I hit my boyfriend on his face and gave him a bruise that is very noticeable. What can I do to make it up to him? (Page 2)

[driven159]

yes, you are not the girl he thought you were if a man did that, she would leave him I am sure that is in his mind and as far as your jealousy is not love it is control so you should prepare yourself for the worst

[ANDYB88]

Seriously take a look at yourself and why you did this. If it ever happens again seek
professional help and let him enjoy his life with another woman who doesn’t behave like this

[slatyb]

Get some counseling for your jealousy and anger problems. If I were him, it would be over.

[Pohjolan]

So you hit your partner for no reason, in the head.

You need some sort of anger management.
Start doing gardening or something.
Especially before you are going to have kids if you are going to that is.

[Dchrls78104]

If he's still there with you, I feel more pity for him than for you. With me it would have been a 'hit and run'--- you hit, I run!

[cookiecrusher]

Best thing you could do to him is to help him get a good new girlfriend.

Secondly get therapy.

Thirdly a blowjob.

Main problem is that you only seem to think about yourself.

[JamesRandiDebates]

You're going to have to swallow, take it in the ass, any sexual thing he's ever asked that you've refused, you now owe him.

I would still dump you. No bitch in the world is worth that aggravation.

[kikkiemon]

as I see it you really have 2 choices here, 1 find a new boyfriend who in not nearly as good looking or 2 learn to take these situations of others passing compliments to your boyfriends' appearance as a complement to yourself as well!

[exitseven]

He will get over it. Make sure he knows you are sorry and it was an accident.

[sirderpsalot123]

How is intentionally hitting someone an accident? 😂

[exitseven]

@sirderpsalot123 I don't think you meant to cause him so much damage.

[Juxtapose]

Oh come on man, would you be saying this if the sexes were reversed?

[exitseven]

@Juxtapose No, guys should not hit women.

[Juxtapose]

The reverse is also wrong.

[sirderpsalot123]

I don't even care that you think men don't have the right to defend themselves. I'm more annoyed that you're enabling this girls bad behavior and acting like she did nothing wrong. "He will get over it" implying he should stay and that's he's overreacting.

[bamesjond0069]

Well he's definitely going to have sex with her now. Smh. Never act like a jealous freak it always backfires.

[msc545]

You hit him because some OTHER girl might like him? As if he could control what others do and feel? You must be what...10 years old? I hope he leaves you.

[Anonymous]

Turn yourself in as a domestic abuser and volunteer to go to anger management classes and pack up your shyt.

[Staximus]

You need to learn how to control your anger and your jealously. That is no excuse to hit him.

[HeartFullOfGlue]

Nothing, you dont deserve his forgiveness after what you did

[ObscuredBeyond]

You have to be very careful, when you start looking at what you think another deserves. One accident, and it could be you. Will you move mountains to redeem yourself, only to be coldly denied your pardon by self-righteous strangers, world without end? How will you bear up under such? Do the grinding gears of the cancel culture mindset not grind your guts as equally as anyone else's?

To assume she is beyond forgiveness for one accident committed in a heat of the moment rage, when she has stated penitence and a desire to make amends, is far more damning of you by far than what her incident will ever be of her.

Burrow this truth into your heart now, so you are not given over to cold-hearted hypocrisy later in life.

[HeartFullOfGlue]

@ObscuredBeyond
I wouldn't hit someone for something that dumb in the first place, so that fixes a lot there.
One accident can mean a lot
Does she deserve forgiveness? In my eyes no (at least for this incident), and in his eyes maybe no (I don't know what he thinks)

[globetrotter22]

She can be forgiven. But that doesn’t mean he should stay with her. I wouldn’t. I get it’s tough but I were him I would be working on an exit strategy.

[HeartFullOfGlue]

May I also remind you that she hit him, for a comment someone else made about his appearance. He did nothing wrong in this situation.

[HeartFullOfGlue]

@globetrotter22 I didn't say she couldn't be forgiven, I just said she doesn't deserve it. I agree with everything else you said

[ObscuredBeyond]

I'd be less trusting of her, in his shoes. But I wouldn't make haste to condemn her to Hell for a single act of thoughtless stupidity.

There are things I do struggle to forgive:

- Direct assaults on my sense of worth as a human being / sense of right to exist
- Gaslighting
- Stashing
- Lies
- Cheating
- Closet bisexuality
- Rape by fraud
- Bestiality
- Biting me without my permission, especially when done as a sex / foreplay gesture
- Threatening to steal my identity
- Legal abuse (manipulation of law enforcement, especially via lies, so they'll harass me on her behalf and make me live in fear)
- Poisoning the well (pretending to be a friend, but only until they've told enough lies and half-truths to turn friends into enemies, then dropping me like a hot potato)

I've been targeted for abuse at that level by various women. Including women I never even dated!

A childish outburst one time by a woman who regrets it, assumes responsibility, and seeks amends, is petty compared to what I have been asked to endure. A DualShock 5 can be replaced. A soul cannot.

[HeartFullOfGlue]

@ObscuredBeyond I didn't condemn her to hell or anything like it. I just said she didn't deserve to be forgiven for something like this. She hurt him physically for a comment made by a stranger (I assume) online. Its not petty, its seeing red flags.

[globetrotter22]

@HeartFullOfGlue i initially got very angry about the huge double standard about all of this. You would never see a guy admitting to doing something like this on GAG for a reason.

