How can I cope if my partner always prioritizes herself and her friends first and is less needy?

[Anonymous]

Temporarily distant. She mostly text me only when she has NOTHING ELSE to do.

Sometimes she come online, ignore my text, turn off internet (she turn it off while charging) and leave.
I have a full time job and have many other things to do. But still find a lot of time for her.

what do you think I should do? Any tips please

[Genie23]

You don't have to cope. If she doesn't think you deserve to be her priority other than her career than I think you deserve someone much better who values you. The way you've described her makes me think she's very selfish and only wants to give you time so you could entertain her when she's free and bored.

[Asker]

Yes you’re right, but she loves me

[Genie23]

If she really loved you, she would have made you her priority and never made you feel like you don't matter as much to her as much she means to you.

[Asker]

But she have that emotional feeling. She cries whenever we fight or when I don’t talk. Sometimes I complain that she’s showing attention and ignore her for few hours. She keep on calling and texting during that time

[Genie23]

Before she goes back to priorities others again, right? This is what I mean. She takes you for granted but as soon as you start distancing yourself from her, she does few things to make you happy before doing things that upsets you again. A good partner shows consistency in their action and affection

[Asker]

Yes, you’re right.

[DermalPunch]

She is a selfish woman. She may appreciate you but selfish people just don't give much. This is as good as it will get with her. The choice is yours.

[aoihewgf]

She should prioritize herself more than you and you should do the same.

All the rest of what you said, you have justifiable reason to feel the way you do.

I'd also say that it should be a sign that you need to start deciding if she is worthy of holding the title of your girlfriend any longer.

[GoodEnoughThen]

You can "cope" by breaking up with her. You should not ever feel like you are the last of her priorities or the last person she wants to have contact with. C'mon now, you know this.

[KrakenAttackin]

This is most modern women. You are just a provider to her, expendable, replaceable, Interchangeable.

[Asker]

How do you think I should stand

[KrakenAttackin]

Treat her like a fuck buddy and nothing more.

[Anonymous]

If you are relying on texts, wake up, she is not your partner.

[Asker]

We do all

[Anonymous]

I could never date someone like this again who sucks at prioritizing

[shades777]

time to dump that hoe

[In_Trance]

you accept it or you move on. Your choice