Was your father a simp?

[Unbeatable]

My ex boss , from my first job as a teen, i still know cause we go flying together, well, his wife and mother of three says that he isn't his source. He is a multi multi millionaire. Making at a minimum $50M a year with all of his inventions.
My post about how you should go about testing a girls love for you was removed by gag this morning. If you didn't see that post... it was made out of pure wisdom and instinct. 80% are beta, 80% called me crazy.

Yes he was

I dont remember

Maybe

[Lionman95]

No I wouldn´t call him a simp. My father isn´t physical strong but he´s very smart and patient with people. He knows what he wants and how he gets it. He´s not an intimatedating character.
My mum is sometimes louder and more extrovert character. My father sometimes backs down from her but she on the other hand also knows her limits. She knows that she needs him for a couple of reasons and things she can´t handle on her own.
So they both have times when one is rather dominant and respect each others limits.
They´ve been married now for over 30 years and are together for nearly 40years without affairs or cheating.

[Anonymous]

My father is an “alpha” for lack of a less cringey term. He called me mom “woman” and overall treated her like a second class citizen so she divorced him. He now has a new wife who loves playing the submissive servent role and my mom is still single because my dad ruined men for her.

[Unbeatable]

Your mom s ego ruined your mom

[Opinion Owner]

They’re both extremely egotistical so the divorce was only a matter of time

[Unbeatable]

in a good marriage a woman can't have any ego, she must submit

[Opinion Owner]

Facts

[Silas_153]

Fuck off with that shit Mr. Undateable!

[Unbeatable]

@Silas_153 53 and single

[doopayo]

Yes and no. He left my mom and all his side chicks came calling my moms phone 24/7 asking for where my dad was and his slow ass still tried to get with her again? Not even like get married, just straight up sleep with her. Sounds like simp behavior to me

[Unbeatable]

A different kind of simp

[spuitkaas]

Definitely. He asked my mom to marry him after the second date. I think it's the ultimate simp move.

[Jamie05rhs]

Well, they got married, didn't they?

[spuitkaas]

She said no the first time lol. They did get married eventually and are still together.

[Jamie05rhs]

Oh. Lol. Well, at least he broadcast his intentions. I think that was probably a good thing in the long run.

[crazy8000]

Nope.

Both are dominant.
Doesn't take shit.
( If someone wants to change me they aren't after me )
My mother aren't a drama queen or suffer from stereotypical female behavior or attitude nonsense, she can't stand that. straight forward brutal honest can't stand femenism because she sees right through the bad constructed front.

[Unbeatable]

Awesome

[Alyssa11]

My dad is no shape or form a simp. He’s a tough man but what I love most about him is he balances his masculinity with respect. He has respect for all women and has raised me to respect myself too. And expect the same from a man.

[yoyoyoyoyoyoyoyoyo]

Actually no. My biological father had several kids and I never retained the relationships with my siblings on his side.

My father figure after that wasn't either though he did try to keep the relationship because he loved his kids. But he died alone and miserable...



Do you wish to see yourself die alone and miserable?

Respect your lover then. And respect your kids.

[Unbeatable]

Alone is fine

[yoyoyoyoyoyoyoyoyo]

You'll understand when you hold your first kid one day, when you look down to see yourself in a brittle form. The fragility of all things in life, including yourself

[Unbeatable]

Ill understand when i get to a place that you haven't been yourself

[yoyoyoyoyoyoyoyoyo]

@Unbeatable elaborate

[Unbeatable]

you confused yourself

[yoyoyoyoyoyoyoyoyo]

@unbearable no I want you to say what you mean. You want to speak on my life experiences, why don't you elaborate!! Or are you just insecure and trying to put the situation onto somebody else?

[yoyoyoyoyoyoyoyoyo]

@unbearable, fact is you don't know what it's like to watch a life get brought into, or taken out of this world. When you have the crazy experiences I've had in life, you become very familiar. Point being, speak for yourself

[yoyoyoyoyoyoyoyoyo]

@unbearable life is precious, knowing that something is a copy of yourself and/or somebody you love, if you even know what love is; holding it in your arms, and knowing by nature how fragile it is, you learn to respect life... But you're just not equipped with that knowledge or experience

[yoyoyoyoyoyoyoyoyo]

@unbearable by the way, be a man next time and be more direct when you try to spread some shit on somebody.

[hahahmm]

My dad had many great qualities but when it came to dealing with mom... not so much. That was his kryptonite.

When you get to higher levels, you can post the same thing you did and it won't be removed.

[Silas_153]

"Pure wisdom and instinct" - that's hilarious, because the two (wisdom and instinct) are diametrically opposite. If a person is acting on instinct, for example, they are not being wise.
I see those words again. "Beta", "simp". You're either a MGTOW or an incel, because only they ever use words like that.

[suisuiola]

What exactly is a simp? From my definition and understand I would say yes. My dad did everything to marry my mom and he did everything for her, still does. He does everything she tells him to do but not in a strict or mean way.

[Unbeatable]

Simp is someone without much of a brain

[suisuiola]

Then he's not a simp hahahaha

[Unbeatable]

Great.

[crazyish]

I don't know. Maybe. Don't remember when he was with my mom and then we barely had a relationship until recently so I've never seem him with a woman like that.

