Hello,
I have been dating my S. O for about 3 years now, Lately we have been having problems with our sexual compatibility, This is a problem on its own but what i feel more important problem is her not thinking about me sometimes , I used to plan dates every week. It might be a romantic restaurant or a quick get away from all the work we do in this work from home environment. I stopped doing this recently because 6 months back when the sexual problems started, I had a conversation with her and i suggested that My S. O should plan out a date every week, because i understand transitioning from work phase to sex phase is tough i deal with it too. But, In 6 months she hasn't planned a single date, Its frustrating because i try a lot to keep this relationship like it was day 1. What makes it worse is if i get frustrated and ask her point blank about this, she starts giving me excuses like i am very busy, i have xyz things to do, i have to find a new job. Well, i have the same things too, but i still know that relationship is a priority. This whole mess is leading to sexual problems too.
I have talked with her more than i can count on my fingers, Should i just not care about the relationship and keep it to myself, I can do that. I just want to understand, am i asking too much or being too needy about it?
P. S we both work on the same field of study and have similar work loads.
I have been dating my S. O for about 3 years now, Lately we have been having problems with our sexual compatibility, This is a problem on its own but what i feel more important problem is her not thinking about me sometimes , I used to plan dates every week. It might be a romantic restaurant or a quick get away from all the work we do in this work from home environment. I stopped doing this recently because 6 months back when the sexual problems started, I had a conversation with her and i suggested that My S. O should plan out a date every week, because i understand transitioning from work phase to sex phase is tough i deal with it too. But, In 6 months she hasn't planned a single date, Its frustrating because i try a lot to keep this relationship like it was day 1. What makes it worse is if i get frustrated and ask her point blank about this, she starts giving me excuses like i am very busy, i have xyz things to do, i have to find a new job. Well, i have the same things too, but i still know that relationship is a priority. This whole mess is leading to sexual problems too.
I have talked with her more than i can count on my fingers, Should i just not care about the relationship and keep it to myself, I can do that. I just want to understand, am i asking too much or being too needy about it?
P. S we both work on the same field of study and have similar work loads.
