What are your thoughts on a controlling boyfriend, girlfriend, husband or wife, how you feel about them?

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

[t-8900]

A real relationship is about being equals for everything for the most part with compromises for both parties. There are lines you dont cross. There needs to be a dominant in the relationship but not a dictator. You need to have a clear direction and long term goals I think for marriage to work out. You need to be on the same page an discuss things. Maybe you want her to mother your kids, and maybe she wants you to join her for Karaoke night every week and a double date with her girlfriend (s) once a month even though its not really your thing. I dont see how you couldnt do both rather than not letting her have her fun or making some plans for you both too.

[Exterminatore]

God commands I must submit myself to the governing authorities. I will do so. That’s where my willingness and consent to be governed ends. I will submit to those whom God commands I must, all others attempting to control me will be met with full resistance.


Therein lies my thoughts on controlling people in any type of relationship with me. I do not like controlling people and will attempt to throw off any yoke they attempt to place on me. I will not consent to be governed or led by manipulative, divisive, and controlling individuals.

[Kha0tiic_xo]

I feel like, they're controlling because they're insecure within themselves and they need to deal with that shit before goin GB into a relationship where someone's just bound to get hurt!

[DizzyDesii]

Its like boy step aside. Either we go be on the same plain field or im about to be the boss. Cause ain't nobody but God in control of me

[DaveJord]

When you posted this did you ever think you'd get people saying control freaks are awesome and everyone wants to be with one?

[lilyanony1]

Dick swab!

Effectively.
They really erode so much of a person's confidence

[CallmeTheKnight]

My thoughts: they're not good for you at all. Everyone else can see it except you. Cut ties and leave it at that

[ChiPaPa]

I don't know how I'd be in a relationship, but I wouldn't like having someone that was controlling.

[Razor8]

It's a recipe for disaster. Relationships with a controlling partner never ends well or last.

[DaveToo]

Shitcan them as soon as you can.

[slatyb]

Intolerable