Have you ever felt underappreciated in a relationship?

[moonpie89]

What did the person do or didn't do to make you feel that way?

Did you break up with them?

[ohshee]

When you first start going out with somebody you're head over heels with you can feel their energy their bond their love their trust and respect all the above it is hot is sexy and it is beautiful but once they start taking things for granted and everything starts and change you know this over with down deep you really do if they cannot be the same person all the way through the relationships and something's wrong and it's not meant to be
Once you start feeling it underappreciated feeling there's nothing is going to bring it back but unless they changed and they're not going to change because that's not who they are I'm sorry that you have to go through this because it does suck I've been there but I think you know that there is a guy out there that will treat you the way you're supposed to be treated at least that's what I feel anyway you can get any guy that you want to so don't hang onto something that you can't have or don't want

[OlderAndWiser]

Yes, I have felt that way. I was treated as a low priority. She saw me when it was convenient for her and she had nothing else to do. I broke up with her.

[moonpie89]

Sorry to hear that. I can't stand people like that.

[OlderAndWiser]

It was a learning experience.

[Anonymous]

Never. But my sister did.
and she gave it try. Like she stayed for few more years gave it her best. She was patient with him as she knows it may take time to learn / get better at things

unfortunately even after few years of patience he ended up getting physically violent and that was the day she left him.

in my relationship (married), I was the one who didn’t appreciate my partner. He was patient with me and stayed even when I pushed him away and now we aee doing great.

I am thankful to him for not leaving me even those time I was harsh with him and literally told him to leave me

he thankfully understood i was depressed and needed to work on that and he stayed by my side as I did

[exitseven]

Yes, I dated somebody that put very little effort into our relationship. I kept waiting for her to figure it out but she never did. I finally broke up with her.

[Z1pTD]

Yep when my girlfriend broke up with me bc even tho I took her virginity she decided I wasn’t good enough :I

[AndrésC64]

Absolutely. I felt unappreciated / underappreciated for years. We got divorced.

[magiusX26]

am a guy. that is my answer.

[legalboxers]

everyone I dated. And Yes..

[Jerre]

Fortunately, I have never felt under appreciated

[Luckycharms12]

Talk about it

[moonpie89]

You talked about it then it was fine?

[Luckycharms12]

For little be it was then said it again. People you are with especially in long term relationship can take things for granted or get lazy or comfortable. Longer you are with someone harder you work

[Naughtyboy71]

Yes in my marriage

[EaterPeter]

Yes.

[eagle1951]

hasn't everyone