What would have to happen for you to allow a significant other to see you cry?

[DizzyDesii]

THESE MUHFUGGAZ
—My first ex wouldn't cry for crap. But one day he snuck out my house at night and he said a deer chased him. Mf said he cried lol.
—Another ex said no girl made him cry in years. Later on in the relationship, He thought he had a fool. Mf thought he had me wrapped around his finger. I told him i was leaving him for someone better. He cried then.
— Another ex cried when we were LDR and he had to leave to go to the airport. I wiped his tear and said “aww”. This mf got mad and said “WHY DID YOU NOT CRY TOO! NOW I LOOK LIKE A PUNK! IM NEVER CRYING IN FRONT OF YOU AGAIN”
—Another ex cried only after he made me cry for feeling guilty for wanting to leave him for someone else lmao.
—Another ex cried when i told him he moved too slow and that I found someone who could be on the same pace train as me.
MORAL OF THE STORY—
Its like these mfs didn't cry until you leave em. Like all the times i wanted you to open up during the relationship you couldnt? I want someone whose not afraid to cry in wn emotional situation. If you cry during Titantic or sumn, then nahh. But if we’re sharing a moment, mf cry with me! As for me, I probably cried more so when I was lied to and lead to believe otherwise. I hate being disappointed.
#FeelFreeToList

[t-8900]

I can't be with a woman that can't cry or accept it when I do. I dont cry about much but when it comes to love yes I cry. Love is the reason I cry when someone dies, love is the reason I cry when a SO betrays me, love is the reason I cry when something bad happens to those I love. Don't get it wrong I can be a tough son of a b*** when i need to throw down. But I am a soft hearted fool in matters of love.

[DizzyDesii]

Its okay to cry

[t-8900]

I'm trying to learn to accept that. I can count the number of times since i was 14 that I cried about things. 5 times until latest girl which was 4 times, so 9. I'm so messed up these days I couldnt shed tears for my grandmother. It's sad to say because I loved her so much. But I'm emotionally damaged pretty good, I accept that.

[t-8900]

ty Desi you honor me! ^^

[Jouth]

When my ex told me she was raped, I cried. The only other time she saw me cry was when I broke up with her.

[DizzyDesii]

Aww :( and yea my ex cried when i told him what happened to me

[Jouth]

It hurts so much. I can't even begin to imagine how it hurt for her:(

[DizzyDesii]

Awww hugs for you both :(

[Jouth]

Thank youuuuu. You guys too

[BareNecessary]

I have come to struggle with seeing most extreme situations as something to cry over. So death, for the most part wouldn't affect me. I mean they're lucky ones going to heaven right? Supposed to see em later? Any lost relationships don't effect me much anymore. It's maybe unexpected and maybe actually understood gestures of understanding that remind me of love in general so I tend to cry a lot then. But no I don't cry for most normal reasons. I used to force myself to cry at funerals cuz it felt like we had to. My dad's funeral made my brother cry for one of his first times so that made me cry a ton more than I ever had for a funeral.

[BareNecessary]

No problems showing it though

[DizzyDesii]

Yea i just dont cry for funerals and people get mad at that

[KoolKid66]

I think it's natural to be apahetic towards death. It's jus society brainwashed people into believing your suppose to cry at a passing... But everyone gonna die. It's investible... no point crying about something you can't control

[KoolKid66]

It jus a part of life where they move onto the next realm

[Shizunk]

There was only one time I cried because of a breakup. I was young and naive then. Otherwise it's rarely but always when discussing some vulnerable thing about the past, family, childhood, etc. One good thing about my longest relationship is we spent most of our crying moments hugging and talking about something one of us cared about but had trouble processing alone. Death of a loved grandparent etc.

[DizzyDesii]

Awww

[Den1971]

If it's something serious like somebody died but if it's something Petty like I don't listen or I don't do what somebody wants me to do like my girlfriend I tried to sue the situation by listening to the problem hug her and then try to fix whatever it is that I may or may not have done wrong so don't have to go through that again

[DizzyDesii]

Awww i see

[silkjames]

If someone close died yes most definitely it's all good... but I'm not going to cry at every sad moment in life but yes death to family or friends my tears are flowing u better have a umbrella because I'm making it rain up in here 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[DizzyDesii]

Awww

[Agape93]

I would either have just gotten really terrible news, or I'm about to off myself. Otherwise I just keep it bottled up, and may allow myself to cry if needed in private.

[DizzyDesii]

I hope you never want to off yourself. there's so many other ways to work around an issue

[Agape93]

Agreed entirely. I don't want to either. First time was due to a rather sudden trauma, and second was my depression had overwhelmed me.

But now I'm properly medicated and in therapy :) so I'm thinking clearly again. Thanks 😊💜💜

[Hans222]

Probably if someone close to me had passed away. I would not be shy to cry. If it comes it comes, that's nature!

[DizzyDesii]

Yes thats nature

[dreamstar72]

Our daughter and I cried when my wife left for basic training. Yes it was the best answer for us at the time (recession) and NO don’t judge me without knowing the facts.

