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Do you think a woman should be a stay at home wife if her husband asks her to? (Page 2)
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Sure, why not? Especially if she hasn't put a whole lot of money toward her education.
Depending on family requirements and needs, we can not paint one brus to everyone.
Some got more freedom as house wife and some got more freedom going out to jobs.
Yes if he can afford to take care of the household. Cooking and cleaning is just part of staying at home. Staying at home also means women have the time to do the things they want to do like go to school or start a business!
Doing what that B. S. picture suggests, no. That's not a wife but maid.
Now if a man ranks in a lot of money where he can support her and the whole family then fine.
What? vacuuming?
Being a full time house wife cooking and cleaning is a ugly look. It makes the wife look like a maid.
Well someone has to do it. A lot of women go to work full time and then come home and do all of that on top of working.
I don't like the full time house wife concept of cooking and cleaning bull.
Well if she doesn't do it, who will?
A maid? I won't mind cooking but to see a wife cleaning all day and everyday looks shameful.
I would say that most people can’t afford a maid, why wouldn’t you just help her with the cleaning?
I'm not cleaning. I hate that.
Then hire a maid
No. But she shouldn't have to feel that it's wrong for her to be one if she wants to.
I think it should be her choice. He may want her to do so, however if she doesn't want to than she shouldn't have too
I don’t think either should boss each other. There is compromise, but it doesn’t mean either will get their way 100%. I don’t think either should order the other to do 100% of something or to stay in the house to do the house things.
Yeah, right. Women are masters at testing for weaknesses. In about a month you would be her slave and not even know it because you'd be too dumb to look beyond her words.
Do you think a husband should provide for and protect his family if his wife asks him to?
No one should do anything on the mere grounds of another person wanting them to. There are exceptions but this is not one of them.
if it's what she wants for her and the family. else, she will just rebel.
It should be a mutual decision between two people who are partners.
Not just because he asks, no. It must only ever be a mutual decision.
It is your wish. Your husband don't have any rights over you
No. I think a woman should be a stay at home mom if she *wants* to.
A woman shouldn't do anything. She can do what she wants.
Once again, marriage is a traditional institution. Modern women wan to get married but they don't want to be wives, they want to have children but they don't want to be mothers.
Some women actually like this setup. Depending if the man can financially support this I see nothing wrong with it. Just as long they are both on the same page.
Depends on if the husband can pay the bills and have money left over.
However, when you have kids, being a stay at home mom is a good thing.
But even that depends on the husbands income.
Damn the girl in that pic mustve had a shitty sex life. She didn't even have hair to pull. Yikes. And no I dont see a reason for a modern woman to sit around and be a house wife when we have dishwashers, vacuum robots, etc. Time to grow up, girl.
She probably has a better sex life than you do 🤣
@Pandupillu she's dead
@Pandupillu lol she probably does.
no I think it’s foolish for a woman to not at least work part time now a days, if your husband passed away you better be able to hit the ground running in terms of making money to take care of your kids.
I think she should be a stay at home wife if that's what they both agreed on.. Not just if he asks her..
yes she should. women don't belong in the workforce
Why not?
because you're lazy, constantly complain about sexism and every bullshit that comes to your stupid female brain, try to change the environment just to serve your interests, and in the end barely do any work at all. You spend more time flashing your boobs to men or going for a coffee break.
You have any evidence to support this claim, or is this just how you feel?
I think they should reach an understanding before they get married. Marriage is a partnership, people!
Even better, I'd rather her be in a collar and leash, and do whatever I tell her.
BDSM relationships last longest too by the way
No I’m working on getting my degree and that’s not to stay in the house
About online learning isn't that still relevant or you have to sit there for 3 hours to listen to some idiot yapping about some abstract or outdated theory yeah that sounds real promising that's why half of the college graduates are flipping hamburgers with a boat load of debt!
Are people actually offended by this? I want to help with the income in the house I don’t want my husband feeling like he has to deal with all the baggage and the degree that Im pursuing is a degree that gives you many job opportunities
College has become a overpriced big fat joke! And this pandemic has called them out on their shit too. 40K a year on a maybe education and they can't get the zoom to work. GTFO
@yofuknutz that’s why I go to a community college
My college is in person now
Yawnnnnn no zoom innovation, yawnnn they just take your money, pfttt
The decision to be a homemaker should be after a discussion between both husband and wife and not if the husband says so.
In fact she can't be forced to work either unless the household really needs her economic support or she really wants to.
Only if she wants to. If she doesn't want to do that, then she shouldn't marry him.
Or she could communicate that and they could talk about other options. Doesn’t have to be a deal breaker. Different shifts, a nanny, daycare, part time work, grandparents helping. There are tons of possible configurations.
