My boyfriend agreed to propose in 2 years. never happened and he said he will by 2.5 years. never happened and he did by 3rd yr. I was not happy when he proposed because I had to keep waiting and there was no thoughts in the proposal. After proposal he did not plan anything. I started looking at houses asap and there was a property that just got posted. It’s my dream home for a price we can both afford w/o a problem. I sent him the listing one night and asked if he liked it the next day. He yelled at me for “forcing him to buy a home” (I have only asked twice). I got upset and started showing him properties that just caters to his wants. He keeps making excuses to not buy a home (he doesn’t want to rent and says he has money saved for a home). For all the listings I showed him, he keeps saying XYZ is bad. he said he didn’t want one of the houses because there was no basketball hoop in the yard (which costs $300 to add). All his excuses are unfair and so i purchase my 2nd house which is my dream home because property value and interest rates are going high in NY right now. he is now blaming me for not looking at houses with him (which i did right after engagement). Tbh, i dont want to look at houses with him anymore because he just makes excuses to not buy (he yelled at me and said his friends are not even rushing to buy a home-They are single). he also said his parents want to meet mines (also said during dating) but never happened. After engagement there is no planning on his end. My heart is tired-waiting for proposal, him not planning and blaming me for things he don’t want to do. Im planning to call off the engagement as i don’t think he loves me. We are financially stable, but he will never give me a gift unless I give him a gift. He doesn’t pay for my meals (even if it’s $5 But he paid everything and gifts for his ex). What do you guys think? Thanks in advance!!
Guys, Boyfriend proposed but no planning at all after engagement?