[Still-alive]

hows your relationship with him now?

[Unbeatable]

Did your mom talk shit about him to you?

[crazyish]

It's not super close but on the surface it's really good. It's getting there.

And yes she did. She's not a reliable source though lol

[Unbeatable]

Your mom talks shit about everyone, including you. Its how women work, especially over the phone.

[crazyish]

Yeah I know, I've heard it lol. But that's not every woman.

[TsundereMatrix]

I have no idea. My parents been married for over 30 years. They just talk about how they met and about their wedding day. They didn’t talk about how their dates went or other people they’ve dated in the past.

[Anonymous]

No, my father was an old school playa. I found out about so many women he was with when married to my mom. He was definitely the man of the house. Even though my mom complained, she fell in line... every single time...

[Overmind]

Honestly not sure, died before I was born; from what I've heard he was well respected. Always got told I look & act like him. Odd how that's conveyed as I wasn't born yet when he passed.

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

Well my father has children of 4 women, 3 of with still give him sex. He uses money to control them. And he had several lovers on the side. So no, he definitely isn't a simp.
He is even worse actually.

[FýrdracaDócincel]

"80% are beta. 80% called me crazy."
Riiigght, and I bet all pickup artists absolutely hate your guts.

[Pink2000]

I mean I think so. He married my mom who already had a kid and a boyfriend.

[Unbeatable]

Are you his biological child

[Pink2000]

Yes I am. His one and only.

[Unbeatable]

At least he had a beautiful daught er to his name

[Pink2000]

Thankyou that’s very kind of you !

[SwitchGirl]

I see no 'No' option so I'll say it here. He asked her out, she says no, he was cool with it and started to dance with someone else, Mom got jealous.

[Jamie05rhs]

Wow. Your mom was extremely lucky that he gave her another chance.

[SwitchGirl]

@Jamie05rhs Yes she is. My father is a great man

[Jamie05rhs]

@SwitchGirl <3

[TheFlak38]

yes and he still is. One of the biggest simps I know. The only good thing is that he reminds me not become like him. He glorifies the vagina more than anything else in this world.

[grierwrange]

This is a flawed poll because you don’t want to hear the truth

[bones0271]

what do you mean

[sarah_2006]

Honestly my dad is kind of in the middle here. He's not a simp, but he's definitely not not a simp either. I don't know if that makes sense or not lol

[Anonymous]

he was and still is. He’s a good father but a terrible husband tbh

[MissGeorgia]

I don’t really know what that means... but I know he is spineless and a narcissist.
I think he’s pathetic

[chris_987]

Yeah that’s exactly what a simp is

[Unbeatable]

He sounds depressed that he created you

[MissGeorgia]

Yes, he probably was considering he wasn’t around when my sister and I were growing up.
He did try getting in touch a couple of years ago, but I can’t help how I feel about him as a person. I don’t know him, but I know about him.
My sister made the effort when he did get in touch, and even invited him to her wedding but he let her down again and she was really upset.
My sister and I have talked about how life would have probably been so much worse had he been around.
I don’t think any of us are particularly excited about the fact that he is our biological father.

[Unbeatable]

How do you know about him

[MissGeorgia]

I speak to my step-sister occasionally. She contacted me on social media.
He got in touch with me because he wanted to meet my son ( I don’t know why) I agreed to it, but I knew after spending a couple of hours with him that the things she had told he were right... and then again after the way he treated my sister.
He is just a shitty person, and not even in a stand-up-for-your-convictions way. Everything is always someone else’s fault.
He’s just one of those people who’s almost impossible to respect.

[Unbeatable]

So you're from a bad seed?

[MissGeorgia]

I guess so, but we can’t blame a bad parent for our choices.
When we become adults, we become responsible for ourselves. We know the difference between right and wrong, we know how to treat people respectfully... but that doesn’t mean we won’t mess up from time to time in the process of all that.
I think it’s important to punch up and not down when it comes to others. Make other people feel good about themselves, you know?
I know I don’t speak well about my father, and there was a time when I felt awful about feeling bad towards anyone, but now I kind of feel like I don’t owe him anything and vice versa.
I’m almost 26. My actions now are down to me.
I didn’t have a bad childhood. My mother was and is amazing... but this question was about my dad.

[Unbeatable]

But your kid is now at least 1/4th bad. Tell him that. Overtly, because you're already doing it subconsciously.

[MissGeorgia]

Nice try.

[Unbeatable]

It's a fact, you can't hide nor control your deepest emotions

[Anonymous]

Wait, who is the dude making $50M a year in this story?

[Anonymous]

He had time for everyone else except me. He never could be successful in his life

[rienna888]

yes, that led me and my sister to be abused

[menina]

No, I don't think he is.

[Toast792]

No. Also, haha we got your post taken down.

[bones0271]

maybe i should repost it

[Toast792]

@bones0271 Maybe you should not

[John_Doesnt]

He was drunk and divorced. Never remarried.

[JesseJayNeak]

No, he was (and still is) a chick magnet

[JosyJosy]

Nope

[Marhaban-1]

I don't think so

[Massageman]

No, he wasn't.

[MrJMM]

How the opinion no?

[Dinosaursandanime65]

I don’t think so no

[shydude1991]

No but i am ☺️