I'm cheating on my boyfriend who neglected me. what do you think about this?

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He had a fight with me a few days ago and then apologized. He hasn't texted or called me for three days. do you think i am wrong? We've been talking for about 45 days and he suddenly disappeared.

Ballinbmac01 · Accepted Answer

it just confirms that women are only in love with how your making them feel and rarely are they in love with you truly. Because he’s not giving you that same feeling you went out searching for it in other people. I’m pretty sure your boyfriend is probably your stability but if you find someone who brings more stability and you love how he makes you feel in that same you’ll leave your boyfriend for him. If I were you I would be honest and just break up. I watched too many crime shows you never know how he’ll react to finding out. Cut him loose because your doing him wrong and cut him loose for the simple fact that a bad reaction from him could have you on dateline nbc

Miristheiss · Accepted Answer

You are a tramp.
He should break up and you two should be finished.
No one should ever date you seriously again. Once any man finds you you've cheated before they should no longer consider you a girlfriend or wife prospect. The rest of your life should consist of nothing but casual hook ups and nothing more.

I like how many of you always add your little disclaimers in your stories..."WHO NEGLECTED ME". You always want an excuse. It is their fault.
TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOU OWN ACTIONS! YOU DID IT. OWN IT. QUIT ADDING THESE MEANINGLESS DETAILS AS IF THAT EXCUSES IT.
It does not. No one mad you cheat but you and your corrupt, sleazy character.

t_time · Accepted Answer

I don't think cheating is a good thing in any case. If you were ghosted. You should have just sent him a message saying "hey we're done" ... just to let you know that ghosting someone after a fight is not right. It's not normal. I've been dating my boyfriend for a year. when we fight which is rare. We take 20 to 30 minutes cool off. Then we go back to the subject and resolve it. My boyfriend is in the military and the only time he would not text me back is if he is training and he has no signal where he is. Or when they make him cut off communication due to a situation. But he at least let's me know why he wouldn't reply before hand

Mary087 · Accepted Answer

You know you could’ve easily just said “I’m sorry but we’re over and I don’t wanna hurt you but respectfully wanna end this relationship “instead of just going to cheat on him with another guy.. 3 days wow. Shows your immaturity as well. I’m 23 but I’d never dare cheat on a guy ever even if he didn’t talk to me for days. Cheating just shows you lack maturity to keep a committed relationship and no respect for the relationship or yourself. I think cheating is disgusting regardless.

Vesuvius87 · Answer

I guess it's a good thing he is ghosting you. If your first reaction towards not hearing anything from a boyfriend for days to a week is running into another man's arms instead of waiting or searching to see what happened, then you shouldn't even be in a relationship.

Datboi65 · Answer

That's all it takes for you to cheat? Goddamn, you must be a train wreck of a person. If he became a ghost, just write him a long text about wanting to break up, so at least you've cleared that part up. From the way you framed the question, you said he hasn't texted you, not vice versa, which probably means you are also ignoring him as well. You definitely need to be single for a long time.

IMuser · Answer

Maybe he is dead? His mobile is broken? He has some important family business and cannot remain in contact for you for some reason?

If not getting any attention can make you cheat (just not being in contact for 3 days), you ain't relationship material.

TRORT · Answer

Wait I did read your message until now you had fight three days later you already cheated on him? Or did you wait 3 days just to cheat on him and why tho?
Did you not go to his house or where he works and ask to talk? What was the augment about? Was he feeling his voice isn't being heard or was he excusing you of cheating?

NotTacocaT6969 · Answer

If you’re unhappy in a relationship and decide to cheat instead of break up, you’re a bad person.

What did cheating solve?

Nothing.

Now you’ll have a bad reputation over a guy you don’t even love.

For nothing.

Mofunfour20 · Answer

I already see why by the way you phrased the question saying, he had a fight with me. Nooooo you both were fighting, probably because you're wilfully ignorant when it comes to another person's consideration. He only apologized because he thought there was still potential for him to get more 🐱. Hopefully he realized it's not worth the stress and doesn't come crawling back to you, you wouldn't even respect him 🤣

Emiliamazing · Answer

If you were cheating on him, the relationship with your previous boyfriend is over. If you cannot contact him, the relationship is over. It would seem we need to find somebody you are more compatible with, if that is what you want. If you just want to date around then do so. There’s no need to add drama to a situation in which two people cannot communicate or have any intention of communicating with each other.

TheMajesticKing777 · Answer

Yes because you are just as bad as him if not worse if you went to that level, you could've broke up with him and kept your dignity but decided to just ruin your trust, now you have that cheater title on your name simply cause you were angry.

Evilbunnyfoofoo · Answer

Your a self gratifying taker. You demand all the attention and when you don’t get it, you find another set of genitals to play with. Hopefully your present boyfriend finds out, drops you like the cheater you are and searches for a partner that understands a relationship based on mutual respect, trust and sharing.

