What is the main reason why women end a relationship?

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caring__1 · Accepted Answer

It's common for people to enter relationships with expectations, and many women tend to have higher and more unrealistic expectations than men. They buy into the fantasy of the woman behind the man and the woman who makes the man. Guys are not lumps of clay eager to be molded by women. When the women finally realize the guys won't change, they choose to move on to someone else to mold... but often end up with the same disappointment.

Healthy relationships are team efforts with both working together to define and create that which they value together. The key is to have this conversation early in the relationship before any commitment is made. Unilateral plans will generally end in disappointment. Choose a partner for the person he or she is, not for the potential you believe that person can become. When we realistically see what is rather than see what we want to see, it is much easier to fine-tune and enhance the relationship.

exitseven · Accepted Answer

I think they just lose interest or meet somebody new.

Xoxocutekitty · Accepted Answer

Usually it has to do with lifestyle differences.

Let's say they meet in school, and then slowly start their careers in shitty entry level jobs.

If she moves up the career ladder faster than he does, he is much more likely to become disheartened and take it out on the relationship. If it's the other way, he's glad that he can provide and her job becomes less important.

If they move up together but maybe live together, women usually don't want to be the only ones cleaning, doing laundry and remembering to go to the grocery store. So that's an element of basic adulting some guys drag their feet on.

If they have been together for several years and there's no talk of commitment or putting a ring on it, she'll leave because who wants to waste their best years on someone who is not sure?

Starwitch23 · Accepted Answer

Cheating and when she realizes that she is not loved.

Finchie40 · Answer

Cuz women have a list of things that they expect their men to be , if he falls short in a lot of those categories she loses interest in him and moves her eyes onto someone else , Girl’s tend to compare their men to other men a lot of times , mainly because Girls’ have more to choose from then Guys do , if she is beautiful and sweet she gets a lot more attention from other men , Most girl’s are attracted to a guys status , his career , his shape , his appearance. etc. If she feels her man doesn’t match up to those other men she will either cheat or dump him for someone else that she feels is better.

Tunasub · Answer

I think women end relationships because they don't feel what they are putting out as far as commitment and trust are being not being reciprocated. There could be a number of reasons besides the 2 that I mentioned, but I think they are at the top of the list.

MannMitAntworten · Answer

They snap out of their momentary lapse of reason is all I can figure. Granted the last one my friends suspected she either cheated and hadn’t the guts to come clean or she is bipolar. Personally if one of the two, I prefer that it is the bipolar option. I rather not have three cheats in a row. Granted, over a long span of time.

hahahmm · Answer

Too many choices and not enough about the current guy to set him apart. Sort of like asking why a person walks out of one McDonald's restaurant instead of eating there for life.

From the guy's pov, it's like he built a restaurant and he sees people come and go. He wonders why they don't stay. Well, because you didn't build a better restaurant OR you advertised to the wrong type of customer.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

I read an article that said women end the marriages because they just don't feel a spark anymore, like the situation is totally out of their hands. She stops giving a fuck and the guy carries on living his life because she couldn't be bothered to communicate whatever small thing she'll blame for the fact she feels like she's wasting her life. "Greg chews loudly and I just can't do it anymore. I just fuckin can't. I don't feel like he appreciates how that impacts me."

ChiTown33 · Answer

Feelings. It's why I have little to no trust in women. If you're an attractive guy you always got a in with women. But if not you have to be charming without arousing her suspicions. But she has to develop feelings for you to have a chance. But if her feelings towards you change she'll turn off like a water faucet. And this statement is true if you've been together 3 minutes or 30 years. Never get too comfortable with a woman. She can rip the rug out I sn instant

Floppy2112 · Answer

I think usually there is a problem of self overvaluation and a sense that they 'deserve' something better, perhaps because they get attention from others and then see who they are with as not measuring up in someway. Most of the excuses I have heard are rooted in the banality of boredom or something of the like.

Brianbrake · Answer

Nowadays girls don't fall in love anymore, and its easy for them to just find someone else

ZackBan · Answer

It's like a flame. When it dies out it's over there's not lighting it again. People end things when things are no longer good when dating becomes a burden and not a pleasure and that's caused by all kinds of things

EssenceOfLight · Answer

They encourage negative escalation in their relationships and end it because it turns in a mix of mutual disrespect, accusations and disdain.

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

Cheating, lying, gold digger, finding better men... the reasons could be endless! A woman who ends her relationship for silly reasons is a b*tch and deserves the worst!

wearehere2002 · Answer

cuase they dont like who they are with anymore or they still like them but dont feel like they are getting what they want or need from the relationship anymore

NoLookingAtSoleil · Answer

You were her plan C, now she found plan B and got him to sign up

alance99 · Answer

Being cheated, guy being abusive, guy disrespecting her or controlling her

dolemite89 · Answer

i think they have more options to choose from than men

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Yes, I know the language of the Pig. Thank you for being impressed.

Still-alive · Answer

Boredom, not being heard, emotional unfulfillment

Dchrls78104 · Answer

From what I've seen in my country, the main reason appears to be cheating or abuse.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Women are tired of meeting men who are players

Dinosaursandanime65 · Answer

I remember that movie. Me and my brother used to watch it all the time

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