Am I just being paranoid about my boyfriend and my roommate?

[Anonymous]

My roommate hates my boyfriend and thinks I should break up with him, but when he’s around she’s always laughing and talking to him like he’s a friend. Found out today after I left my apartment that she and my boyfriend talked for 30 minutes (he spent the night and I had lunch plans so I let him sleep in).

Am I insane for thinking this is weird? I don’t like them being alone together but I don’t want to seem controlling or insecure by confronting either one of them about this.

I’m tired of her telling me to break up with him/shit talking him to me and then her acting so fake around him. What should I do? Is this a toxic friendship that I have with my roommate or am I just overthinking things? It’s so annoying.

[Wise4myage]

Sounds like she wants to make a move on your boyfriend.

[Asker]

Should I confront her?

[Wise4myage]

Yes, tell her it’s none of her business.

[driven159]

get a new roommate she wants him that is why she is trying break you two up that's a no brainer

[Lyndsielee666]

Sounds like ol girl wants your man

[Asker]

Bro I’m annoyed, she texts him sometimes, it’s all friendly stuff but should I ask her to stop or ask her to back off?

[Lyndsielee666]

id definitely tell her ass to back off. Not good company to keep 😣

[Asker]

She’s my roommate 😭😭😭

[Asker]

She does this to our other friends boyfriends too though so like I don't know

[Amoebaaa]

You are not overthinking. Something isn't right.

[Asker]

Who should I confront? Things are going great between my boyfriend and I so I’m not tryna stir up something between us

[Amoebaaa]

Confront her. It seems like she likes your boyfriend. I don't wanna sound like an AH but I feel like she is trying to make you dump your boyfriend while trying to win him. So she can date him lol. I sense evil intentions.