Don't know the story/reason you all are exes, but usually relationships that ended once, usually don't last a second chance... But even if so, trying to get back together by sexually luring them isn't the way.. Talking/communicating, working through what caused you to become exes in the first place... Sex alone isn't the cure for a broken relationship...
1. Trying to reunite with an ex is like inviting the other driver back to the scene of your accident so you can recreate the glorious event. You should have learned better by now.
2. A guy is not going to show interest in you, or fail to show interest, because of the stockings and shoes you wear.
It has been MY personal experience, that it is NOT offering to remind a former Love of what/how YOU can be at your 'best' or most-desirable, but instead... HOW OFTEN unprovoked... YOU CHOOSE to 'BE" that fantasy. (A fed dog DON'T hunt)
Common 'wisdom' states: A wise man does NOT forsake what/whom he has to work harder to find outside their relationship... (Applachian proverb: "A well-fed dog stays on YOUR porch and doesn't choose chase wild game with the neighborhood pack" )
A popular 60's R&B ballad was: "Who's Makin Love to YOUR Ol' Lady While YOU were Out Makin Love?"
If he's the one who broke up with you, this is pointless he knew what your legs look like when he did it. Will the stocking and heels give him a sexy vibe? Sure. But it won't magically get him back.
If you dumbed him then it's also pointless. He won't make a move on you like nothing ever was. You want him back in that case you apologize for leaving and ask for a second chance.
So basically this is not gonna do much, unless you have more of a plan.
if things split due to distance or something just as lite. id say just show up to their place of work/house and ask if they wanna get coffee.
if things didn't end well
ya gotta show you have changed. show him you want him not the other way around. make a grand gesture.
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Probably not "enough" actually. And the best way to communicate with guys always is directly. So you are really best to simply tell him how you feel, that you want him back. Anything else just leaves room for doubt. And especially if he's an ex because we guys know all too well that women don't often "go back", so if you don't directly tell him you want him back, he won't get the "hint" likely.
His negative/hurt feelings towards you (either dumped or dumpee) are one of the very rare forces on earth that can override a man’s sex drive. Even if the break up was respectful there is always at least some hurt some where.
Instead of worrying about your leggings how about you genuinely own up to anything you know you did wrong. Make him feel respected. That’s something that men really yearn for from women: respect.
How many Tricks do you have up your sleeve…it’s a good start but what’s Showtime going to be like…. —that’s what we are here for…we’re on your Squad…GO TEAM‼️
Ask yourself, why he is your ex, and what the reasons was. The problem is that mostly the reasons don't just disappear, in general it is a bad idea to go back to an ex.
Are you a guy or a girl? Usually people don’t break up because of sex. Find somebody you are more compatible with. There is more than one fish in the sea.
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