So, when we moved in together we both laid out how much money we have available for bills after savings, and his was a little more than mine, so we were able to get a nice place and live a fairly comfortable life as long as we don't go silly, and we split all household bills 50/50. Recently I found one of his bank statements and couldn't help myself, and I realised his income was over double the amount he said he had available, he literally puts half his pay in savings account, and there was LOT of money in this account. I feel so mad about this, a lie of omission, we could be living a better lifestyle, or he could be picking up a bigger share of the bills. I feel this is a betrayal of my trust that he kept this from me, how do I approach him about this?

I bet he was the one who hit on you and asked you out

You don’t have any right over his money. It’s his not yours

His money are none of your business. Simple.

You can start a fight over this but why bother?

No it's his choice to tell you or not

You want it all he should run from you

Why? It’s his money. He doesn’t owe you anything

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I bet he was the one who hit on you and asked you out

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EQUALITY MOFO <3

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  Maybe he wanted to avoid golddiggers. That is all I can think of. You don't know when you're rich, if they choose you for you or for your pocket. shrug shrug
  
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You don’t have any right over his money. It’s his not yours

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His money are none of your business. Simple.

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Ah, the modern entitled woman.

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You can start a fight over this but why bother?

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No it's his choice to tell you or not

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You want it all he should run from you

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What difference does it make?

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Why? It’s his money. He doesn’t owe you anything

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you should ask him for money

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  Why?
  
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- ASmith43
  
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  Only if she's a prostitute.
  
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exactly thats why men say nothing to women

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Is that a problem?

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Why?

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He is liar leave him

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  Where was the lie?
  
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- dudeinohio
  
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  Oh.. so you are a materialistic gold digger too?
  
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- VanillaSalt
  
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  Na I agree with her… he lied leave him… so he don’t have to suffer a gold digger.
  
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- Aakash_Hangargi
  
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  It's sarcasm
  
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Op is a gold digger

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Lol go ask him why

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