I just caught my boyfriend cheating on me what should I do?

[Anonymous]

I don't know if I should forgive him or not.

[ohshee]

Whatever you decide to do remember this this is who you will become most of your life. Think about it like this. Is your boyfriend he tells you he loves you leaves the house and he hooks up with some other girl knowing that you're his girlfriend that doesn't seem to care he thinks about it as he's doing this other girl but whatever he's thinking he doesn't care because the other girls more important he gets done he goes home to see you and he acts like nothing even happened and he still pretending that he likes you time to leave again he hooks up with the girl again thinks about you but you're just not strong enough in his mind to make him stop so goes back home acts if nothing happens and it's a big it's a big fat lie do not only cheats on you but any place you as a fool thinking that he's going to get away with it because he's smarter than you that whole scenario right there I would say don't let the door hit you in the ass you just proved me how much you loved me how much you like me you cheat on me again you treat me like a fool because you think I'm stupid and you can get away with it so that whole scenario right there makes me say goodbye you have to prove to yourself who you want to be in this world you know I can get any guy that you want to anybody that hurt you abuses you and lies to you cheat you you're not worth having in your life because they will always think they can get away with something

[OlderAndWiser]

You: Okay, I forgive you, but don't ever do it again!
Him (Out loud): Oh, thank you so much, you're the best girlfriend ever!
Him (to himself): Wow! I got away with it! Cool!

[Asker]

True

[Angel_123]

u dumb forgiving him wil make him do it more i dont thin he would forgive u for that

he shown he isn't capable of loving your from his heart ❤️ if thats what you are loooking for tell him fuck off and no one likes a used product and say i dont do little boys i need a man and u ain't a definition of a man

text him this: Every man can be a male. but not every male can be a man and break up

[Ms_Vanderquack]

Well, the first thing you should do is stop referring to him as your boyfriend.

[Asker]

Good point

[uhdreek]

Your under 18 you have your whole life ahead of you, I'm 19 still living life if something happens then it happens I'm not really looking for it but to answer your question

Me or anyone on this app doesn't know your boyfriend, only you know your boyfriend. Seeing as he cheated on you that's pretty sad and why should he be trusted? He might chest again it's pretty messed up but I don't know your boyfriend I don't know who or why he cheated with whom he cheated

How long ago did you find out?
How old is he?

[Asker]

He's 16 and I found out earlier and he just walked out of the house.

[uhdreek]

You both young, I would probably dump him there a lot of other guys out there and there's one perfect for just you, you just got to find him. Don't rush relationships for sure if you actually want a relationship. When it all comes down to it it's up to you how to handle it I wouldn't recommend revenge cheating, your worth more then that it would be better to dump him and move on yk?

[Asker]

Yeah I think it's best to just move on and enjoy my life.

[uhdreek]

He might try running back to you, I wouldn't take the bait wait till after highschool to find someone. Like 90% relationships break up after highschool, basically setting yourself up for failure if you do date young just remember that and try not to get too heart broken

[Asker]

Ok thanks for the advice

[uhdreek]

Of course! Hope it helped

[darkfoxjj]

Absolutely leave.

I am sorry you are going through this, it can be very painful. But it is not your fault, he just isn't a class act.

Go date more, grow your happiness. Spend as little time thinking about him as possible.

You've got this!

[loveslongnails]

You're under 18 ... that's a bad habit to get into a such a young age !! Give him the boot and find someone better. Your dignity is more important than anything you can gain by being with him. Can you forgive him? Sure, you can "forgive him" because YOU don't need to carry that anger. But that doesn't mean you stay with him. Kick him to the street.

[Dburns1268]

Girl, I'm 51 so pls pls pls listen to me and don't EVER forget these words... Once a cheater ALWAYS a cheater!!! I've seen it in both sexes... men and women. That is something u can never change!!! Move on!!

[Citizenkirk]

For starters, you should stop calling him your boyfriend, since his recent activity has forfeited this right to be your boyfriend.

[SnakeBoop]

Why would you ever forgive someone who abused and broke your trust?
do you value yourself so little?

[kyleelyn199723]

That’s a decision you can only make. Maybe analyze the situation and see what’s the pros and cons of getting back with him are

[fred_durst]

dump him now , buy vibrator , it feels much better than real penis and free of drama

[Asker]

Lol I already have a vibrator

[SphynxUK]

Cheating how?
What was his excuse?
I’d let him go. I don’t give second chances.

[Kyle-Jackson]

DONT, If that little wimp can't k eep it in his pants you dont deserve him, Find a better dude, Then humiliate him. If he begs for forgiveness don't give it to him.

[JosyJosy]

Don't forgive him. Staying loyal is one of the mere basics of a relationship, and he already screwed That up. Dump him and find better

[Finchie40]

If he loved and valued you he wouldn’t be cheating on you , so you are best to leave him and find someone that wouldn’t cheat on you

[Novacane]

Why would you forgive someone who cheated on you, that will only lead to them doing it again and then you are stuck in a relationship that you should've left a long time ago.

[MotorcycleMan]

That all depends on whether or not you want a cheating boyfriend.
If you don't, walk away. He's not likely to change and you cheapen yourself for allowing it.

[Flower7]

No, don’t forgive him!!! Especially since you’re so young. You don’t want to set a bad pattern for the future…of accepting mistreatment in relationships.

