You will always have disagreements in a relationship so the key to disagreements is communicating, if your boyfriend gives you the silent treatment then let him be and distance yourself from him by going into another room and giving you both time to think to yourselves even if it takes him a few days to open up to you , as long as he isn’t taking off or you are taking off somewhere , which will make matters worse , but give yourselves time to figure things out without yelling and screaming and blaming each other so you can both sit down together and talk it out maturely , Best thing for you to do is ask yourself why is my boyfriend disagreeing with me? Put yourself in his shoes and try to figure out why he is upset and disagreeing with you , even if it makes no sense to you , and you feel he is out of line there has to be a reason he is disagreeing with you , sometimes we feel like we are right and our partner is automatically wrong it’s easy for us to do to point fingers and blame someone else , The key to relationships is you have to look at each other as one , You both aren’t single anymore and you both have selfishness in you , when you both can remove selfishness for each other that’s where love starts to grow , if only one of you is removing selfishness and the other is not , then sometimes it’s best to let that person go because it just gets worse and you will feel like you are in a one sided relationship. Disagreements can be caused by so many things , but the key to fixing it is compromising and coming to an understanding that you both are on the same page about it even if you have to sacrifice to make it work , if you sacrifice something you enjoy for your partner then that means they are not allowed to do the same to you , most people don’t understand that and things will eventually get worse again , You can’t expect someone to change for you if you can’t change for them
I’m gonna wanna hear the response on this too. You basically just described my previous marriage, waiting on judge now. I would piss her off just by agreeing with her. Fights would last a few hours and saddened in front of the grandkids. She’d make fun of me when I talked to my mom when she talks to her mom for hours in the morning. In order to calm the situation down I’d step out so I/we could take a breath. God knows that pissed her off more until I got sick of the physical and mental abuse I suffered off/on for just over 7 years
No, it's not. It's a form of mental abuse. He sounds immature and unhealthy for you. If you want to try to be with him the only advice I can give you is to sit down with him to have a serious, mature conversation about this. Because how is your relationship supposed to grow and prosper if you can't talk after a fight? You're supposed to talk through what you were fighting about or else it'll just get worse.
Nobody deserves to walk on eggshells in their own home either. I'd tell him to stop pouting like a child and grow up. But that's me.
This may be how he was raised and all he has experienced his caregivers do. This may also be the only way he knows how to react to a disagreement. It may be common for some people to do this but not necessarily healthy. If this really bothers you have an honest conversation about how you are feeling when he does this and if he continues not to communicate take action.
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No that’s not normal. That means you both are just letting issues fester in your relationship. Tell him he needs to start communicating and trying to solve issues or you will leave him.
That isn't normal. Most couples may do that for a short time but then sit down and talk it out. Communication is key to solving differences.
living together, unmarried?
THIS ISN'T THE NINETIES
It is normal but not very mature.
he is loosing interest in u
No that's immature
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