Should I be concerned about his camping trip?

[Cass510]

Hey y’all, so boyfriend and I been together for three years. Now, he’s never done anything to make me suspicious ok. Good boyfriend overall and he’s patient as he can be with my insecurities and trust issues. So his friends he went camping with a while back want to go camping in two weeks (been planning since April) now normally I wouldn’t care BUT I asked who’s going and he doesn’t know because that friend is inviting his friends/coworkers so I was like hmph any girls? He said not sure I think one guy might be bringing his girlfriend. Now I’m not going because 1. Friend didn’t invite me 2. I have clinicals 3. There’s an 8 people max and yeah anyways I’m tripping hard thinking girls are going now my boyfriend says he doesn’t know and details are little to be known at the moment. But I’m worried, he says I have nothing to worry about that he’s not going for anybody but to chill with his two homies that he’s known forever. But I’m worried that if other girls go he might do something or I don't know and I won’t know and he will be gone Friday-Sunday and I’m just stressing. Can anyone give me any advice? A lot of you might think I’m crazy but it’s a genuine concern and my boyfriend is getting annoyed at this point saying it’s just camping. HELP

[jasco]

Honestly chill out, learn to deal with your insecurities/trust issues. The man hasn't done anything to deserve a reason for assuming he may cheat. Why would he start now? He just wants to see his homies and enjoy the camping trip, you can worry all you like but at the end of the day if he cheats. You will never know so in short stop worrying about it and just have some faith in him. Love him and just believe in him

[OlderAndWiser]

If you trust him only when he does not have an opportunity to be unfaithful, then you really don't trust him at all.

[Th3ft]

So you do have a rite to be conferenced for sure. But like you said he has been amazing with you so far and you also said he didn’t even know who else was going. What makes you think he mean get try something if he literally doesn’t even know who else is going?

it sounds to me like you just need to trust in the fact that he does care about you and wouldn’t do anything even if the chance arose.

[Anonymous]

You admit you have insecurities and trust issues, so you need to work on those, and this is a great test for that. Do you trust him, completely? Also, think of the women that might go. They are there with their boyfriends right? Do you really think THEY are going to want to sleep or do anything with him, with their boyfriends right there, even if he wanted to? No, of course not. So you really do have nothing to worry about.

[TommyMountainFigure]

The best bit of advice I will give you is either trust your boyfriend and keep him, or mistrust him and ultimately lose him.
Sorry to sound so cold when I know how stressed you are by this, but there really is no other choice.

[spartan55]

He should be annoyed. If you don't trust him then break up, TODAY. The road you are going down is a great way to drive a guy to leave, just sayin.

[Anonymous]

I think you should contact your nearest Human Resources representative to reach an amiable resolution for all parties involved.

[TrillXHippy]

You asked who’s going and he said he doesn’t know. Problem solved. STOP OVERREACTING

[Anonymous]

As long as he isn't sharing a tent with someone it should be okay.

[Anonymous]

Hey cass. Trust your boyfriend💜

[exitseven]

It is just camping. Trust him. Trust yourself.

[bowenw]

I'm sure he knows who will be camping.

[Fromdusktilldawn]

Dude relax, you worry too much

[SignedAutographs]

Why does it matter if other girls are going?