[Rob70]

Dump him!! If he did it once most likely will agian. Even if he doesn't it will always be in the back of your mind.

[Dantenera]

That's right👍

[Nik1hil]

Go for a threesome..
Show that girl show
Shitty your boyfriend is..
Once she dumps his ass...
And he is back with you..
You dump him..

[libsaretards]

Leave. Once a cheater always a cheater. The trust has been broken and you will ALWAYS second guess him if you stay in the relationship. Find someone who truly loves, values and respects you.

[Pterodon]

He’s now a proven cheater. How will you ever trust him again?

[TheBigGuy9]

Every situation is different. I can say from my experience, once a cheater always a cheater. That’s just something you’re going to have to find out on your own.

[MindYourEyes]

He has no respect for you.
and he’ll only keep doing it. Is that what you want? 🤔

[JustinTimberlegs]

Tie him to the bed and put dog poo on his chest oh and make sure it's your sisters bed

[NightFlirt]

What does your sister say about the situation? Are you mad at her for fucking your boyfriend?

[DWornock]

Guys can have sex but they can't cheat. It is not possible for him to convince you that a baby he had with another girls is your biological child. Therefore, only women can cheat.

[Rob70]

Not trying to be rude but that's the dumbest thing I have heard today. You don't have to have a baby to cheat. The baby might be a result of cheating but the act of sex with another person is the cheating.

[DWornock]

@Rob70 If a husband spends a quarter of his life and $300 supporting and raising another man's child believing it is his child that is very severe. Compared to that, any harm, if any, the wife experiences when her husband has sex with another woman is insignificant.

[Rob70]

That is a whole different situation. I am sorry if I misunderstood your answer and why you said it. I agree that it is a horrible thing for a woman to do and personally if it was me I wouldn't have to cheat on her because if she didn't respect me enough she could do that to me we would be done as soon as I found out. My point was sex with someone else by either partner is cheating.

[DWornock]

@Rob70 I know that is the common definition. My problem with that definition is that it implies one is as bad as the other and in my opinion that is not so, since studies have shown that 7 to 15 percent of babies born in marriages were not sired by the woman's husband. In biblical times only women were stoned for adultery. Probably because women were second-class citizens but also perhaps partly because it was understood that husbands couldn't be certain a baby was sired by him.

At times, I have had a different opinion. That is because most women can fuck the best but only a few can marry the best. Therefore, perhaps it is understandable that women often seek the best available genes for their eggs/babies, and usually, that is not her husband. And, if the result is a prettier and more capable baby and the husband never knows perhaps that is a benefit rather than harm.

In any event, if we are going to call it cheating, I want it understood that cheating by men is not equal to cheating by women.

[TheFlak38]

this is probably a 13 year old thinking she's in a real relationship

[LonewolfMeme]

How do you not know? Are you feeling hurt and angry? If yea end it.

[Coyote12]

I would get rid of him. He didn't respect you so why be with him? Show him you are worth more.

[scooogy]

Just some inspiration 😏

[Potatocream]

as soon as someone cheats you leave them, take your shit and never talk to them ever again lol you can't fix that

[Anonymous]

that's up to you... personally, i wouldn't forgive someone who cheated on me.

[fatimah01]

Put him in the garbage. Simple.😂

[Asker]

Oh you mean where I found him?😂

[fatimah01]

😂😂😂 yes.

[Asker]

Your funny.

[Joker_]

Forgive him at the sole expense of yourself, then forgive him again when he does it again

[Anonymous]

Dump him of course. He's a cheating pig. 🐷
if you stay with him and forgive him, then he'll do it again.

[Anonymous]

Find someone better. You can forgive him but you should definitely dump him.

[EternallyCorrect]

Don’t be retarded. Leave him.

[DonkeyDan]

Dump that disrespectful SoB

[slatyb]

Dump him. Lying is unacceptable.

[RCase321]

What is the situation

[_乃尺OЩ刀_TITI]

Revenge cheat

[Asker]

Oooo

[Aimée__LJ]

Definitely don't forgive. Relationships over.

[Aquariusmystery]

Dump him and confront him

[ItsTheNephilim]

🚮..

[karaspara]

Kick him to the kerb sorry hun

[tellMeall]

Put his bags out. And forgot about him!

[Wise4myage]

No Hell No. Dump his sorry ass, immediately.

[Anonymous]

End it and move on with your life.

[Dayman343]

He'll do it again, get rid

[Yourfriend2021]

Just move on, find someone else.

[Hanrej]

Don't forgive him. Punish him.

[dudeinohio]

Dump him

[Dantenera]

Kick his ASS.
Don't tolerate nonsense.

[Sabretooth]

He's revealed who he is and what your worth to him

[annie2005]

Leave him, duh.

[Anonymous]

What was he doing

[Opinion Owner]

Happy to discuss it if u want

[Asker]

He was fucking my sister 😢

[Opinion Owner]

That’s a tough one

[Opinion Owner]

Drop me a follow if u wanna discuss it

[exitseven]

Dump this guy.

[Anonymous]

cheating how? in what way?

[chriscdi]

Move on from him

[joeldalton]

break up with him.

[Iron_Man]

Leave

[BokieLoc]

That's stupid.