You are a tramp.
He should break up and you two should be finished.
No one should ever date you seriously again. Once any man finds you you've cheated before they should no longer consider you a girlfriend or wife prospect. The rest of your life should consist of nothing but casual hook ups and nothing more.
I like how many of you always add your little disclaimers in your stories..."WHO NEGLECTED ME". You always want an excuse. It is their fault.
TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOU OWN ACTIONS! YOU DID IT. OWN IT. QUIT ADDING THESE MEANINGLESS DETAILS AS IF THAT EXCUSES IT.
It does not. No one mad you cheat but you and your corrupt, sleazy character.
it just confirms that women are only in love with how your making them feel and rarely are they in love with you truly. Because he’s not giving you that same feeling you went out searching for it in other people. I’m pretty sure your boyfriend is probably your stability but if you find someone who brings more stability and you love how he makes you feel in that same you’ll leave your boyfriend for him. If I were you I would be honest and just break up. I watched too many crime shows you never know how he’ll react to finding out. Cut him loose because your doing him wrong and cut him loose for the simple fact that a bad reaction from him could have you on dateline nbc
I don't think cheating is a good thing in any case. If you were ghosted. You should have just sent him a message saying "hey we're done" ... just to let you know that ghosting someone after a fight is not right. It's not normal. I've been dating my boyfriend for a year. when we fight which is rare. We take 20 to 30 minutes cool off. Then we go back to the subject and resolve it. My boyfriend is in the military and the only time he would not text me back is if he is training and he has no signal where he is. Or when they make him cut off communication due to a situation. But he at least let's me know why he wouldn't reply before hand
You know you could’ve easily just said “I’m sorry but we’re over and I don’t wanna hurt you but respectfully wanna end this relationship “instead of just going to cheat on him with another guy.. 3 days wow. Shows your immaturity as well. I’m 23 but I’d never dare cheat on a guy ever even if he didn’t talk to me for days. Cheating just shows you lack maturity to keep a committed relationship and no respect for the relationship or yourself. I think cheating is disgusting regardless.
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I guess it's a good thing he is ghosting you. If your first reaction towards not hearing anything from a boyfriend for days to a week is running into another man's arms instead of waiting or searching to see what happened, then you shouldn't even be in a relationship.
That's all it takes for you to cheat? Goddamn, you must be a train wreck of a person. If he became a ghost, just write him a long text about wanting to break up, so at least you've cleared that part up. From the way you framed the question, you said he hasn't texted you, not vice versa, which probably means you are also ignoring him as well. You definitely need to be single for a long time.
Maybe he is dead? His mobile is broken? He has some important family business and cannot remain in contact for you for some reason?
If not getting any attention can make you cheat (just not being in contact for 3 days), you ain't relationship material.
Wait I did read your message until now you had fight three days later you already cheated on him? Or did you wait 3 days just to cheat on him and why tho?
Did you not go to his house or where he works and ask to talk? What was the augment about? Was he feeling his voice isn't being heard or was he excusing you of cheating?
If you’re unhappy in a relationship and decide to cheat instead of break up, you’re a bad person.
What did cheating solve?
Nothing.
Now you’ll have a bad reputation over a guy you don’t even love.
For nothing.
I already see why by the way you phrased the question saying, he had a fight with me. Nooooo you both were fighting, probably because you're wilfully ignorant when it comes to another person's consideration. He only apologized because he thought there was still potential for him to get more 🐱. Hopefully he realized it's not worth the stress and doesn't come crawling back to you, you wouldn't even respect him 🤣
If you were cheating on him, the relationship with your previous boyfriend is over. If you cannot contact him, the relationship is over. It would seem we need to find somebody you are more compatible with, if that is what you want. If you just want to date around then do so. There’s no need to add drama to a situation in which two people cannot communicate or have any intention of communicating with each other.
Yes because you are just as bad as him if not worse if you went to that level, you could've broke up with him and kept your dignity but decided to just ruin your trust, now you have that cheater title on your name simply cause you were angry.
Your a self gratifying taker. You demand all the attention and when you don’t get it, you find another set of genitals to play with. Hopefully your present boyfriend finds out, drops you like the cheater you are and searches for a partner that understands a relationship based on mutual respect, trust and sharing.
I think you sound like a selfish, unintegral person, with out the decency to just break things off... stay single until you grow up and figure out how to act like an adult.
why do you assume you cheat on him
what if your boyfriend actually like will smith? the fact that you sleep with other guy actually turn him on and make him happy and love you even more
many men nowadays love cuckold , they love the idea about their wife./girlfriend have sex with other men , but most people dont know about that
are you stupid? if you don't like him then just be straightforward about it and break up.
You haven't called him in three days either, right? So you are making him feel neglected and he is fucking some other chick now. That's cool right?
You cheat you're not worth it. Reasons do not matter at all, you couldve just left but you cheated instead. I have no respect for people who take the easy out rather than own up
You should leave him alone. Especially after you cheated. And don’t be the person who gets back with him without telling him you are cheating. That’s disgusting and wrong to sleep with a person without them knowing you were just having sex recently with someone else.
WHY lower yourself to HIS behaviors?
Put forth the effort to attract someone WORTHY of YOUR fidelity!
It looks like he broke up with you without even reaching you some people do this they just ghost someone instead of telling them to their face
Trash gotta act like trash.
I'm not surprised he's ignoring you now.
It's fine to move on if you want to, but if you're messing around with other guys to punish him that's just hoe behavior.
This doesn't come across as a relationship since it doesn't seem like you two have met in person. If it is a relationship it should be over since you cheated on him and since he has ghosted you within the first 45 days.
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