Boyfriend only talks to me when it’s convenient but expects me to be available when I’m busy?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for a few months. At first “I don’t think” he was into dating me but something changed his mind I guess. I just notice something really odd about our relationship that I think it’s the fair. My boyfriend only makes plans when he has less time on his hands or when he is really really busy. Everything he plans is always at the last minute.

He took a holiday (6 days) from work and I pretty much didn’t hear him most of the time he was out of work. The very last day the day before he goes back to work in the afternoon around 3pm, he made plans for me and him. This day I told him I was going to be busy and he should’ve plan it the days he was off. (He never warns me before he’s busy and ignores my calls just to return days later to say he was busy.) So he calls me and calls me and tells me he spent his money to do this, he was busy his whole holiday and I needed to come. I don’t understand why he waits till the last minute to do things. So I came to see him, which looking back I regret going and should’ve just left him there. It’s not the first time he’s done something like that but the 100th.

Four days ago, I’ve been going through some life changes. I just got a bunch of money and I have to take care of my sick mother. Because my mother being sick I told my boyfriend I won’t be able to talk to him for the few days because I’m going through some things. He says ok and to relax as much as I need. So even with me telling him I won’t be able to talk, he still calls me, morning and late at night. I don’t answer. He called yesterday but I told him I couldn’t talk cause I was driving and I’ll call him later. So when we got home so late I was too tired to talk on the phone. So I told my boyfriend we could talk in the morning like we usually do. He says ok. I called and texted him all this morning and still nothing from him. Ami doing something wrong?
Boyfriend only talks to me when it’s convenient but expects me to be available when I’m busy?
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