How optimistic are you about your romantic future?

[Jay3344]

I’m very optimistic

Pretty optimistic

Neutral

Not so optimistic

Pessimistic

I’m in a relationship

No opinion

[MCheetah]

I have a greater chance of becoming a half-trillionaire like Jeff Bezos and meeting aliens (like Jeff Bezos!) than I do of finding a high quality woman to love me, let alone love me unconditionally. Or hell, ANY woman that people would say is a catch.

So... Uh, yeah. Option E. Very Pessimistic.

[EssenceOfLight]

I don't know what the future for surprises holds for me. Nevertheless I'm optimistic in this question.

[heatherlou]

Meh...
I've not been in a relationship for 3 and a half years - or anywhere close to one. So I'm not overly optimistic about there being one any time soon... but at the same time, I'm happy as I am, I'm not looking for just anything.

[menina]

I'm pretty optimistic. I've never been in a relationship but I do know that once I'm living in a better country my love life will change. I truly believe there's someone out there for me.

[Jay3344]

I like the confidence

[menina]

Thanks!

[aWes0MeNeSs]

I'm pretty sure I don't have one (unless something changes with me), but I'm perfectly fine with that. I just have zero desire for a relationship.

[yofuknutz]

Your body or emotionally

[aWes0MeNeSs]

@yofuknutz I don't want a sexual or romantic relationship.

[aWes0MeNeSs]

@yofuknutz Or are you asking what would have to change with me? If so, emotionally. I can't really get the desire to.

[yofuknutz]

How about drugs

[aWes0MeNeSs]

@yofuknutz No thanks, I'm still dealing with the effects of having been on SSRIs for nearly 10 years. Or, if you're asking if I'm on anything, I've been on the pill off and on for period issues, but that's it (not wild about it, but better than dealing with the issues that will occur if I don't).

[yofuknutz]

No I meant illegal drugs yeah Zoloft makes your dick limp I know what you're talkin about

[aWes0MeNeSs]

@yofuknutz No, that isn't my thing, lol.

[yofuknutz]

U need the "ay papi ay!" Drug. Lol

[aWes0MeNeSs]

@yofuknutz Lol! It's okay, I'm fine without it!

[yofuknutz]

you can always try me on for size

[KatieGotMail]

I’m hopeful but pessimism is realism to me. I’m 19 and I can’t stand this generation or society. I’ve never dated, never even been asked out or hit on. Not a single guy has even started a conversation with me this school year and I’m in college. I don't know if it’s a generation thing or a regional thing but wtf is wrong with people not being able to socialize anymore.
Because of that I tend to like older guys but itd be weird if I was going out with a 30 year old sadly

[Lucy68]

I'm pretty optimistic that my future spouse is out there. And not only will they be my partner but probably my best friend too. My last relationship did not work out at all or to say the least was a complete horror show nightmare (and that's not an exaggeration). But I don't know I just have this feeling that the next relationship I get into might be my best one and possibly my next one I don't know, just need to keep that hope and positivity alive.

[Gingersnaap]

am neutral bout it, i used to to be super co dependent, so am focusing on me lately, i can get dark, i need to learn how to balance myself, and literally do everything in moderation... including my relationships haha:)

[Anonymous]

Very pessimistic. I never had a boyfriend and I don't see what type of man I would fit with or how/where to meet someone.

[Jay3344]

Well men are everywhere, so finding the right one is the hard part. But I’m sure if you’re to be with someone he’s searching for you

[Opinion Owner]

I don't believe in such things, I think I fit well with very few people and have to be lucky to find someone. It might not happen, and I accept it for now. At least I have enough in myself and family and friends the next many years :)

[Jay3344]

👍🏻👍🏻

[midnightmoon05]

I found mine here… not by choice…

[Opinion Owner]

@midnightmoon05 good for you! But why is that a comment to me? :S

[midnightmoon05]

Sometimes, we have to take a chance in life.

[Opinion Owner]

@midnightmoon05 'We have to take a chance in life' - what a cliché statement. What chance? You just wrote you were lucky to get a boyfriend here, does not mean it will work well for a random stranger you have no idea how normally fall in love (or my actual changes, since I am not living in the US)
It is statements like that which overtime make me feel bad about myself because it does not come natural to me. It is not like I lived under a stone my whole life and never put myself out there. It is kinda disrespectful to me that you blurt that out of nowhere, but I am used to it and also mainly think it is just super silly and laugh of how ignorant some people are.