Subarugirl · Answer

I think you sound like a selfish, unintegral person, with out the decency to just break things off... stay single until you grow up and figure out how to act like an adult.

fred_durst · Answer

why do you assume you cheat on him
what if your boyfriend actually like will smith? the fact that you sleep with other guy actually turn him on and make him happy and love you even more
many men nowadays love cuckold , they love the idea about their wife./girlfriend have sex with other men , but most people dont know about that

lrina · Answer

are you stupid? if you don't like him then just be straightforward about it and break up.

spartan55 · Answer

You haven't called him in three days either, right? So you are making him feel neglected and he is fucking some other chick now. That's cool right?

LDN924853 · Answer

You cheat you're not worth it. Reasons do not matter at all, you couldve just left but you cheated instead. I have no respect for people who take the easy out rather than own up

Anonymous · Answer

You should leave him alone. Especially after you cheated. And don’t be the person who gets back with him without telling him you are cheating. That’s disgusting and wrong to sleep with a person without them knowing you were just having sex recently with someone else.

TheorionMage · Answer

WHY lower yourself to HIS behaviors?  Put forth the effort to attract someone WORTHY of YOUR fidelity!

chriss · Answer

It looks like he broke up with you without even reaching you some people do this they just ghost someone instead of telling them to their face

SnakeBoop · Answer

Trash gotta act like trash.  I'm not surprised he's ignoring you now.

JamesDiaz11 · Answer

It's fine to move on if you want to, but if you're messing around with other guys to punish him that's just hoe behavior.

MysteriousDarkness · Answer

This doesn't come across as a relationship since it doesn't seem like you two have met in person. If it is a relationship it should be over since you cheated on him and since he has ghosted you within the first 45 days.

Daniela1982 · Answer

So why complain about it? Just move on.

luvstoned4him · Answer

Doesn't seem like a real relationship so I don't think you cheated. Sorry that happened to you though. Some men can be jerks

LUPITA00 · Answer

im so confused but very disappointed in my gender women are so unpredictable and totally misuse the action in revenge

Now_Here · Answer

Yes, he's very wrong to do that but cheating isn't right either. You could've left him first.

EmmaMary · Answer

Congratulations on winning a  Troll  of the day award.

Alyssa_11 · Answer

Don’t cheat on him. Decide if you want to be with him and work it out or leave the relationship. It’s really that simple.

anniisa97 · Answer

You're immature, and stupid. No offense but you did ask what we think.

skyeee_ · Answer

it's wrong for him to neglect you but why cheat lol? just break up.

noohair · Answer

That is sort of like, he ignored me so I shot him in the head.

Zolly99999 · Answer

Doesn't sound like a serious relationship.. do what makes you feel happy.. everyone argues from time to time. But communication is the key to a good relationship..

Anonymous · Answer

It's kind of hard to break up with the person who goes to you, but maybe you can just send a text telling him you met someone else and it's over.

Anonymous · Answer

Hopefully he's cheating on you too. You're a trashy wh***.

LogicBomber · Answer

You deserve to be single and miserable for the rest of your life. You deserve to be used and cheated on by every person you ever care about.

TallAnon · Answer

Do your best to tell him it's over and maybe don't fuck another guy right away.

RebeccaBI2000 · Answer

I am not sure how long you were dating, but cheating is not the answer

jammcm · Answer

Move on. You have not established a relationship if you are only 45 days into this friendship.

MountAverage · Answer

Wait, so your "relationship" consisted of 45 days of "talking"?

JesseJayNeak · Answer

It that’s what it takes for you to cheat then you shouldn’t be in a relationship

whosnumber1 · Answer

I would just tell him it's over when he finally reaches out to you

ronaldo75 · Answer

You're a piece of shit. If he's neglecting you then break up with him.

Iron_Man · Answer

There’s no reason to cheat because you’re not doing well

crmoore · Answer

To be clear, you cheated on him after 3 days of not being in contact with him?

AndrésC64 · Answer

I think you are very immature and that your boyfriend should dump you

Xtendable · Answer

How lobg did he disappear for? How did you cheat on him?

888theGreat · Answer

If you see him again it will be his truck heading 90 mph right at you

cookiecrusher · Answer

I'm thinking he is a piece of shit partner, just like you.

Prg11 · Answer

So you cheat specifically to pull him back? That is super-dumb. What's your IQ, does it reach 80?

Anonymous · Answer

Lol so you’re dating and not exclusive. As long as it’s mutual you’re cool…. But honestly sounds like it was always casual to him too.

Anonymous · Answer

If you cheat you establish he is not your boyfriend anymore. Just give up on relationships and hoe around instead

Anonymous · Answer

So what would you give yourself in the Looks Department between a 1-10?

johnseggs · Answer

Don’t think it’s too big a deal. Y’all were only together for less than 2 months.

Sasha_Gee · Answer

Tell him you cheated and then break up :D

Birdlegs · Answer

You’re both In the wrong

Agape93 · Answer

That you're a shit person.

MrsTurkleton · Answer

Nobody else’s business.

Wise4myage · Answer

Train wreck on track 9.

fonduegirl · Answer

I dunno why men are so mad. He clearly started it.

RealMarek · Answer

Break up with him first. Don’t cheat.

humanearth · Answer

Fuck as many as you can

TheFlak38 · Answer

nice job being a whore

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