Do you ask your boyfriend for money?

[Anonymous]

Are you comfortable asking your boyfriend to pay for your nails or hair?

[cloudspy]

I would ask a boyfriend but only if we had been together for a while and I knew it was serious. So, yes, I sometimes ask my partner now and mostly he gives it. Sometimes I will ask with the intention of paying him back but he never usually holds me to it. Hair and nails I would usually pay for myself. He pays for my gym because he wants me to look good and knows its good for my mental health so keeps me stable which is good for his wellbeing to. He's paid for things to further my interests and career. He's invested in my wellbeing in pretty much all ways. It goes both ways though, I will spend my money on him too and would loan him if he ever needed it. Nothing worse than a stingy partner, they are the ones that usually withold emotional and physical generosity too.

[Leowild]

Yes, sometime i ask money, but not when i just start date or after break up. I don't see anything bad in this, i give to him little bit money too, if i see he need this. But just little bit1😁

[1Sophisticatedme]

I never ask my boyfriend for anything, just incase we break up, then I know it wasn't to do with me getting into his change of money in his pocket... I am always paying my way, unless my boyfriend does it out of the kindness of his heart to pay for things for me.

[Whatthefluff]

Why can't you pay for that yourself?

[Jesibel]

Well speaking for myself, I personally wouldn't I'm a little to self reliant and very much so to proud to do so. But in the chance that I did, I'd ask to borrow the money not ask if I could have some money and I would then pay them back asap. That way I don't feel they have that to hang over my head.

[electromagnetic]

I’ve never had to. It’s mostly been me saying I’m getting something done and he asking to tag along. Then he just pays for whatever.

[Ayanna240]

Hahahaha that’s soo funny

[Little_Bumblebee]

I have never asked a boyfriend to pay - especially not something like nails or hair.

IF I had a boyfriend who expected me to wax, then I would ask him to pay for it. But that's it. (and this have never happened)

[420Rachel]

No never. The only time my boyfriend pays for anything is when we go out to eat or if he WANTS to buy me a gift, I never ask him to. I have offered to pay for dinner numerous times but he refuses.

[Elliegirl]

I have my own money. I asked my husband for money once when we were dating, but it was an emergency situation. Outside of an emergency, I wouldn’t ask a guy for money.

[Ayanna240]

There are some dumb blokes out there who buy their girlfriends 300 dollar shoes or laptops. Such dudes do exist. You just gotta find them. I once had a guy offer to buy me two handbags I really wanted on a second date

[Starrisunset]

I'm not comfortable with it. I pay for my own things. We even take turns on who pays for dinner each weekend.

[IveGotNoName]

No. It's one thing to ask him to pay for dinner together, it's a whole other thing to ask him to pay for something he's not even apart of. I wouldn't feel right asking him to pay for anything at all.