When in a relationship, do you think men or women fear more that their partner might find someone better?

[Anonymous]

Men

Mostly women

[William7489]

As a man having been on the wrong end of this, and seeing it firsthand I can simply tell all women here, there’s nothing to be ashamed of and wanting security in a man. I can say is a guy I’ve never really worry too much about the career or job of a person I missed it in dating. What I mean is it’s never really a first concern or a dealbreaker. For most women however that is a very important issue. Ask any guy what his biggest fear is when he’s in a relationship, and it would be losing his job because he thinks when he does, his wife will leave him for someone else. And I know a lot of women that do. This is definitely more of a male thing

[DeltaCharlieEcho]

I'm the best man any woman can ever be with; any temporary step up that a woman may get from leaving me for another man is an eventual step way down. I know that I will do something great in my life, and it doesn't take external approval to make it happen. I'm the best man any woman will ever get, even if I don't have the most money, even if I don't have the biggest house, even if I don't have the nicest car; eventually you will wish that you had stayed with me and by then I'll have forgotten that you even were a part of my life.

[t-8900]

unfortunately its the same song and dance all too often. They dont appreciate the affection. smh

[IveGotNoName]

To find someone better you have to be looking for it... I don't even think about other men in that way. I guess the answer would be that both worry. Most women will answer women and most men will answer men. We haven't tried to actually live in our partner's shoes

[linguinesoup]

I don’t fear it, I know I’m one of the best out there, so probably men, it’s why they are insecure.

[linguinesoup]

But I think that if men would treat woman better they wouldn’t have to worry about being left for every other joe on the block

[Kenzy009]

You are 21, just wait in 10 years the situation is gonna flip for you. You want men to treat women better? LOL why do you think you are with those thype of men. most men are decent upright and moral, but you leave them in the friendzone

[linguinesoup]

Nah, woman still get treated like shit by entitled men who want to tear confident woman down, it’s just how it works, leaving them in the “friend zone” because I know their toxic traits would suck in a romantic partner lol okay buddy

[FreeOhSeven]

But that being said, I think that it is really whichever partner has a lower self worth. There are studies that show that people who watch pornography tend to have a lower self esteem than those who don’t, and I’m not positive in this, but I think probably men are still ahead in the “which gender watches more porn” conundrum.

[t-8900]

it could be but pornography also hampers a person's drive to do things in general. It takes a lot of energy out of you, gives you the dopamine hit, and makes your body think it's successfully just reproduced, further lowering your drive to go out and self improve. Your body is thinking it's already got everything covered.

[FreeOhSeven]

Indeed

[Avcfhcic]

I think it depends on who the people are on the relationship. Insecure people will always fear that.
Definitely if it were me I would fear the other could do better because I'm nothing special.
It really depends on the individual

[fred_durst]

i think it is men , that is one of the reason less men approaching women nowadays , compared in past , they have serious self esteem problem , and trust issues as well

[Kenzy009]

Yes, more men are single, but the question is people in realationships. Those men already in relationships are already gonna be more likely to find someone better.

[Ke_vin]

I say men cause I fear my partner leaves me and find someone better because I try to be the best I can be

[EssenceOfLight]

It changes with time. I have the feel as man you gain lot of confidence in this matter with more years, while girls lose it.

[DonnaC123]

The one who is most insecure worries more, regardless of sex.

[Pinay_ako]

The one who loves more

[Slim57]

Men, women can easily find a replacement at any time

[t-8900]

thats why marriage is now a lost cause... oh well. let me crawl into a ball and die now. :D

[SenseiSeptred]

I think that if two people are not compatible that they shouldn't be together.

[Danish81]

In my opinion
IIf he or she really loves you then he/she don't care if they meet someone who is better to you

[William7489]

I agree in theory. Good luck finding that person. It’s possible it rare so good luck if you’ve done it.

[Anonymous]

Nope