What's the most ridiculous belief about love and relationships?

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GreenLanternI0I · Accepted Answer

Love and Relationship is not all fun and paradise. Love + Relationship is a JOB, you want to keep it going and get your fat paycheck you have to maintain your job ethics otherwise it will deteriorate. You take care of your man, even when you don't feel like or want to, and your man has to do Exactly the same thing. When challenge arises, instead of running away and ignoring it, face it and solve it, something that a so called ""adults"" these days completely lost. That is why there are so much cheating and divorces going on. Nobody wants to solve the problem or talk about occurring challenges in relationship.

hhhffg7889 · Accepted Answer

If it's the right person, it's easy

hsshannah96 · Accepted Answer

That guys are capable of coming to a compromise in an argument and that they won’t just say ok fine the relationship is over if their girlfriend disagrees with them about something. Arguing with a guy has always meant the relationship was over in my relationships

little_bird1 · Accepted Answer

Listen to your heart. No, listen to your brain and your heart will follow.

MCheetah · Answer

That women have as hard of a time finding a quality partner as men. This sh*t annoys me so damn much when I hear it. Women look for literal perfection in a man nowadays, then complain about "being lonely." It really irks me! Hypergamy is very much real, and women are the gatekeepers or relationships and sex, and it's very unfair.

As far as "love" in general? Does it really even exist? Or is it just brain chemicals tricking people into reproducing offspring?

Also, I disagree with Lliam. There are definitely 666 Rule women out there. I've met plenty of them, and have been rejected by them as such.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/IyFU70WsbQM

The title just reminded me of this song I remember from the 8th grade (2000).

dustybiker · Answer

That love grows. No it doesn’t, that is really just adapting and acceptance. No spark or passion in the beginning, there will certainly be no sparks six months from now.

Lliam · Answer

That women are only interested "666 guys" (6+' tall, six pack abs, and six figure incomes). LOL Or simply that women are only interested in men's money. Women are gold diggers and are also genetically programmed to cheat.
I never realized these things until so many guys on GAG made me aware. 🤣🤣🤣

ReneD13 · Answer

That when you meet "the one" everything in the relationship should be really easy and there should never be any doubts. Successful relationships take work from both parties at times. Nothing in life is ever just perfect.

JessicaEarl · Answer

The naked males are ugly. Its up to girls to learn to appreciate them! Men are attracted to girls not because boobs look amazing (they’re just skin and fat with little hats) but because of what they mean. Vaginas too! Learning to appreciate and even get turned on by a boyfriends junk made my life so much happier. Just try!

charlean · Answer

that the love of your life is within a 10 mile radius

libsaretards · Answer

That a man wanting a prenup means his heart is not 100% into a relationship or that it means he does not trust his fiancée. A prenup is a very reasonable tool. EVERYONE vows to stick through a marriage in good and bad, yet the divorce rate is high. If anything a woman should not be upset about a prenup if she intends to be faithful.

Leoxen · Answer

That having a relationship is magically gonna fix your life, like curing your depression, anxiety or not having to deal with problems at all.

Sure, it will make you feel better if it's true love, but still, your problems will not suddenly disappear just because you are with someone.

petitedollbabee · Answer

That a successful relationship has to be a relationship with no conflicts or fights, or disagreements. And that your soulmate is someone who is like your twin, you have everything in common.

Caunsos · Answer

Love at first sight. To love someone it to know them. A person is more than their appearance. It takes time to know a person's values thoughts and behaviors.

Dragonpurple · Answer

That everything will just work out fine, because you love each other.

Aurora1010 · Answer

That the first love is the only real love. I think it's mostly people who refuse to move on who think that... they will be in a new relationship but refuse to stop worshipping their first love or that is how I see it.

TheAfrikan · Answer

⚫ oh dear it is ridiculous how people think that there is a nice sweet person out there waiting for them like an angel.
Instead of getting back to the odds of meeting people and getting to know about each other's sweet moment n dark moments.

I have a way of explaining this effect of Mr nice guy. The world gives us materials and then we are tasked to use them n build out what we call a home. That is how love is in actual.

