If I am destined to be single while everyone else can easily find a relationship what are my options? Should I just accept my fate?

[Anonymous]

[20yearsolder]

Using the words destined and your fate means you don't have a choice. But that's not true, the only way that becomes the truth is when you give up. There is somebody out there for you You just have to keep trying

[Gloree]

How do you know you're destined to be single? I feel like finding partners comes at different times for different people. I found love at 33. Have patience. There is time. Just be open to friendship and you will find love along the line if that's what you want. Also avoid lowering your standards just because you want love. Relationships should make you happy not was. It should be enjoyed not endured.

[Gloree]

#i meant relationships should make you happy not sad. Pardon my typo.

[melnc]

First of all, it’s important to avoid comparing yourself to others. What looks like a perfect, fulfilling relationship in a social media post might look a lot different in real life. Instead of engaging in comparisons that leave you feeling like you don't measure up, focus on finding acceptance within yourself, not someone else, and the rest shall come over.

[Chris_8876]

Life is kinda random.
Look at me, I'm no movie star but I've been in lots of relationships.
You sort of fulfil your own prophesy by how you think and act, and other people react to your vibes. If you want love, you have to be lovable and be open to loving others.
If you tell yourself that there's no hope and you isolate yourself then there's no possibility for anything other than a single life.
You can do whatever you set your mind to.

[slatyb]

"Easily?" We see many posts on GaG from people having difficulty finding a partner.

What are your attractive qualities? What are you doing to meet people?

[Avicenna]

No, meeting someone is usually completely random. You‘re a young woman and lots of men would love to date you.

[Asker]

All of the guys I’m around think I’m blah no matter what I do to my appearance or anything. It’s ok. I’m just unfuckable.

[Avicenna]

You need to meet guys who respect women and want a relationship.

[Dinosaursandanime65]

If it’s easy for them, the surely it won’t last long. It’s more of an illusion than when John thought he had control over genetic Power. You’ll find the best person for you the same way animals do.

[Fromdusktilldawn]

"Everyone else easily finds a relationship "? I beg your pardon?
I think I do not count to those "everyone"

[Iron_Man]

Just relax make yourself available a man will approach you one day

[Asker]

No one is attracted to me.

[Iron_Man]

Yes they are

[Asker]

Men treat me like crap no matter what.

[Iron_Man]

Why?

[OddBeMe]

Fate doesn’t exist. Only our own subconscious with our own stupid beliefs. Like you’ll be alone forever.

[whiskeyontherocks]

You might be self sabotaging just to prove yourself right.
This sounds like depression

[Juxtapose]

You're a woman, what the hell are you doing wrong?

[dazzinu69]

If you are open to the idea then it will happen

[TrillXHippy]

Don’t do what I’m doing

[Anonymous]

No fate but what we make