"Never ever speak like a slut again". Am I right to say this to my girlfriend in this situation?

[Anonymous]

For fun, to make me jealous, she told "I've thought about sleeping with other guys". I got shocked and she said that again !! "I've thought about doing everything with other guys".

This happened 2 days ago and i punched her shoulder and she apologized. But she still says that was fun and I'm getting angry. Am I right to say "Never ever talk like slut again! If you does, our relationship will end".

What do you think?

[EmbraceThePain]

I do want to say, it wasn’t right of you to call her this and punch her shoulder, but at the same time it was also inappropriate for her to say what she has said to you. I think the only thing is good conversation between you to, where you have a serious talk about not liking certain things she has said and that if she can stop saying these things. Also, it would help to apologize for what you’ve done to her as well, as I think the conversation overall will turn out better for you and her and everyone would leave happy.

[Waldoe]

you can use better words... for example... "When you tease me, I want to leave you, there is NO reason to be cruel, so please think about your actions"

[Asker]

Thanks man. Yes I'll use more decent words

[Marushka]

If you say it like that it's just likely to result in an argument. She's trying to provoke you with that statement or get your attention. Instead have a mature talk about why she's saying that and what her intentions are. Having fantasies about other people isn't a bad thing in itself and could just indicate she misses something in your sexual relationship and it was a very non eloquent way to express that. However as she mentioned it was "fun" getting an emotional reaction out of you it sounds more malicious and that's not acceptable. Explain how it's hurtful and she's inconsiderate of your feelings and if she wants to try something new in the bedroom or there's something up she wants to talk about, she has to find more mature ways to express those things. Don't let her or anyone step over your feelings, especially once they've been warned about it

[Asker]

Thanks bud. But we both are virgins and she wants sex only after marriage. She said she love to watch me getting angry

[Little_Bumblebee]

Maybe it's better to ask her why she's doing it.

To me, it seems like a (bad) way to get your attention.
And there are healthier ways to communicate about it.

[Asker]

You're right. I think she's immature.

[spartan55]

I think you are both too immature to be in any sort of relationship.

[Asker]

I think you're right

[Anonymous]

"Never ever talk like slut again!" ok

If you does, our relationship will end" don't say that.

She needs to understand she's being a whore, not that you are disappointed.

[Asker]

Okay. Got that. thank you.

[Anonymous]

You are both total assholes but you belong in a prison.

[LimitedBenefits101]

yes and should have slapped her