Does absence make the heart grow fonder or wander?

[Anonymous]

when it comes to a relationship with a partner

Fonder

Wander

poll

[Browneye57]

If you're talking about LDR's, no, they're a waste of time. That stats say one or the other will find someone else within 90 days.

If you're talking about a committed relationship, or a marriage, where one is away for a time, yes absolutely. You miss them.

If you're talking 'break' in a relationship, that just means "I want to fuck other people'. And no, it means it's not working. If you can't make things work while you're together, how in hell will you make it work apart?

What is rather worrying is your confusion in the matter.

[mstretch]

Depends if both partners are actually in love or if its superficial... Ie, if your partner isn't in love with you, hell probably wander, if he is, he will probably grow fonder... Same goes for the woman too

[BabyGirlRobin]

Depends on how long they've known each other, been with each other, how attached they are and how long it's been since they've been separated.

[wakeupchy]

depends on how strong the attraction and or feelings are for that person

[PositiveNote]

I say that it depends on how long the absence is and how much you like her!

[sage2021]

Out of sight, out of mind. That's what can cause cheating.

[TacosRAwesome]

For me it's wander but maybe they weren't great relationships.

[Aquariusmystery]

Depends. If it’s only a while then fonder. If it’s literally being ignored then wander

[Jamie05rhs]

That all depends on whether you're in a relationship with them or not.

[888theGreat]

Until the next romeo comes and shows you attention. Then it is who, what was his name?

[nickaboy]

If a girl goes absent I will never talk to her again

[Pterodon]

It makes it grow fonder for another

[karaspara]

Fonder

[Joshua0213]

Fonder definitely

[Asker]

how so ? within relationships

[Joshua0213]

I always miss her when she leaves and can't wait for her to get back. Never have i thought of another woman when she left lol

[Iron_Man]

In a lot of cases

[Asker]

how about in relationships? Especially with 8 years in

[Iron_Man]

Yeah if the guys going on a 30 day vacation

[Asker]

huh?

[Iron_Man]

He will miss you when he’s on vacation

[dray995]

Fonder

[Charliefretz329]

Potential for both.

[Diya010]

Fonder