting for real though.
@Coulis like hell I should. That money represents hours of my life that I’ve traded for the ability to purchase from hints that make my life better. I wouldn’t give away my life so I won’t give away my money.
You're BORROWING his money. HIS money. Let that sink in as long as it needs to, and you'll have your answer.
Your attitude to money is the wrong one he worked for it so he wants it back you can't expect him to just give you money
It's his money, he pays for a good bit of the things so yea you borrowed from him, its a loan so you need to pay it back.
If you didn't intend to pay it back, it's not borrowing.
And if you said, "Hey, give me 50 bucks" each time, instead of your wishy-washy borrow spiel, he'd realise what a gold-digger you are.
No surprise here. Just another selfish bitch who doesn't respect a man's work and struggle and wants it all for herself.
He works hard for his money... you two aren't married.. if he wanted to treat you he could but he must need the money for some bills coming up.
He should tell you your attitude pisses him off. You're in the wrong her. Id personally stop lending you money all together if i knew you thought like this.
Hey, I have a novel idea. He is not your personal bank account, and as you said he pays for a lot as it is. So stop borrowing money from him before it causes bigger problems.
Well, if you're borrowing, then I agree with him, a little bit of $20 here and there soon sum up and become a large amount.
Just ask him to give you money for free then, he won't expect you to return ;)
That's how borrowing money works you entitled bitch.
This makes me glad I'm single. 💞
When you borrow money you need to pay it back. I'm with your boyfriend.
".. if I ask to borrow.."
".. he ALWAYS makes me pay it back.."
uhh, case dismissed?
Find a partner that doesn't expect you to pay him back everytime. You need to find like-minded people.
Occasionally I think you're cool, then you go and say things like this LoL
Is that not what she's asking for? It's not his fault she keeps asking to borrow money. She should find someone that wants to give her money, if such a person exists. (Sugar daddy?)
Well I wouldn't exactly encourage her parasitic lifestyle. But you're right, she could at least reconsile what she actually seems to want and just go all in on the sugar baby gold digger bit. I think that would be better than the petty half-assed approach.
Some men like that kind of dynamic. She just needs to be upfront about it so they don't find out they're becoming a personal ATM after a few months into the relationship. But yeah I think you and I are on the same page.
Oh let me guess, you're one of those "equal rights" people who doesn't believe in gender roles. If she wants free money, she can just ask him that without saying that she is borrowing it.
I believe in equal rights but I don't think anyone is entitled to free money just because they're in a relationship. I'm not sure how you came to that conclusion after everything I said.
You realize you're contradicting your main comment, right? The situation here is that this girl is borrowing money. And you're saying that she should find someone who doesn't expect her to pay it back. In this case, you're telling her that she has to find someone who she can ask to BORROW money from, but doesn't expect her to pay it back. I hope you realize this yourself.
I don't understand how they contradict each other. Not quite picking up what you're putting down.
Ask him what money is to him, understand why he is that way. There's always a reason as to why people do the things they do.
Yeah, like he had to work hard for his money... and she is used to people giving her stuff with zero work/obligation required. So she thinks $50 grows on trees.
The real question here is why in the world do you think that you shouldn't have to pay it back?
Doesn't matter if he makes more than you. If you borrow money, you pay it back.
Its cringe worthy and cheap that he “jews” you out like that but at the same time it’s wrong to ask for money that you didn't earn or isn't in a joint account. My ex made double what I did but all my purchases were from my own job.
Or maybe he's seen what happens when you give to entitled people. They keep asking for more & larger amounts while laughing behind your back. Eventually she'd be needing $500/week while sleeping with other dudes on the side. No thanks.
@hahahmm it is a red flag almost like she using him for money not love
"I ain't saying she a gold digger, but I don't see her with no break ass n*****s!"
uuuh no those amounts are not small and should be paid back, you're the one who is wrong here and needs to grow up
Make yourself an indispensable part of his life. Marry him. Then share finances. Until then, what's his is his. You should be thankful for every crumb he throws you
My ex dud not want me to have, access to any money. She demanded to be in charge of everything and tried to use it against me. She spent everything andcdid not pay the bills that she demanded to be in charge of.