[DizzyDesii]

I hope she made it home safely

[dreamstar72]

Yes and we all made back together when she was assigned a post. Seven years later she was given a medical discharge. She is doing ok but what is most important we still love each other. Lol

[Phoenix98]

Don't know not one single ex has ever seen me cry or even knows of an instance where I have in fact I've only ever been that vulnerable with one person.

But trust would be a big part of it.

[DizzyDesii]

I understand

[tiajoka]

If I couldn't leave before they saw it happenin.
Tbh I cry fine in front of people if there's like a sad movie or somebody's saying a sad story. But if it's something from my own shit, then I avoid it at all costs.

[DizzyDesii]

Whys that

[tiajoka]

I just don't like people seeing me cry for stuff like that. It annoys me.

[Ninani]

They wouldn't be a significant other if I couldn't cry and be vulnerable with them.

[DizzyDesii]

Good point

[have_a_good_day]

I'm an Aquarius so we don't cry 🤷‍♀️
My first ex dumped me via text.. it shocked me because I'm a friggin catch. Then I just moved on instantaneously. Emotionless.
My second ex just decided to move to another province.

Those two were the only chicks I've ever dated. Fast forward to 13 years later, here I sit, not really caring about wanting to find someone else again coz, mf, I'm a gift 😎 These women should just recognize that 🤷‍♀️

[DizzyDesii]

Yes us both being an aquarius used to be a common topic of discussion. Lmao you said “cause im a friggin catch… im a gift” 🤣 Good lord the confidence lmao.

[have_a_good_day]

Giiiiiiiirl I'm for realsies a catch 😎😎 and not just because I'm decent, funny, romantic, hard working, and loyal.. but also because I make genuine connections from the heart and show it to people by making them a priority and getting to genuinely know them 😊
Like, for example, I won't ever forget your name 😉 nor will I never forget the meaning behind your username, especially the dizzy part 😊

Also... I can cook 😎

Also also... This butt... Totally firm and buttable 😊

[DizzyDesii]

Im surprised cause i surely thought otherwise

[have_a_good_day]

No really, it's a good butt 😂

[DizzyDesii]

Butt?

[DizzyDesii]

Lol im talking about you remembering me

[humpbackjack]

Before I raised my daughters I didn’t cry but after they made me soft but I would of choked that dear out we’d be having back strap for dinner

[DizzyDesii]

Awww

[DizzyDesii]

Wait i just realized what you said about the deer 😂

[NathanDavis]

I just don't hide that stuff... when it happened, it happened

[DizzyDesii]

Good. Let it all out

[NathanDavis]

that deer story was hilarious though... those things can crack a bone of yours

[DizzyDesii]

Holy smokes thats scary

[kellytheman]

I not a very emotional person but when my dog had to be put down I cried in front of my girlfriend at the time. I also cried at some tear jerking movies in front of some girlfriends.

[DizzyDesii]

Yea that is sad

[Cherry234]

If he really hurts me in some way or breaks my heart that's when I'll really cry

[DizzyDesii]

Awww love

[libsaretards]

Death of a very very close relative or death of a pet.

[DizzyDesii]

Yea my moms boyfriend never cried until his dog died

[Anonymous]

Guys generally don't even cry when we're alone.. well I don't anyway... I'm not jus saying that either... I don't think I've cried since I was about 7 and lost in a store without my parents...
Guys are jus less emotional than woman... Unless he's a pussy fairy boy who feels emotion like girls do... In which case... Then he will try to hide his crying from you cos it makes him feel unmasculine and weak... which is understandable... if I ever felt like crying I'd feel like an absolute wuss too... But hey... Generally guys don't feel the need to cry... If you want an emotional crybaby as a partner maybe go lesbian and hookup with girls instead..

[Opinion Owner]

We're just rational and take. things for what they are... And see that crying is pointless and won't solve anything. m if you wanna solve your problems... You gotta fix them... Crying won't do shit to help the situation

[Opinion Owner]

Seriously. I wouldn't even cry if a judge sentence me to life in prison. Sometimes you jus gotta accept your circumstances cos nothing you can do can change them. You jus accept shit for the way it is

[Opinion Owner]

Dunno why girls keep trying to make out all guys are girls who wanna cry hiding behind some macho mask... Like no.. m we don't cry cos we don't want to... Generally... We're not hiding anything.. m guys are jus tougher... It's jus our nature

[Riddler1412]

I don't know. When feel like crying, I cry, I don't try to hold it in.

[DizzyDesii]

Im glad you dont hold back. *hugs*
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[Riddler1412]

In front of you, never, M'lady.😉

[tomtom05131]

Not a whole lot. My best friends, my daughter, my siblings and patents have seen me cry as an adult. I think it is healthy as a release.

[DizzyDesii]

Very healthy

[SmokinAces2000]

The death of a family member or if I’m in like a very stressful situation. Neither have happened so I don’t really cry that much

[DizzyDesii]

As long as you know its okay to