3 things: If you're cheating at all I'm pissed. Like seriously why cheat, just break up with me. Next, if you're cheating with another woman I'm at least not at fault at all. You could be gay and I'm just going to feel bad but at least I'll know it wasn't me who's the problem. Finally, 3-way maybe?
The down vote wasn't from me but if she wanted a 3 way she would involve you it wouldn't be an affair so what happens when that doesn't? Where is the benefit then. You lose twice...
Yes but being intimate with anyone outside the relationship is cheating… Ide be okay with a3 way but not her alone with another woman…
Intimacy is mine alone. If you cannot devote intimacy in it’s entirety to me or silliest include me in it then I have no use for any part of you.
They only thing women bring me us children and intimacy. Where as most women want far more. I’m a simple man that only value much but what I do value I won’t compromise on.
I doubt there'd be more leniency if the other woman were a fat angry tumblrite. There are a myriad of reasons it's treated differently, chiefly among them whether or not there's attraction.
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I have no idea why some men are that way. I've dated two bisexual women and both cheated on me with other women. I dumped both of them and I'll never date a bisexual woman again.
Cheating is cheating.
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Not to mention: then I would have to book in for an STD STI health checkup... urgh awful 😲😲😲😳😳😳😭😭😭
In SOME men's minds, cheating isn't about disloyalty, it's about the threat of someone taking their partner. Frankly, if another man isn't involved, it doesn't feel as threatening to them.
If a blokes girlfriend wants to have sex with another woman, and you’re okay with that, then it’s not cheating. If you are not okay with this, then it is. That’s all there is to it.
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I can't be a woman but understand they are sexy. So if she needs a woman's touch, I get it, but she'll have to find it elsewhere.
3 things:
If you're cheating at all I'm pissed. Like seriously why cheat, just break up with me.
Next, if you're cheating with another woman I'm at least not at fault at all. You could be gay and I'm just going to feel bad but at least I'll know it wasn't me who's the problem.
Finally, 3-way maybe?
In my eyes anyway cheating is cheating it does not matter who it is with or what your reasons were, it's wrong.
Personally don't care if she cheats with a woman, it's still cheating and we're still done.
Because divorce ends lives and maybe we get the 3 way with another woman… options open not close loo I l
Lol downvote
The down vote wasn't from me but if she wanted a 3 way she would involve you it wouldn't be an affair so what happens when that doesn't? Where is the benefit then. You lose twice...
Yes but being intimate with anyone outside the relationship is cheating… Ide be okay with a3 way but not her alone with another woman…
Intimacy is mine alone. If you cannot devote intimacy in it’s entirety to me or silliest include me in it then I have no use for any part of you.
They only thing women bring me us children and intimacy. Where as most women want far more. I’m a simple man that only value much but what I do value I won’t compromise on.
Evolutionarily it does mean as much. But maybe emotionally, cheating is cheating..
I can only guess it has to do with a males ability to make a baby. That creates another level of complexity.
I dumped an ex for cheating on me with another woman.
I doubt there'd be more leniency if the other woman were a fat angry tumblrite. There are a myriad of reasons it's treated differently, chiefly among them whether or not there's attraction.
I have no idea why some men are that way. I've dated two bisexual women and both cheated on me with other women. I dumped both of them and I'll never date a bisexual woman again.
Cheating is cheating.
Not to mention: then I would have to book in for an STD STI health checkup... urgh awful 😲😲😲😳😳😳😭😭😭
In SOME men's minds, cheating isn't about disloyalty, it's about the threat of someone taking their partner. Frankly, if another man isn't involved, it doesn't feel as threatening to them.
I am not, Cheating is cheating end of story end of discussion.
If a blokes girlfriend wants to have sex with another woman, and you’re okay with that, then it’s not cheating. If you are not okay with this, then it is. That’s all there is to it.
Not it's still cheating just that he is ok with it.
This is one of these things where everyone has an opinion.
anyione who forgives a cheater might have self estyweeem issues
I think your right
Cheating shows a fundamental lack of respect, regardless of who it is.
I don't get upset when people cheat on me, i just kick ya out and move on
I agree with you, in fact, I consider homosexsual infidelity as even worse.
I have no leniency. I will hate them and never want them in my life ever again.
People don't all define cheating the same way. And not everyone is hung up on monogamy.