If you are in a serious relationship with someone and one day they get raped when you are not with them, how would you handle that as a couple? What would you do, or what should you do about it?
((TW)) how would you handle rape in a relationship?
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If my girlfriend got raped, I'd seriously beat the living fuck out of dude. I wouldn't tell police myself, but I'd support her too. Rapists are beaten in prisons. County jails separate them, but upstate dont.
If my boyfriend was raped, I would try to support him in any way I could. I would likely try to get him to go to therapy because it’s a very traumatic thing to go through
If they contributed to it id leave them immediately. Ie dressed like a hooker, were at a bar or seedy place they shouldn't be, hanging out with bad people drunk.
If you think wearing a bikini in the hood to meet a drug dealer alone and get really high is a good idea, im not going to be in any sort of relationship with you.
@sunflower00 just like laying in an intersection at night its the drivers fault for running you over. Go lay in an intersection and let me know how it turns out.
Well, I’d call that the person lying in the roads fault, as well as the driver for not dodging them.
Going to a bar is not an invitation to be raped? Not sure if you’re a troll or not but that’s insane and you need help if you think that way. Going to a bar is meant to be a fun, social event usually with friends. If someone rapes you that is 100% their fault.
I feel horrible for any of your future partners if you get any
@sunflower00 well myself and many men would find you undateable. If you get raped its really your problem not mine. If you get aids or a rape baby and your husband leaves you or you get ptsd or beat up as well while raped. Nothing i have any concern about nor any sympathy with someone with your attitude about it.
I don’t really care what you or other men think, I’m happy to have a boyfriend who would support me through anything and thinks rape is a horrible thing, and is the rapists fault like any other normal rational human
What if it was just a normal situation, they were dressed and acted normal in a normal place, and they just got attacked by someone? What would you do then?
Depends on if my partner put herself in a stupid position where it was more likely to happen. Then I would leave her. I expect my partner to make intelligent decisions.
That is rare, less than 1/1000 as per the bureau of justice statistics. But if it were to happen, you’d have to ask how it happened, to determine if she made stupid choices.
If, let’s say, a guy jumped out of an van mid day as she walked from lunch back to work and held her at gun point, made her get into the van, the raped her and tossed her out into the street...
I would want her to file a police report, get a rape kit done.
If she at any point said she didn’t want to do those 2 things, I’d leave. It isn’t rape if she is ok with it.
Otherwise I would hunt the prick down and kill him myself.
A lot of rapes happen with someone you know, usually a friend or a relative, someone you trust. Just stopping by a friend's house to pick up a DVD could end up horribly and completely unexpectedly. Most rapists seem totally normal 99% of the time.
That's also why a lot of people don't file a report on it: it's someone in their circles, friends with their friends, family to family. More often than not, it's the victim who will be ostracized from their loved ones, not the rapist. There is pressure to just brush it under the rug so you don't "ruin their life" or break up the circle.
It's just usually not as simple as what you seem to think it is. But, hopefully you never have to deal with it anyway.
That's never happened while I was in a relationship. But I've had a few girlfriend who'd been raped. You just have to love them through it. That's hard stuff.
First of all I'd tell them that its not their fault.. I'd comfort them and let them know that im here for them... And secondly.. I'd ask them about who why did.. Rapists must get punished
That was the first episode I ever saw of that show. I was flipping through channels and got it right when he was coming inside, tried to watch for a while, but flipped away within a minute before she would have got away. Absolutely crazy first impression. I was shocked when I started watching full episodes later and realized it was a sitcom.
But gotta say, i think they handled it very well. Way better than Keeping Up Appearances handled its attempted rape scene.
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