However I challenge you question feminists about this double standard crap as you get older. See if it even registers in their brains that women can do wrong (including violence). I have never seen a self proclaimed feminist vigorously call out another woman for doing this crap. Never.

[HeartFullOfGlue]

@globetrotter22 I've seen it a couple of times, I've had my comments deleted on them and the post get taken down.

Feminists do know women can be the abuser. The thing is feminism isn't one thing. There are different types of feminism (you can look them up and the differences between them, its late so I'm definitely not doing that) and there's individuals in these communities that are so fucking stupid (to put it kindly) and are so loud that they drown out the others.
I might not be seeing the same things you are since I'm within a feminist community that does speak on these issues.

[globetrotter22]

@HeartFullOfGlue it’s funny that some of the more thoughtful responses I’ve seen on GAG are ironically from teen girls. But something happens to women when they get in their early 20s. I guess it’s a combo of 1) being burned a few times from asshole guys 2) being able to visit clubs, bars, etc. Seeing the full power of female sexuality.

Anyway that is still a ways off for you. But some of the most conceited women I’ve seen on GAG (and even in real life) are ironically older. For instance I would be curious to see what @suburugirl would say about this incident. She’s 24 and rips on men every chance she gets. She’s also a proud feminist.

She’s on GAG all the time. I wouldn’t be surprised if she saw this post and just ignored it because it goes against her man hating doctrine.

Anyway that was a bit of tangent. But I can tell you the loudest and most influential feminist out there wouldn’t call out women on incidents like this crap.

[globetrotter22]

Also my apologies for the long comments here. But notice how she updated the comment section to still talk about the Instagram issue. That’s another red flag she doesn’t feel true remorse about this. A part of her brain still wants to justify her inexcusable action. That’s bad.

[HeartFullOfGlue]

@globetrotter22 Thank you, teenagers aren't AS dumb as people think lol.
Its different for a lot of women. Some are just really, really tired of being treated badly and hearing of how there sisters are being treated by men, then there are some smaller but meaningful things that are said to us as children, one huge thing is how we're viewed as just sex objects, it completely dehumanizes us. There are tons of stuff that goes unnoticed that happen to women. I can and will go into it more tomorrow or the day after if you want. Its a long topic in and of itself.

I've seen @suburugirl around but I haven't really seen what she says.

[HeartFullOfGlue]

@globetrotter22 Oh no, I dont mind long comments as long as there about something actually meaningful.
Yeah, and its not even a good one

[Sambelfast22]

Best thing you can do is split up with him and save him the suffering of being with an abusive girlfriend.

[Anonymous]

Hand yourself in at the nearest police station, they'll probably issue a restraining order against you and mandate an anger management course

[Wesj89]

Get some counseling to understand you don't hit people when you're upset

[admles]

He should break up with you. There is no excuse for hitting someone ever. You need professional help.

[Guardian45]

Start with a big apology and explanation and discussion. If you convince him to forgive you, then promise to NEVER do it again!

[anton_dee]

Apologize to him. Real sincere apologies. Then be normal without any hilarity and wait for him to get back to normal

[fred_durst]

he is crying? why would you date that soyboy on first place?
dump him , you know you are the queen and deserve better

[Juxtapose]

You disgusting simp, ruled by your hormones and low self-esteem.

[Gorge95]

@Juxtapose the man is trolling. 🤣

[Gorge95]

On a serious note though I can bet you 100 bills that he does not think is. At all.

[Juxtapose]

@Gorge95 possible indeed!

[SuccessfulHornDog]

sounds like domestic violence. I hope that you turned yourself into the authorities

[Anonymous]

i had to leave multiple relationships before the verbal abuse and put downs and swearing and anger and insults became violent physical abuse. i got out of several relationships before it was to late

[EnglishEuropean]

Ooops, misdirected anger. He should just kick you to the kerb.

[Anonymous]

Well he knows how jealous you can get. All you can do is say you’re sorry but that you get very jealous

[Abinav69]

You've never know a real man, which is why you got care less

[sandman111]

Apologie and maybe blow him. Or let him do something that you won't otherwise 😂

[LegendaryIcon]

i would have broken up with you on the spot

[thomas472]

Next time control yourself, you maniac! 😎

[thomas472]

It was a joke! On a serious note, learn to deal with your anger and give your man a back rub to make up for lashing out at him.

[Raperonzolo_Viv]

Apologise and work on yourself.

[skyeee_]

im sorry you're genuinely not ok

[sunflower00]

You abused him

[scooogy]

Call him your bitch, makes it acceptable. 🤷‍♂️

[JesseJayNeak]

You better turn yourself in for aggravated assault

[Harleigh90]

Leave him

[Asker]

Why? I’m already making it up to him

[SnakeBoop]

i hope he leaves,

[Nachowedgie]

Turn yourself into the police for assault

[jimmy2]

Be careful that abuse

[sa_guitar_ius89]

Blowjob honey...😉👌 Its very powerfull skill 🔥🙃

[Jingi18]

I’d be gone if there were a second time

[Danielle93]

That's sweet. I would be gone on the first time or even after a threatening gesture.

[Jingi18]

I feel like it isn’t something that should have to be talked about, but sometimes people don’t know certain boundaries unless they’re specifically told

[Bray77]

Do anything dirty or kinky he wants

[Anonymous]

So has he fucked her yet?

[Danny_dan92]

Break up with him

[Waldoe]

Behave... grow up?

[sirderpsalot123]

Brat

[jackinoff]

Over react much?

[TsAubreyKate]

give him a handy j