My boyfriend doesn’t make me feel like I’m good enough, am I wrong?

[Anonymous]

We’ve been together for a while now, and in the beginning he always made me feel like I was enough and made me feel like he wanted to be around me. We would chill together & do everything together, but things have changed dramatically since we hit 1yr. Now he rather hang out with everyone else but when it’s us with each other he sleeps or we’re arguing over no time being spent and divided. Am I asking him for to much, bc I want to spend time together, without feeling as if I’m his last option? Am I being selfish for wanting him to want to spend time with me happily the same way he does with his friends? How can I fix this if I am wrong?

[Klinklins]

Talk to him. Also you're supplying more than he's demanding. You're always there for him when he want you and when he does not want you. Turn things around.

Mind your own business, spend time in improving yourself or a hobby, find a passion, hangout with friends. Spend very less time with him. Don't argue like "you don't spend time with me, so I don't wanna spend time with you". Just say you're busy.

Make him miss you. Make him miss your presence. Meanwhile again, don't think about this. Instead do something productive.

[Anonymous]

First every relationship naturally starts with passion and then it fades away.
Second if you or your boyfriend want it to be different you should put work into it. And lastly find something in yourself that gives you the feeling that you're enough. You shouldn't base your self worth on the way your boyfriend treats you.

[Iron_Man]

That’s what happens when you give up too much sex then they become bored and they decide are you a keeper or not

[Asker]

Well we’re long distance & hardly do that together. Is there any other reason behind why this is happening outside of sex? Or is this just truly the main reason? Bc when I said I was going to leave bc of this issue of time & priority he said he would fix it… I don't know :/

[Iron_Man]

It’s probably long-distance

[Anonymous]

LDR's almost never work. It's just human biology. Lack of physical intimacy prevents bonding

[slatyb]

Dump him and find someone capable of giving love