@loves2learn Well, I personally don't want to marry a woman who wants to stay at home. And that WOULD be a deal-breaker for me, because we wouldn't be able to survive if she did that. And besides the economics, I'm just philosophically opposed to the idea. I don't believe in "traditional" relationships like that.
But there is someone for everyone.
Would you be open to compromising on part time work or working different shifts.
@loves2learn If we work different shift, we wouldn't be able to see each other. What's the point of having a relationship if you can't ever see and spend time with the person you are in love with?
But I guess if the shifts aren't completely opposite then it might be ok. :)
@Jamie05rhs true and not true. Our neighbors: the husband works the day shift, the wife works the night shift. They spend evenings together, the children entertain themselves in the morning while their mother is sleeping.
@loves2learn That only works because she's a heavy sleeper. If she was a light sleeper, she wouldn't be able to survive that routine.
@Jamie05rhs maybe so
It also wouldn't work if she was day shift and he was night shift. Because he would go to work AFTER fucking her. Lol. He would pass out and run over one of his co-workers with the forklift.
Lmao! @Jamie05rhs you underestimate the male’s ability to carry on.
@loves2learn Maybe if he doesn't cum.
Ummmmmmmmm. Not my point.
It's my point, though. Lol.
@Jamie05rhs ok. Let’s agree to disagree.
@loves2learn Maybe your man can stay awake after ejaculating. And if so, God bless him. Much respect. But I can't do that. I need a nap.
@Jamie05rhs I dunno how we got here. Seriously. Es tut mir leid. Ivh weiss nich was zu susaggen.
@loves2learn No comprendo. Lol
“Sorry. I don’t know what you said.” 😂
@loves2learn Then why were you talking about my sausage? 😄
😂😂😂😂😂😂 negative. I was not. LOL
@loves2learn 🤨🤔🤷
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Lmao! @chrismaster69 Swedish chef my dear, you have been summoned.
Fuck no only if she wants to and if they can afford to. Thats another thing
no but a guy who wants that should avoid a women that he doesn't see eye to eye with. if a women wants to work then they shouldn't be together and she should go to work and support herself. end of story
No. But if it’s a big deal to either you need to figure that out. I wouldn’t want a stay at home wife.
As long as you can afford to have her not work and she is agreeable to it.
Shouldn’t make a difference to anyone else.
I think she should have a say in it too. Do you want to be a stay at home wife, if not then you shouldn't feel obligated
When I look at a black and white photo like that all I think about now is Wandavision lol
But quite honestly it's up to them if they want to work or stay at home 🙂
No it’s not the 1500s, any human can do what they wanna do as long as it’s legal lmao. If she wants to then good for her, if not then she shouldn’t feel obligated or forced to. As simple as that.
If she wants to yes. Just because her husband asked, no.
That’s definitely something that should be discussed before having kids
Ofcourse not , its your freedom , leave him find another guy that doesn't control your life , enjoy your life , life is short
It's more than just staying at home, People need back up support. It's the deepest Commitment and few ever go through on it.
Yes and have sex when we want and make dinner when we damn we’ll want it. And then go to work all day so I can sit at home playing Rdr2 online.
If that's ok what he is wants, definitely... The man is the head of the household and is to be respected.
Now why would he actually have to ask in the first place ?
Try to explain this the a Muslim woman, she knows what happens if she says "NO".
She needs to at least have a part-time job so she can get the things that she wants
If the guy can provide all then no need for her to work.
I think they need to talk about it and come to an agreement
Nope. A women should do what she wants. No reason a women can’t follow her dreams. This isn’t the 1950’s
I think they should stay home and open their legs for their husband and wait until husband comes home with a dinner on the table.
Only if SHE wants to. It's her life and career, and he doesn't have the right to gainsay her on that.
Women belong in the home their bodies and minds are made for work
Nope. And husbands shouldn't accept women who say they want to be house wives.
Many women would love to do that, but it's her choice.
Not if she doesn’t want to, just be she you are married doesn’t mean your spouse dictates your life
*Because*
Nope I think she should be a stay at home mom only if she wants to be
No, if she wishes to have a job and support the house she should be able to pursue that. No sense in denying her of that privelage.
She's got to choose it herself I think. Otherwise she'll end up resenting you and try to find a way to ruin your life.
Absolutely. I believe it is the woman's job to do whatever makes her husband happy, and the best place for the wife is at home. I am happy that I am a housewife. I wouldn't have it any other way.
If she’s wants to if he’s ok with it an able to afford it sure.
Only if she wants to. Not because her husband asked her in my opinion.
I won't force myself on my future wife but if she wants to stay at home i will support her in every way
No. That should definitely be up to her. This isn't 1950...