[lilyanony1]

My dating track record hasn't been so great.
So I think I need to work on myself, maybe something I'm giving off isn't making the other people in my life feel warm and loving towards me.

[fonduegirl]

I'm pretty sure I've met my soulmate and asked him to fuck off

[Joker_]

Why did you do that

[dustybiker]

@Joker_ If he’s your manly man he’ll be back.

[dustybiker]

Sorry @joker_ that was for @anon1903

[Joker_]

@dustybiker He's my manly man

[dustybiker]

@Joker_ So now we know what happened to him when he was told to F off. 😁

[Joker_]

He found me, and I found him

[GoldenCage]

Hmmm I'm torn between neutral and not very optimistic. I guess I don't have high hopes but I'm okay with that some how.

[cth96190]

I have not touched a woman for 21 years (nearly 22 years) so a realistic assessment would be that there will not be anything in the future.

[LoneWolf21]

About as optimistic as a blue whale squeezing through the eye of a sewing needle.

[t-8900]

its a coin flip. it's either going to work out or go horribly wrong. but you dont know till you try and if you just stop trying you're defeating your chances of it.

[devilish-cutie]

im pessimistic due to bad experiences so far and not many ways to meet potential mates. However im trying to be more positive and believe in positive possibilities

[Mystery11137girl]

Twice in a month when on the day of my date my dates bailed on me
srsly so annoying it is for me

[Jay3344]

Wow, that sucks

[lilaccc]

how optimistic are you about your romantic future? keep dreamings✨

[Anonymous]

Had the feeling that my soulmate prolly died in his childhood.

[ChiPaPa]

So pessimistic it hurts. I don't see a future. I'm going to grow old alone, with no wife and kids. I would like to die early if that is what i have to look towards in my old age. A whole lot of nothing.

[RobT312]

I think there’s a wedding in the near future

[Jay3344]

Congrats

[RobT312]

Hey thanks!!

[Starwitch23]

I don't think I'm going to meet anyone. I just don't feel that. Even if I get a guy, we wouldn't be together for long.

[Sarahr123]

Lol what is romance? I don’t really want it. I don’t believe in it.

[Flower7]

Not at all, to be honest. I doubt that I will have one at all.

[pickedcrisps]

Very optimistic.

Because right now mine could go either way 😊😊🥰🥰😍

[IveGotNoName]

Feeling pretty good about it right now, but that could change suddenly I guess

[red324]

I've learned not to fall for someone. It all turns to bullshit eventually anyways. Nobody is ever in it for the long term.

[Slim57]

Pessimistic, think i know how most girls on dating apps feel towards guys, because I feel the same way about the girls even if they're pretty just a bunch of hive minded crazies

[Anonymous]

I'm optimistic. My boyfriend and I just decided to move in together.

[The_Outlaw]

At this point in time, not very. I just can't see myself as ever getting married or having a fam.

[midnightmoon05]

Why?

[Guanfei]

Let's say that I have more chance to go on Mars than finding love.

[Hangry06]

Neutral as in i don't think i care

[the_kisses_of_sun]

Very pessimistic. I don't think I'm ever gonna find love.

[Anonymous]

I try to remain optimistic even though it seems bleak

[Anonymous]

Fuck marriage nobody cares everyone cheats we aren't built for one person

[midnightmoon05]

Found him here 5 years ago.

[Inbox]

@midnightmoon05 You found him on GAG?

[midnightmoon05]

Yeah.
I think there are a few other couples as well.

I never thought but life take u to places…

[Inbox]

You'll have your own movie soon no doubt.

[the_kisses_of_sun]

@Inbox lol

[doctorwow]

I might just be fucked if it stays the same

[noohair]

My girlfriend just ghosted me.

[dustybiker]

Around 67 that could be taken more than one way… hopefully it’s innocent.

[noohair]

@dustybiker The pain is the same. I did everything I could for her.

[dustybiker]

Are you certain she is okay?

[noohair]

@dustybiker She changed her phone number.

[MrJMM]

Not optimistic at all

[Nullcraft11]

Can't go wrong when dating a yandere

[InferiorElegy]

There's no girl out there that would ever want me.

[Asianguy123]

I think it’s just roleplay. Romance doesn’t exist

[MJtheCoach]

Who cares

[Iron_Man]

I hope it goes well

[grega239]

Not happening

[Fuentes]

Im not at all

[Joker_]

Don't care