Shy80sgirl · Answer

I have a feeling that it revolves around a belief that it will always be just like it was when you first met. Certainly not true in most long-term relationships ( my experience)

dragoblack · Answer

That if you want to keep a woman happy you have to buy everything the wants, so she can feel like a queen.

SeekerOfBooty · Answer

That love and relationships should last for the rest of your life, otherwise they are a waste of time. That's the most ridiculous belief.

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

If Love Is Blind how can Love At First Sight Exist?

menina · Answer

That there is someone out there for everyone. No, there is not. Some people were meant to be single and others are unlucky like myself.

Aerissa_Jade · Answer

That all you need is love, everything else is secondary... says the homeless couple.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

When I got to the age to go to the Prom, I never went cause I was scared  that I had to have sex with the girl after the Prom date after Prom night yes

Lillie_xo · Answer

looooooove issss bliiind love can tell a million stories looooooove's unkiiiind spiteful in a million ways

Hermitess · Answer

I think it’s ridiculous to believe that men can actually be fully satisfied with a normal woman. I think it’s impossible to please a man unless a woman is a stripper or a prostitute or a porn/OF star.

loveslongnails · Answer

That having a strong "connection" with someone means they're your "soulmate".

TheFlak38 · Answer

That women love men for who they are not what they can give to the woman. That marriage is something cool that every man is supposed to do. That relationships somehow benefit men.

VikingWarLord · Answer

That Monogamy is the quintessential form of relational bliss (when it's actually the opposite).  Read the book "SEX AT DAWN" by Cacilda Jetha and Christopher Ryan

Blackcupcake · Answer

some people think that "bringing out the worst in each other" is a positive thing...🤡

Dontaaaa · Answer

The whole "love at first sight" thing.  I never believed in it, not even when I was a kid.

DiegoO · Answer

With romantic relationships there are several, but the most ridiculous and dangerous ones, has to do with the fabricated everlasting nature of romantic love, and the ownership notion of it.

AnthonyJ01 · Answer

My ex "claimed" she loved me initially, but when I wouldn't do everything she demanded things started to go downhill fast.
Not everyone is how they make themselves out to be. Everything eventually comes out.

genericname85 · Answer

That there's "the one" somewhere. There's many. And of course even with a very good one, it won't be easy. I don't think believing in "the one" helps.

CapnHawk · Answer

That they last forever.

awkward_author · Answer

You’re not going to find other people attractive once you enter a relationship.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

That it'll be easy if the relationship is meant to be...

Janessa2021 · Answer

That cheating is apart of ups and downs and that only a man should get away with cheating. Biggest bucket of b. s

Anonymous · Answer

Relationships are a status symbol. Not being in one makes you an object of pity.

scooogy · Answer

That people were "meant to be together" just to break up later on.

Gwenhwyfar · Answer

That you can’t touch yourself in a relationship

Nazgol · Answer

I guess that you will both stay in love.. Also that love and passion will remain forever

cookiecrusher · Answer

That marriage is antyhing better than a regular dating.

msc545 · Answer

That a woman's high body count is an indicator that she will cheat.

Interstate · Answer

Love means never having to say you're sorry.

Anonymous · Answer

Women get with men and hope they can change him to fit her mold of what is “good” Men do not change. We are who we are.

mk200195 · Answer

That you live happily ever after...

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

That it actually works! Granted I made more than my share of mistakes..

blueazure · Answer

That you would be happily ever after. And no one can separate or stand in your way.

LucasAA · Answer

In my opinion, the fact that we think we understand it or even control it

devoygf · Answer

They will never leave you

hannny · Answer

That nobody can be replaced

slatyb · Answer

There’s “one” for everyone.

sage2021 · Answer

That it will last forever.

Citizenkirk · Answer

That love is blind 🦮.

poof_22 · Answer

that love and attraction is unconditional

Nerdvana · Answer

That love and happiness is the same thing.

Jintendo18 · Answer

That “the one” exists.

AdithyaR · Answer

That it's a necessity.

Juxtapose · Answer

Soulmates.

ThatgirlDiza · Answer

That true love exists

najekim · Answer

That they require no work to maintain them.

captain_voidwalker · Answer

That love even exists in the first place.

grega239 · Answer

Its reciprocal.  In my experience, its not

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