Can you be friends with your ex? (Page 2)

Question

My recent ex broke up with me 3 weeks ago, cause he just can't love me the way that I do, but still appreciates me as a person and does not wanna use me. We haven't talked since. His last words were that he is going to help me with moving out and that he wishs to keep our friendship.  So his plan is basically to give me time to get over it and then to tie on where we used to be. We were friends first and had the same group of friends, but my so called "friends" would always talk bad about him, etc.  He is not at all what they claimed him to be. He was more a true friend to me, than all the "friends" I had.  So my moving day is getting closer and closer and I feel like I have to make up my mind, cause I guess he will be really showing up to help me move and I just don't know. I'm so torn.

Givingitashot45 · Answer

I’m still trying to lose the weight I gained dating him

Sarahuchiha22 · Answer

Nope not at  He will keep yreminding you of your unsuccessful relationship and you will not move on easily

exitseven · Answer

Nope, once it's over there is no way I would be friends.

Zygum · Answer

You know him better, so if he is sincere in relationship, then you keep him

FlyMulatto · Answer

Yes we’re friends but I don’t have a choice, she is the mother of my child.

RobT312 · Answer

I guess you can be friends but why would you want to. Better to move on….

yucel_eden · Answer

You should always be neutral with your ex.  Not avoid or hate but not love or interact actively either.  Moving on is a part of life I’m afraid

Texas_guy · Answer

I think it’s possible to be friends but you need space for a while to get over the feelings.

CertifiedHandsomity · Answer

Never, illogical. I don't believe in platonic friendships either.

lycanthrope3 · Answer

yes, depends on the break up and the people involved

Anonymous · Answer

No you can't, every ex I've tried to stay friends with and keep in touch, we always wind up having sex.

Kellanved · Answer

No. In any case it will lead to at best case to uncomfortable situations and at worst to really hurt feelings

Sam_The_Savage · Answer

Let be honest... I'm friend with my ex just because of good sex.

LegendaryIcon · Answer

My friends aren't friends with their ex's. Why should they Why is this picture necessary, by the way. IT WAS NOT

Anonymous · Answer

Depends on the ex. Most of them I can be friends with minus one whose toxic and fucked up.

Lliam · Answer

I remained friends two two of my exes.

Anonymous · Answer

Life is too short to waste time with girls you're not getting with or that aren't helping you get with girls.

noohair · Answer

She is the mother of my daughter, but we are not friendly.

humanearth · Answer

I had to stay friends, you know kids and all

Anonymous · Answer

No you cannot. What self respecting male would be friends with a female who told him he's not good enough

Elizabeth1643 · Answer

No if your man says no no if he does kings rules on that

Katrinaismyname56 · Answer

No way hosay. Not worth it.

AkshiJanjua · Answer

I don't see the point

Julious0202 · Answer

no, ex is to be left in the past

Anonymous · Answer

Guys should never be friends with a girl they are not having sex with or trying to have sex with.

Uptowngirl88 · Answer

No it's pointless

Joker_ · Answer

Yeah, I can be friends with your ex

WowwGirl · Answer

Nope any good current partner won't tolerate that

Nahid1707 · Answer

It can happen but majority of the time no

shades777 · Answer

yea its possible, I did it

Soleil7001 · Answer

If you were not lied to, perhaps

Fuentes · Answer

I can't be friends with any ex

Smiley_face101 · Answer

When he becomes my ex he is dead to me

TheAfrikan · Answer

Yeah I can. If she was a cool person but not evil.

Youryeodongsaeng · Answer

It depends on why we broke up.

quietcuite · Answer

It's surely possible after some time.

admles · Answer

I’m wouldn’t piss on my ex if she were on fire.

JosyJosy · Answer

With one yes

007kingifrit · Answer

men and women can never be friends.

Layafell · Answer

Nope never x_x

Danny_dan92 · Answer

I don’t think so

MrJMM · Answer

If she wasn't a lying fucking bitch then yea.

crazy8000 · Answer

Depends on her.

Iron_Man · Answer

I was Impossible

roy_ricky09 · Answer

One should not

postaldudePL123 · Answer

Terrible idea 💡

KeithLane · Answer

No way.

princeofromance · Answer

Yes!

In_Trance · Answer

No. It's pointless

townhouse · Answer

i can lonly hope one day

Diodoro · Answer

9 out of 10 times no

Anonymous · Answer

Nope..

AnswerEqualsYes · Answer

No. Unless you were never, ever in love.

kareka · Answer

Yes and we are

lilaccc · Answer

hahahaha.. no

Anonymous · Answer

if you dont have kids my advice leave

Sam2021 · Answer

nope never na uh

Dee_Reynolds · Answer

I couldn’t do it.

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

Hell no

JohntheUnk · Answer

No you can not

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