Does every fuckboy have one true love?

[red324]

A while back there was a topic about what made a fuckboy become that way? Apparently it was because he gave his heart away to one particular girl and it got stomped on.

It's kind of how I feel honestly. This happened to me and I won't ever allow myself to become emotionally invested in a girl like I did with that one so now it's like why bother even sticking to just one? Just talk to like 5 at a time. Etc.

Opinions?

[DizzyDesii]

Yea i agree that a lot of people allow one bad apple to spoil the whole bunch whether it be gender related, race related, or overall relationship related. You are limiting yourself but if you enjoy the lifestyle, keep fcking around until your dick possibly falls off from fcking with the wrong one

[red324]

I didn't necessarily mean I go and fuck as many girls as I can although lots of guys do that and girls too. I recently was left by a girl that said she just wanted to fuck around and I was more of a relationship material guy/ father figure for her kids... whatever bye bitch. I stay more on the emotionally disconnected side so I don't get hurt when they leave me and give me a reason like the one above. at least she was honest though I give her points for that, but as you can see she is not a quality girl and I kind of figured that out not too long before she dumped me.

[DizzyDesii]

I know you didn't mean you fck a lot. I know a fckboy is more about playing with feelings than pussys. But i was saying in general that you wanna be careful before you catch something. And yea the girl was wrong for being a fckgirl playing witth your feelings. But the way i see it, people will be people. Brush it off and on to the next until you finally cross someone worthy of your time

[red324]

I know. It kind of takes the fun out of it because afterwards you're worried if you caught something. Personally I tend to take my time when meeting someone and after a couple months you can tell whether or not they're a decent person.

[DizzyDesii]

I wouldn't sleep with anyone in less than 6 months of dating them but i also have to see a future with them and after a while, i haven't seen one anymore with most that I've dated. So you just gotta know when to give yourself to someone and when not to

[red324]

How often do you go out typically? I've gone on two dates with this one girl and we're both compatible personality wise, but it's been a month since the second date and we still text but she hasn't agreed to any of. my date ideas I've thrown out and I'm about ready to tell her this isn't working if we don't meet in person at least once every week or two, but at the same time maybe she just moves slower? Most these women will string a guy along as long as he takes the bait.

[DizzyDesii]

I dont just go on dates. I get to know a person 1-3 months (talking otp/hanging out) before agreeing to go on a date. If there's a kiss at the end of the date, we may become official. If things dont go well just in the talking or date stage then i end things before becoming official. I prob date 2-3 guys a year. But these are the “chosen” ones lol. For example, i could have 5 options in a month but i’ll choose one by the end of the month that i want to keep getting to know. The others X themselves out quickly once we learn our differences

[red324]

So do you see it as an issue that we haven't gone on another date or should I just go with it since she still keeps in touch? She's an introverted independent type of girl so I don't want to smother her, but at the same time I see it as a red flag that we haven't gone on another date.

[DizzyDesii]

Maybe move on until she makes a move

[red324]

Should I tell her im moving on and have asked multiple times now for a 3rd date or just leave it be?

[DizzyDesii]

Yes be direct but as nice as possible when stating that

[red324]

What's your opinion on girls that get mad because you went too slow or didn't give them sex when they wanted? It's amazing how often they get frustrated because I want to get to know them and not take them to bed on the third date. This goes back to the not allowing myself to get connected too soon because some women will leave for the dumbest of reasons.

[DizzyDesii]

I dont respect people looking for casual sex nor sex within the first 3 months. As for going to slow, the getting to know you stage can be anywhere 3 months and under

[red324]

I haven't told her anything yet. They never take it very well when I say something like this, so I may just not say anything.

[red324]

It always gets turned around on me and they act like it's all my fault.

[red324]

So we ended up actually going on another date if you can believe that. She's just been busy with work and I don't know, maybe she just moves slower than some people.

[ghanghorchutiya]

The state of society to lionize fuckboys. They have a life you will never have OP because of genetics alone and you still worship them. Cuckold of the highest order.

[skytatoe]

I think that's the case yeah.

Kind of a dumb self defeating way to react in my opinion. But it's pretty common.

[Uptowngirl88]

@DizzyDesii 💀💀🤣