You just started dating someone. Only 3 dates. After having sex you spoon them for the first time. While you spoon them your hand is on their hip. They take your hand and hold it and place it over their heart while you are sleeping.
Is this falling in Love or just regular for early romance stages?
Yes. I think it means that person you are spooning is falling in Love
No. I think that means that person you are spooning wants to feel or feels a connection. But it still could happen with a friends with benefits or Fuck Buddy.
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If a new partner places your wrapped hand around over their heart while spooning... Are they in Love?
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The heart is not a magical spot that makes people fall in love xD. That would maybe mean that if someone removed a hand from the heart that they are not in love anymore? :D If it is anything it is a silly teen love type of thing that can go away the next day.
I do it a lot to my boyfriend place my hand on his heart to make sure its still beating and know that he's ok and big hugs are great with ure lover i have been with mine 3 years now and i still do it ro him
Because i love him so much i jst want to make sure he's always with me nd there's nothing wrongvwith him ok i jst dont ever wabt him to leave me my love is very strong snd true not jst normal love its much more so there
It might just mean that she likes the way she feels when you have your hand encircled around her. Some women have a high for feeling safe and secure and spooning with your arm around her satisfies that need.
It doesnāt matter whether they or not they are in love or not. Their feelings donāt affect you. Their behavior does. If they are kind and make you a priority thatās as good as it gets.
See that's why I hate this world. Ofcourse it should mean falling in love otherwise why the hell will you embrace someone so intimately? In fact why do you sleep with someone in the first place if it's not love?
Nowadays even having Sex is just by 'accident'. Nothing is REAL in today's world.
@Apope16 haha thatās hilarious and very unexpected š. Well sounds like the other person wasnāt opposed to it! Perhaps the feelings are mutual! : )
3 dates is STANDARD for having sex. And the 3rd date was the 3rd time having sex. We has sex the first date. And yes. Saying i love you is a red flag. But im asking a behavior study question. Not about anything said.
3 dates isn't too soon. Like lets say you go on a date every week with the girl. Thats almost a month of no sex. What do you want a guy to do, sit at home having sex in his imagination?
If you had sex on first date that's not a relationship. You cannot have a healthy regular relationship if you have sex right off the bad. That's starting a relationship based off of sex. It's the same as a friends with benefits.
I never said it was a relationship. And my longest relationships began as fuck buddies. Its normal for me to get sex on date one. Why did i with her? I secretly wanted to. But when I was walking her home she invited herself over.
@Vetis lol, you will fall in love with someone just after 3 dates? And also, my grandma and grandpa were complete strangers when they married each other. I want to get to know my partner well enough before marrying him. I don't see anything wrong in getting to know a person well. It just avoids lots of fights
@Vetis LOL, well, then, maybe before assuming stuff, after I fall in love, I will somehow find you and show you how much i am in love with my partner? Damn, people are salty af on here
@Prideful wdym, dude, love is a feeling, it can happen anytime. but for me to fall in love, i need to emotionally connect with someone. There's a difference between lust and love. Love at first sight doesn't exist-- its just lust at first sight fr. You need to get to know a person before falling in love with them. Obviously, if my definition of love is fucked up, then what about your definition of love? Don't go hating on people. You're not gonna earn anything from it. If I fall in love with someone, I'd want to marry them, grow old with them. I don't want to fall in love just to go get a divorce. I need to make sure his family likes me, my family likes him and many more. We need to have at least the same goals. Like of he doesn't want kids but i do, then welp man, he ain't the one for me. Ik that the relationship wouldn't work out.
I'm not experienced in any way with the opposite sex so 3 dates already feels a lot to me and I would never do it if the girl still don't like me after 3 dates. I don't think you find love by doing hundreds of dates, in the contrary instead of testing anyone I'm seeking proper targets, preferably close friends.
You're putting too much stock in incidentals. Just assess the entire interaction, and if it's good keep moving forward. If it's not, then NEXT them and find a new one.
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