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Boyfriend REFUSES to share any passwords with me, dealbreaker? (Page 2)
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Let your boyfriend have his privacy and his own stuff without you screaming at him.
I would say the same thing as your boyfriend. I wouldn't want to share passwords with someone.
You are the big red flag not him. You shouldn't need his passwords. Trust is given at first and earned in the long run. You don't trust him so you failed immediately. You need to work on your insecurities. You have no right to his personal info. He should share what you need to know that comes in on his channels. Because he should be able to get private info that is for him alone. Not everything that is for him is for your eyes to see.
You have no business having other people's passwords.
He doesn't have to prove shit. You need to stop and let it go.
For me, a girl blowing up at me over passwords could be a deal-breaker.
I would not share a password for anything, ever, unless it was some joint account which we share, e. g Netflix.
"Because I don't want to" is a perfectly good reason. There are better reasons, but this is the one you tell people when you're sick of their shit.
lols.
if your the one to ask , you need to be the one to offer up something.
it is extreamly rude to ask someone their name with out first giveing yours.
simular consept.
as i said , you want trust, you have to give him an actuall thing that can have acess to all the time, so what will you give.
Well honestly I feel like if you gotta ask for passwords than that tells me you don't trust me at all. I have no reason to cheat on you and why would I try doing that anyway? Plus what happens if we break up, now I gotta change all of that. Plus their are scammers and shit out their, prove to him your worth being trust with such information and he will give it to you
If I were him, I'd break up with you. I wouldn't want you anywhere near me.
You have demonstrated that you don't trust him. You think you have a right to follow him around, spy on him, and go through is personal effects? How entitled, creepy and controlling can you get? That's not love.
Well if you're not married, he has no obligation to share them.
Honesty you're in the wrong for pushing his boundaries. No means no, so respect his boundaries.
The fact that he needs to share the passwords for trust is concerning. I wouldn't share most passwords with a partner unless it was something that was unimportant and didn't matter or something that I set up and she had a reason to see. Otherwise your not trusting each other.
Even if I get married I wouldn't share all my passwords with a partner. I'd share those required. And as I would likely name them next of kin I'd ensure that everything including passwords was in something that she would be given in that event.
Them asking to share passwords to me is a red flag more so if you have no real reason to need them. I would t ask a partner for there's and would hope they wouldn't ask for mine.
I'm not understanding what the issue is. Is it so wrong that he doesn't? Is there any reason you need those passwords?
Okay first of all should it be a deal breaker if he won't give you his passwords should you give him yours?
I mean are you insecure to the point where it would be that big of a deal with other people?
Jealousy only projects insecurity so it's not an attractive thing to be...
Also do you have any reason not to trust him?
There's many variables to that so I would take the time to actually wear the pros and cons and decide for yourself,?
You are not entitled to know his passwords, that's an invasion of his privacy, which you should respect. If he wants to give you his password, that is fine, but that's his decision, not yours. This should not be a dealbreaker, though it might be for you, since you seem to want to always be in control. Good luck with a relationship like that.
Per your update... his "I don't want to" is a perfectly good reason to maintain his privacy.
FYI, I've told my SO the PIN to access my phone and tablet but she usually forgets it, and there's not much on either of them that has anything to do with my privacy. She doesn't know any of the passwords for my laptop (which I use the most) or the websites I typically visit. I don't know any of her passwords either, and that's okay with both of us. It's still important to maintain privacy, even in a serious relationship. Share some, not all, things.
Stop asking for his passwords.
Respect his privacy. Respect the privacy of those he converses with - remember, these people believe they are talking with him and only him, you have no business reading those conversations you aren't a part of.
Grow up. Learn to have trust in a relationship.
People not wanting to share passwords doesn't automatically mean they are hiding something, it just means they value their privacy.
Amen! Like most people today, I conduct business from home. I wouldn’t share my password with anyone. I am sure the customers, suppliers etc, wouldn’t like me to share my password with anyone either! 🙄
TBH, I wouldn't feel comfortable with sharing my passwords. Not because I'm hiding something but cause I WANT MY PRIVACY and I'd expect you to at least trust me. Cause TBH if you think I'd cheat on you, giving you my password won't change that rather pressing the topic might lead to the problem you trying to avoid, and maybe the same applies.
Cause do you really think dating someone and trusting them is keeping tabs on them?
Passwords for what? Like Netflix or email? Why is any of that even necessary. With my partner I don't want any more passwords to know I have a billion of my own. People will always get found out in a lie. But people are insecure, demanding they see everything and inspect everything the other is involved in and this isn't healthy at all. It's narcissistic.
Why do you need his password? That's an invasion of privacy. I would never give my passwords to anyone.
And here's your pink slip
Have a nice life, respect is earned
And yes, even i wouldn't share my password with any woman
No amount of yelling, or nagging, or bribery
And the reason is because, say i got divorced
I'd have my money hidden from her
Trust and respect. If you want it you also have to give it.
Yeah, he needs to ditch your control freak ass to the kerb, toot sweet.
It's a massive red flag that you're controlling his life like you're his wife, and demanding control like you're his mother.
This is total millenial gen z bullshit, im in this generation to and this is total bullshit if thats a deal breaker you need to grow up because there’s bigger issues in relationships than this
Why do people need to share passwords? You should trust your partner enough not to snoop around on his shit. If anything, you're the red flag.
All relationships must have boundaries. Maybe he hasn’t reached that point to share passwords. He may never get there. Unless he has done something to question his honesty I wouldn’t push it. You may push him away.