Sounds to me like you're treating him like an atm.. Leave him, let him find someone that actually appreciates him and respects his money... And stop being a worthless gold digger.
Congratulations on winning a Troll of the day award.
Yes it's important my hubby had this conversation. We live together so I think it's important
Do you really need to borrow money off him? I would feel uncomfortable about that if I were you. Especially if he’s already paying more. It puts you on an uneven footing in the relationship
It all adds up. If he keeps letting it slide, in the long run he's getting milked. Pay for your shit.
That is outrageous, you should dump him and in future make sure that you get paid up front before random men use you as a cum dumpster.
The problem is that men wouldn't put up with all of her "I need emotional support" BS if she was a street hooker.
I need a sugar baby, I provide $2,500.00 a month plus living expenses.
You should specify gender if it matters
@virtue2332 Good point, LOL. Someone with two X chromosomes only.
That's not fair to just expect money from him. You don't know what his expenses are to just assume he has money to give. Even if you think he makes a lot.
Yeah, hopefully he'll dump you realise how much of a crock of shot modern dating actually is and join the crusade of celibacy
Well, Your attitude pisses ME off. If you were my girlfriend, I'd dump you immediately.
"I should add he makes about 5x what I do!". Nobody cares.
No just pay whatvr u borrowed thats not the attitude of him but your discipline financially
It's not borrowing if you don't pay it back. It's stealing. Next time say can you have 50 bucks.
Ha, but she knows the answer will be, 'nope'. She hasn't passed his tests to be worthy of it, I'd say.
@hahahmm I mean if he gets some good sex out of her I'd just put up with it. You pay one way or another...
But... street hookers don't need emotional support, restaurant meals, car repair, cell phone plans, new shoes... and aren't going to pretend to be on the pill to sucker you into getting them pregnant. The list goes on. Don't think the math works out if all she has to offer is sex.
This is reality you not in movie. Even spoiled you complaining 🤦🏻♂️
So you aren't really asking to borrow it, you are asking that he simply give it to you. That would piss me off if I were him.
He's perfectly right chica.
Hahaha. The update. So?
Why not just... Not asking him for money? If it's such a problem?
Him making 5 times as much changes none of the longic. Nor if it was x2 or x1000
Borrow means you will pay it back, that's why they have the term "golddigger".
He just doesn't need a sugar baby, he can find that for less than $50 if he needs
You’re not entitled to his money
For me, it would depend on how long we had been together, how serious the relationship was, and how often she asked.
Yeah. The woman who never tried to milk me for money is the one I would give the moon to now. If she'd been trying to suck every dollar out of me, she would've got dumped.
Well, although you should pay it back out of decency, he shouldn't ask for it. That being said, both your attitudes towards money needs to change.
@nadim171
He has every right to ask her for money back since she as she said borrowed the money.
@MysteriousDarkness he has the right to do that. But you also have the right to not leave a seat for a woman, not to hold a girl's bags, not to hold the door for someone, etc. It's a matter of decency, not rights.
Did he give her money just to give it to her or did she borrow the money from him? 🤔💭💡 She said she borrowed the money. That means she is expected to pay the same amount back to him that she borrowed.
Sounds fair to me, if you was married thats different, do you live together?
Stop saying borrow that implies your gonna give it back just say hey give me some money and don’t be indirect let him know you won’t pay it back
Why are you bitching about this?
If you want money given ask for money given, not borrowed.
IKR , what kind of boyfriend is that , you should dump him now
Borrowing means you payback.
Who cares how much more he makes you asked to " borrow".
Why don’t u not borrow from him then if it’s an issue?
Why borrow if you can't pay back? You'd do the same
tell him that you can just keep the money because he makes more money.
Yes but in a polite and loving manner if you want him to change it
What part of "borrow" do you not understand?
The man’s got intelligence. Not letting a woman use him for money. ‘If I ask to BORROW’ like are you gold digging
If this is something leading up to marriage then of course you shouldn’t be keeping track of money between one another
Borrow generally means you return it
He isn't a piggy bank
You're right. You put money into a piggy bank as well not just pull it out. 😂